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warning spanking before guests arrive

The key word is arrive, as some of my spankings are given so that I sit on a warm, or hot, or sore bottom during dinner, to remind me to drink less wine.

When I have too much wine, I talk way too much, so spankings have helped me curtail that.

This was a quick over the knee, bare bottom, with the short tawse swiftly spanking  my bottom, with a few extra choice strokes for the top of the back of the legs. Cindy has come to enjoy my re-action when spanks occur there, as she sees how effective she is being.

Anytime she uses the tawse, she is effective, as I try to stay still, but my feet inevitably start dancing, and i start grunting or owwing.

The evening went well, and although a lot of wine was consumed, it was more by each guest than by me, and I also keep my water glass handy to keep drinking water also.

Do you sometimes get a warning spanking before guests arrive?

bottoms up
Red

11 comments:

  1. Only one time, previous by her best friend, I got carried away, stepped over the line, friend single. A couple of hours before her arrival I was given a very sound spanking, had to face the wall. Her friend arrived, noticed the difference, also notice sitting was a problem. My wife explained and then gave her friend a present, a hairbrush for when she gets married, it will be needed. Seth

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  2. Never had a warning spanking prior to guest arriving. But having said that I have had a few warning spanking prior to leaving on a road trip as I sometimes tend to drive too fast and sometimes say some bad things about other drivers. She feels having a stinging and sore bottom to sit on reminds me. She's right it does.
    archedone

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  3. I have had warning spankings before guests arrived and before going to a party at someone's home. My wife says it helps me behave and she loves seeing me squirm when I sit down. Warning spankings do help me behave.

    I also get a Friday night maintenance spanking when she gets home from work and before we go out to dinner. She love how uncomfortable I am sitting in a restaurant.

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  4. I have had warning spankings before road trips, before leaving house if going somewhere special, but not a before guests arrive one, yet anyway.

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  5. N. and J. both - over the years - have several times made a point of delivering an "advance" spanking as a warning to "behave", whether before we have guests coming to visit, or before we go out to visit friends. I must admit that such "reminders" are usually effective...

    L.

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    1. I don't use "advance spankings" as often as I should - but L. has (many times) been treated to an "after" spanking when he has misbehaved in a "social" gathering (usually when we get home, but even - a few times - on a roadside stop on the way back)

      J.

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    2. J: good, but better to nip the problem in the bud, before the event, to guarantee no misbehavior.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    3. "Misbehavior" is never really guaranteed and I don't mind warning L. of an impending spanking when only women are within earshot :-)

      J.

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    4. J: would some of these women be people who did not know that you spank your husband/
      bottoms up
      Red

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  6. I had one a while back. before I was to host a bunch of people for dinner. and I was getting really frazzled and stressed. I must say it did wonders to help me feel better and I dare say I was the picture of calm efficiency all thru the night.

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  7. Seth: it may be needed, but it needs to be consensual, otherwise it is simply abuse.
    archedone: spanked before driving does give you a reminder while you are seated, and also can lead to another : Pull over here" reminder if needed.

    Dan: sounds delightful,a nd i am certain it works. IT does for me.

    otkloverjohn: always a new reason lurking around the corner. You might suggest it if you know the company is not your fun choice.

    L: very effective

    Fondles: proof positive that it calms us, and removes the stress

    bottoms up
    Red

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