23.11.16

gif day

Some people make gifs for our enjoyment, so let us sit back and enjoy a few.
So, just what you looking at young man...
A brave man would say he was just imagining using a tawse or belt on her bare bottom
but in our fantasy world, we know the result will be a baring
and a spanking for us for staring
and maybe her sister will insist on providing a helping hand
or in this case a helping slipper

bottoms up
Red

22.11.16

age play spanking tumblrs adventurous tuesdays


It is simply mind boggling how many spanking tumblr sites now exist... The tumblrs do not own the rights to the photos, but simply re-copy from other tumblrs, and from websites that show photos to attract customers. (I do the exact same thing, copying photos to spice up my posts.

Many of these tumblrs have a role play theme of women being dressed as school girls and being spanked.  So here are just a few of the many sites that exist.

 


This blog is all about a man's love of spanking, his love of the female posterior in general, submission, spanking related activities such as corner time and pretty much anything else he likes.
A wonderful gif  of Audrey Knight(okay ,not dressed as a school girl, but simply delightful!

A site filled with photos of women being spanked, by both women, and occasionally men.  Many photos are age play as shown in this photo.

A site filled with age play, of women spanking younger looking women
Age play photos seem to be there specialty, of  young women being spanked by older women



So, if role play is a fantasy, why not make it a reality in your consensual spanking activities.

bottoms up
Red

21.11.16

How to ask to be spanked in your relationship


 The PERPETUAL QUESTION:
A reader wrote this to me privately recently:

Hi Red: I'm a regular reader of your blog, but I haven't yet disclosed my level of interest to my wife. Thought about it for a long time, but still waiting for the right time. Nevertheless, I'm sure I'm one of many that consider you somewhat of a legend in the F/M spanking scene, and consequently, I want to ask you for your opinion. If you don't find time to respond, it is Ok because I'm sure you receive many similar questions. I'm on a conference call the other day, while working from home, and I hear a little "ahh" from the next room. I listened for a couple of seconds, and realized the vacuuming continued to happen, banging against the wall. So, I knew that whatever happened was not some injury requiring my attention. However, later my wife walked by asking if I heard her make a noise. When I answered yes, she became very angry with me because I did not come running. Two days have passed, and she is still mad at me. She is feeling unimportant and hurt because I did not come to her rescue to make sure she was OK. I'm annoyed at her, because this "needing to be rescued and coddled" has happened numerous times now. While I think it is silly and immature, I find my spanking side wondering if this is a chance to suggest that future situations where she feels I have let her down, be met with spankings. On one hand, I think the notion of always being the victim and making me out to be the bad guy that isn't there for her is ludicrous, but on the other hand, I wonder if I should just suck it up and try and make something positive out of it.
This is where I wonder if you have some advice. You use spankings to solve problems, but do you use them to solve problems of this sort where you might think that you are right and she is wrong? Its funny, but I feel that regardless of who is right and who is wrong, if a spanking is involved, maybe I won't care so much.

Anyway, great blog, and if you have any advice, it is much appreciated.
Thanks, MC.

**************
Well MC, maybe it is time to re-visit this topic, briefly.
I have no idea of how long you are married, how liberated or rigid your relationship is, and what other factors exist in your lives. All of these might change the answer.

Recommendation One: purchase the "Please spank me" booklet from the http://www.auntkaysdwc.com/   IT will give you a little more confidence, before discussing with your wife.

Recommendation Two: Make certain that there are no problems to speak about for a while, so that the harmonious nature of your marriage is in a good phase. Every relationship has ups and downs, so don't broach the topic when other difficulties are present. Be open and honest with your wife, and bring the elephant out of the closet, and talk about your desires. Go slowly, and give her lots of time to think about it.

Recommendation Three: If she does not categorically dismiss the idea as childish and totally crazy, ask if she wold like to look at the DWC website. Remember to keep stressing that you do NOT want to be treated as a child, that she is NOT replacing your mother, but simply your partner, who may use spankings to create a more harmonious situation whenever she feels it is necessary. It allows her to be in charge, and when upset, have a way to deal with your transgressions.

Recommendation Four: When reading the DWC website, state that much of what is written is excellent, whereas other parts are "too over the top". Give her the power to decide how she might like to start implementing spanking in your relationship. I would also STRONGLY recommend buying the lifestyle kit.

Almost Lastly: Whether you think it trivial or serious, if she thinks you should be spanked for something she thinks is important, you must give up the right to say no! But the lifestyle kit, gives a well thought out plan of how to initiate spakings in your relationship...

Lastly: please start at my blog at the beginning, and skim to find out how spanking has developed between Cindy and I.

