she had a little fit like this yesterday, and thus after a lot of shouting, where I can outshout her, she slowed and then stopped. The anxiety was caused by trying to be too perfect with everyone and everything, instead of practicing some calming techniques.
When all was calm, and we had talked things out, she realized that she had " flown off the handle" . I wonder where that expression comes from, so very long ago in my youth. I looked it up and one reference to the head of a hammer flying off when the hammer was being swung.
I calmly said that if I had done that, I would have been spanked, so maybe you should be spanked!
We went upstairs immediately, bare bottom, over my knees, while I delayed the embarrassment by asking if her arms were okay, her shoulders, her hands. Cindy is embarrassed to be in this position, so best to enhance that feature, so she might think of it, if I say SPANKING if you continue!
In sets of two, with a pause between to talk why she was being spanked prolonged the punishment In total, just ten firm spanks with the hairbrush, and Cindy was buckling to get off my lap. As the number was quoted to be ten spanks, I permitted her to get up, and with a little prodding, she thanked me for her spanking.
I think it will be sufficient for quite a long time, but I also realize I will be spanked more often now for quite sometime.