We are trying a somewhat different approach, at my request. My history has always been the in charge, person. In officiating, I had assistants, but was the final decider. Rarely was I the assistant. At work, I was in charge of my group, period!
With Cindy, I do not back down easily.
Thus, I am encouraging Cindy to simply stop when I am starting to be dominant in a discussion about something, and spank me!
Today, after a amicable, but definite difference of opinion, we left the topic.
Later, I went to Cindy with the wooden bath brush, and asked her to spank me for the disagreement. Cindy readily obliged, but stated I do not even remember what we were talking about, nor did I.
Numerous hard spanks, as a bath brush always gives hard spanks. Lecture while the spanking was happening, and then it finished. I suggested you should do more, and Cindy happily did ten more hard spanks to one cheek, and then the other.
I am hoping that if we do this every time, I MAY become less dominant.
What methods are you using to lessen your dominant personality?