DEFINITELY MY LAST THOUGHT FOR NOW!! Nothing you read on this blog, or the DWC website will fit your exact situation. Also, some of what you read may be too extreme, whereas some which you read may be too mild! I find some of the people that wrote in Real People, or who signed the guest book at the Dwc website to be too extreme for our view of DWC. We also do not agree with any drawing of blood. Your partner may not by nature wish to cause pain. The idea of a dwc relationship is something that grows over time, as the improvements in your living together in love blossoms even fuller with spankings.

good luck
bottoms up
Red

20.11.16

A special OTK Thanksgiving present

If you are wondering what to purchase for your wife as a surprise gift, here is a site you might find interesting
tee-shirt amusing.  Now, you will need to explain to your unsophisticated friends that OTK  stands for
 and that you dabble in encryption topics now and then.
or

you can find more of these products  at

or at  WEOTK if you would like to see more of these products
You could always purchase a cup
because would you really wear a tee shirt out of the house?
Wearing the tee shirt around the house
could be used  as a reminder that you might be spanking your partner later, or that you would like to be spanked sooner than later

You could say you got this at a ANIME convention 
Otakuthon, Montreal's anime convention (OTK is pronounced as "O-tak")


A parting thought always worth remembering. If your partner takes the time and effort to spank you , always thank them when the spanking is finished. Otherwise...
bottoms up
red

18.11.16

Love Our Lurkers (that means you)

A simple post, with similar being posted by many other bloggers, whose primary focus is spanking, and life in general.

The thought is that it would be nice if you leave a comment or two on one of these blogs, specially if you visit frequently, but hide in the shadows.

Share your thoughts about spanking! You might write a little about your spanking lifestyle, or just how you find the topic intriguing, and thus are researching a little.


I might be so bold to say that almost every blogger who writes about being spanked, ABSOLUTELY ENJOY THE FACT THAT THEY ARE SO WELL SPANKED AND LOVED.

WELL, LET ME CLARIFY...

I like the idea that Cindy:
will say I am going to spank you (or simply blurts out " pull down your pants and bend over as she reaches for a spanking implement ...no warning..simply NOW!!!!"

i become less happy with spanking while the spanking continues and strengthens

i love the affection and warmth and the sore bottom afterwards as a reminder that the spanking was given with love, and because Cindy loves me!

So, if you please, leave a comment on a few people's blogs today, and you can sign it with a fictitious name, which you can then use in future comments so that the blogger can get to know you a little.
TO SEE A LIST  OF SPANKING BLOGGERS SITES, PLEASE VISIT

 Hermione   , who has a list of other bloggers who I know would love you to stop by and say hello.
bottoms up
Red

17.11.16

A few smiles for ladies who enjoy being spanked

When P has a bad meal at a restaurant that Ronnie suggested
and discussions are always fun between Ronnie and P
 Playing dumb always works to earn a spanking
 and even if they go sailng
something to remember
 and wouldn't we all love to do this.....
bottoms up
Red

16.11.16

Spank oz has moved to http://spankinglife.net

Here is a letter I received from Steve;

Red,

how are you? I hope all is well.
I liked the article a while ago about Spanked men - I'm not into it personally, but the pictures were nice nevertheless.

Anyways, I had to move my entire blog recently:

... my IT guy made a "minor" glitch in the software, I could no longer use some basic features.
Which is why I decided to move my entire blog to a new domain (spankinglife.net ) and repost the existing posts there and rebuild the blog from scratch (again...)

I was wondering, would you maybe update the link in your article as well?
That would be very nice .

Have a great weekend !

Steve

This site has very useful information for people new to spanking, and for everyone who have been in the lifestyle for quite some time.
Their is useful information on the site, without having to purchase this book.
so, whether you are a woman who is spanked
or the man that is spanked
always remember to thank the spanker for your spanking
They have a FACEBOOK page, but be EVER so careful to not be in the same browser as your reall identity, unless you want your spanking thoughts and situation displayed to all your friends.

bottoms up
Red

15.11.16

spanking pussy (adventurous tuesdays)

Some sites will give you erotic spanking photos, but they are usually only found sporadically on different tumblrs.
Everything about spanking devolves around intensity...
Is this a light caress, aiming you know where, or is it  meant to be a painful spank.
This one is definitely punitive by the reactions
whereas this seems to be bringing the woman to an earth shaking orgasm

and as this woman squirms on your upper thigh when being given a real spanking, the fire most certainly is also burning in her pussy..
another idea is to help the lady orgasm while you are spanking her

So, a question to any ladies that are spanked.... (or to men that spank their lady...

Have you ever had your pussy lightly spanked?

and an additional question

Have you ever orgasm-ed while being spanked in the last pictured position.

Remember, the spankee is always actually in charge
I just created this post, then went to tumblr, and the second item was this gif
and then
and yes, I need a post of the same implement spanking a man's erection...
whatever you do, play carefully, 

and make certain it is consensual!

bottoms up
Red

14.11.16

vintage photos

A simple post to start your day. I w2onder what movie this photo is from?


Riding school anyone... kinky settings were often used
so many men would have offered to help this young lady
Charming, waiting to be spanked?
i would run if this woman was waiting with this flogger..
The implement is scary, the woman delightful
 
What a delightful knee to bend over, but hope Bettie Paige will be kind(ish0
 
looks like she is loving it
love the stockings framing her bottom, but this woman looks frightened about the caning to come
 
Friends are always smiling when they see you being spanked
and the look on your face is delightful ,and your bottom will be on display when you are standing in the corner
and some follow-up photos from caption day
 fun film to be a paticipant

the movie was a Hungarian film titled The Round-UP , filmed in 1966

Spanking and sex, has been delightfully around from ancient times..

bottoms up
Red