We have a decent pension,so if we use it wisely, all is well financially. The house is paid for, and we live modestly. Of course, it took effort and cutting every corner or coupon to save money during our working years, and having vacations.
We travel modestly (or frugally, which I would say is thoughtfully.) . Why have a balcony, when a interior cabin on a cruise ship has the same food, the same entertainment, the same ports. Why stay in an expensive hotel, when a inexpensive airbnb is available, more in the area of where people live. Why travel in peak season, when the off-season rates are just so much better, with less crowds.
Additionally, Cindy has grown to enjoy my fetish of spanking, and it has benefitted us immensely.
Kids came quickly,so sex went onto the back burner often.
Now, with no one at home except us, let the games begin. We do try to kep the windows closed, as our orgasms are extremely loud and UNBELIEVABLE.
Both our leather and our canes runneth over.
Cindy is even spanked at tmes, and sometimes asks when she knows she has done something to upset me that was unnecessary or just her anxiety getting the better of her.
My spankings are normally over the knee with a wooden implement or the short leather tawse
and we have moved to using the cane for quick strong spankings. No time is needed to lower your pants and underwear and bend over a table, then WHACK,whack, whack