2.12.18

ask to be spanked

If the Christmas season is starting to stress you, there is a solution.

I did this yesterday, when I retrieved the bath brush and asked Cindy to spank me.

{Now, a little aside at this point. I am male, and do not stress about Christmas shopping and everything involved with this wonderful season.  I am the type that could do all the shopping on Christmas Eve day. I find it a wonderful time of year. Lots to do, and lots of enjoyment getting things done. What I hate is sitting around with nothing to do, and thus I look up inexpensive lovely vacations, and we  travel often.

CINDY DOES STRESS, SOMETIMES MASSIVELY! DEALING WITH HER STRESS LEADS ME TO BE ANXIOUS, SO I WORK VERY HARD AT KEEPING US ORGANIZED, AND AS LITTLE STRESS AS POSSIBLE.  Asking to be spanked relieved my anxiety, and helped Cindy deal with her stress.

She very happily agreed!
I handed her the bath brush, bared my bottom, and was prone over her lap, on the couch where she was sitting.
A very thorough spanking was given, and Cindy has not used the bath brush for quite some time. Cindy used the brush alternating cheeks, then on one cheek repetitively, and then the same treatment for the other cheek.  A little lecture of how this is needed regularly, which I agreed with.

When permitted to rise, I thanked her for the spanking, and kissed her. She put the bath brush down, and went back to her knitting. I went to the bathroom to look in the mirror, and saw that telltale grey area inside the red area of my bottom, truly showing a well spanked bottom.

Today, my bottom is still sore, and after a shower, a significant part of my bottom was red.

A bath brush, or any wooden implement, punishes deeply, whereas a leather implement has a stinging intensity.

I expect many more spankings, as very few occurred when we were with family, but happened daily when we are our own.

Advice: if you or your spouse are stressed, ask to be spanked.

bottoms up
 
Red

14 comments:

Baxter said...

We don't stress anymore about the holidays. Used to be what to get this person or that person or should this one get a tin of homemade cookies and all that stuff. I told R to forget all that because primarily we never got anything in return or any presents without being prompted. So nephews and nieces get nothing from us. And we never had kids, so less issues. So we buy for each other. We went to the model railroad hobbyshop yesterday and I bought a bunch of stuff for her to give me and she has called up this fiber company down south and ordered a bunch of yarn for weaving. We try to keep the dollar amounts close to even. But having said all that, I do regularly get spanked. Our 35th anniversary is next weekend and we are going into Chicago to a hotel and doing jazz clubs and all that. She told me to make sure I pack a spanking implement as she will definitely need to use it during our trip. I am so looking forward to next weekend and asking her to spank me.

QBuzz said...

I think a good Christmas gift to ask for would be '12 Spanks of Christmas' instead of '12 Days', but with each set multiplied by 12 :D
So it would be '12x12 hand spanks, 11x12 riding croppings, 10x12 whacks with a paddle... all the way down to 'and a dozen with the cane on your bare arse!'

Anonymous said...

Spanking does help with stress, be it the spankers or spankee's stress. I have asked Robyn many times for a good spanking, and many times just because I want one. So far I've never been turned down. She is happy to spank me any time I want one.
archedone

Anonymous said...

QBuzz: This is the way we have been observing the "Twe

Anonymous said...

QBuzz: This is the way we have been observing the "Twelve Days of Xmas" for quite some time - and, usually, with B. (my sister) who regularly comes to visit from France - as she will again this year - and joins me in the "traditional" way we begin by applying the hairbrush on Day 1, then continue with 2, 3 "tools", etc. until we each apply twelve different ones on January 6 - by which time his derrière is beautifully scored - and he is both contrite... and duly thankful!
J.

Anonymous said...

My "thankfulness" is somewhat forced (my being "contrite" is not!) but, over the years since J & B have initiated this "tradition", I have come to accept it as an inevitable ritual... just as the Summer version that occurs when we visit B in her country home in Burgundy...
L.

Red said...

Baxter: hope you had a wonderful time, visiting jazz clubs, and being spanked. Possibly you could write me privately, giving suggestions for Chicago, as we were thinking of going there in the summer. Happy anniversary, and you definitely needed to be spanked on that specific day.


qbuzz: dream on, Let me know how it went if you ever try that.


J: Merry Christmas

L: bottoms up


Red

Anonymous said...

Oh, it will definitely be a a "Merry Christmas" (the twelve days of it!) with my sister being present (and with "M" probably joining us at some point)... L. is already on tenterhooks as he anticipates what's in store for
him :-)
J.

Red said...

J: bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

My sister will be arriving tomorrow - and even though the "12 days" program will not start until Xmas day, I am sure that we shall have some advance "practice" :-)
J.

Anonymous said...

Much as I feared (but expected), J & B lost no time before delivering a "preview" of what they have in store for me over the 12 days of Xmas... using a "sampler" of J's tools in brief succession... (B. hasn't lost the "skills" she last demonstrated this past Summer) :-(
L.

Anonymous said...

This was just for practice... The "real thing" begins on Tuesday. And you know what to expect!
J. (and B.)

Red said...

J: practice??? a odd name to call it, smiling

bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

B. felt that she needed "practice" on the grounds that she hasn't spanked or whipped L. since we were at her place in July (a likely story :-) ) but I was glad to oblige and -not surprisingly - to see that she hasn't lost her firm hand... Today - on Day 2 - we added the strap to the program, and L. took it (the paddle + the strap) like a good little soldier... Tomorrow, the maple switches will be added to the program!
J.