Cindy solved that yesterday, when she decided I should come upstairs with her, and please get me a cane.
I have mostly chosen the teacher style cane, as it is effective, and a little whippy, and easy to hold. Having to retrieve it and hand it to Cindy does rev up the submission involved.
The crooked neck acts as a handle, and thus Cindy can swish it around a little, or simply bend it to increase it's flexibility while I placed the pillows on the bed, and bared my bottom.
Again, arranging the bed, and baring yourself to be caned is enforcing and enhancing the submission.