30.6.20

momma spanks

A tumblr blog has sprung back to life after a hiatus, and it is worthwhile for you to visit. It has excellent advice for every woman who is head of the household, or man if he is the head of the household.

The approach is quite similar to what Aunt Kay professed, and is worthwhile to read. Momma will answer intelligent and civil questions, so think about it if new to spanking.

I have included a few of her tips on how to do domestic discipline.
Momma’s Real Talk Tip 30:
Quiet Quarantine blues! Spending more time with the whole family everyday brings up lots of little issues that need straightened out. Unfortunately, the little ones are in the house too! I can’t just drop Poppa’s underoos and tan his behind in the living room! Spankings are usually loud, especially his crying! So how do we handle correction? Here are some tips.
I have taken him by the hand and led him to his study or my office, where I gave a quiet but stern scolding. I usually then put his nose against the wall, or in the corner, take his phone and set a timer. He may come out when the timer is up. I have washed his mouth out in the master bathroom once during this time, as it is quiet and unpleasant for him.
Finally, on a few occasions, I have sent the kids outside to play on the swing set or feed the animals. I then lock the bedroom door and over my knee he goes. A wooden spoon is much quieter than he will be, and you don’t have to spend long sorting out a sassy mouth or him leaving a mess! We can always wait til the children are good and asleep, realistically they do not wake up easily, but some things can be dealt with quickly. Good luck with lock down, let me know if you have any questions!

Momma’s Real Talk Tip 31:
Follow through! Alright, Ladies. You have threatened, redirected the behavior (chores, maybe?) and given a time out… but hubby still doesn’t shape up. It’s time to follow through.
There are many different ways to correct poor behavior, but they all hinge on a good spanking. The act of baring his bottom and being spanked by you will make him much more receptive of the other disciplinary measures you have to take. He needs to know you are willing to bare his bottom and put him in tears. Let him know his boundaries, and when he passes them, follow through. Let me know if we can talk through some solutions, Ladies! I’m here for you
The idea of spanking him into tears is one we have never tried, and I missed an opportunity due to cowardness when we once visited Aunt Kay. I have long regretted this, as Cindy I feel needs to have seen or at least heard me being spanked to tears.
Here is the ADVICE on being BRAVE enough to KEEP SPANKING HIM when you are wanting to stop. " THESE ARE THE TYPE OF PADDLINGS THAT I HAVE TO BE CAREFUL DO NOT GET ME CRYING WHILE GIVING THEM.
Momma’s Real Talk Tip 29: 
The bad ones. I do not like it, but all marriages and relationships will have some events happen that rattle the roof. Things that are very upsetting. Things that are dangerous to him (he loves physical risk) to our relationship, or to our family. Selfishness, or dishonesty. As I am in charge of my husband’s behavior, I cannot afford to be sad and hurt... I have to take action to correct and direct. Again, this is not something I enjoy, but the consequences have to be severe.
This is when I put down my Momma spoon, and pick up the Principal’s paddle. I have a large school paddle in one of his dresser drawers, and it comes out for the very worst days. We both got the belt at home on very, very rare occasions. I have taken his belt to him in the past, and it works, but I found he hates the paddling worst of all. I bend him over the desk in my office, and the house needs to be empty, with the kids at least outside. He is going to be extremely vocal. These are the kind of paddlings that I have to be careful do not get me crying while giving it. But I stay strong, and make sure that he never, ever thinks about a repeat offence. Do not ease up, this is punishment as well as guidance. He will be wailing uncontrollably by the end, and that is hard for me to take. But I love him, and cannot let him think those behaviors are acceptable. This is for the good of our family, and our future.
If he needs it, Ladies, you will know it. Be strong, be brave, do not be gentle. He will love you even more for it. He just may not love chairs for a few days. I’m rooting for you.
Momma

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1 comment:

Tomy Nash said...

Red, I still can recall your visit, the view from the hill top behind you at the kitchen table.

Although I never witnessed the events when Aunt Kay took visiting hubby and wife into a room for private demonstration I certainly heard enough.