Cindy Spanked

We seem to be evolving, and it is not for every couple, but occasionally Cindy is spanked. This was and is spankings that she has requested.

Background: While on the cruise, we once changed cabins, but Cindy was quite sick, so stayed in bed while I packed. No Problem. When it was time to depart the ship and head home, Cindy helped pack, over my objections that it was easier and more relaxing for one to do than two  people in a small cabin.

Cindy had a meltdown! Overwhelmed, with stuff all over the place, a bit of shouting back and forth, my forcing her (I know - not consensual) over my knee for one spank,trying to calm her down. It ended up where I had soreness in my chest, probably caused by our blood pressure reaching crazy heights.

Absolutely no reason: Simple packing... everything simply goes in the suitcases!!!!! , and the valuables go in the carry-on. We finally finished by both were exhausted.

The next day, Cindy on her own 'out of the blue' volition said how wrong she had been, we can never have that type of argument and stress again, and that I should give her THREE spankings!  WHOA!

Pardon,  me, but what did you just ask for????

Three spankings so I learn never to do that again.
Being such a thoughtful and loving husband, Cindy has received her first spanking, and I have stated it will be one a week. Cindy has weakly, and meekly stated I only said a spanking.

My response was good try, but I intend to do what you first asked and that was for THREE spankings

 A few days ago, it was time for her first spanking. . Knowing more about spanking than when we first started, I had Cindy over my lap while I was propped up on the bed. Thus she was prone, no pressure on arms or hands or shoulders.

A slow methodical spanking rhythm, without any spank hard enough to produce and owww, but enough to start warming her bottom. (A warmed bottom can stand a stronger spanking).

Lecture at times: you asked me to do this, because you know how badly you behaved....
More spanks...

If we forgot something in the cabin, we could always purchase another item to rpelace it if we wanted.
More spanks

Next time you will let me do the packing for both of us.
Raise your bottom so I can take down your panties...

More spanks
Cindy stated: Not too many spanks, my bottom is sore...

Not as sore as it will be, this is just the warm-up
I then picked up the leather heart shaped metal studded paddle,, that Cindy loves to use, but has RARELY ever felt on her bottom

Cindy : not that, just your hand!
Numerous fast sharp spanks, and then a pause. You asked for a spanking, three as a matter of fact. So I intend to give you a real spanking.

Numerous fast spanks all on one cheek.
" You know that I give you permission to spank me for whatever or even for no reason whenever you want"
Numerous fast spanks on the other cheek.

If you are unhappy with the packing, simply stop and spank me, and then tell me precisely how we will proceed, but don't let yourself stress out.

Cindy: that's more than 20 spanks"
Yes it is, and I am not yet finished! (Previous spankings have been limited to 20 spanks)

A few more methodical spanks, going from one cheek to the other, some lower at the top of the legs, some at the top of Cindy';s bottom, and a very nice shade of red was present.
I have forgot to mention that I massaged her bottom when any discussion was occurring.

Okay, let's finish up now, and a rapid burst of many spanks and the spanking ended.

I asked Cindy what she had to say, and she slowly said: thank you for my spanking.

The lovemaking that followed  was amazing. We chatted afterwards, as usual, and are simply amazed at how awesomely  wonderful our making love is.

bottoms up



Never been spanked to tears, but acute pillow none the less.
Pillows have raised my bottom countless times for a spanking.

It works wonders when spanked with a long tawse
for women and mens' bottom 
Have you ever been spanked in this manner, with your bottom raised by a pillow?

Hopefully this brings a smile to you from me.

only in Canada.......................
bottoms up


Bottoms Up

My favorite saying, because it has two meanings
 Thus, it always makes me think of
 or Cindy stating bottoms up TIME!
 and the caption below is very apropo! (I found it on a tumblr some years ago...
PS: I know the spanker and spankee above, and she has spanked me once. If she looks at this post, it might be another trip over her knee, but a much stronger spanking than last time.

a few smiles for today
 but then again, be always willing to try something new
bottoms up


Sex and spanking

The following comes from WEBMD.com
No more, “Not tonight, Dear.” It turns out that sex can help ease pain when you have certain kinds of headaches -- especially migraines. It’s also been shown to improve heart health, ease stress, and boost mental alertness.

As the opening to this post states, avy spanking I receive relieves STRESS, and combined with sex afterwards, you are doing a very heart healthy exercise, not to mention the exercise the spanker gets in spanking you, and the exercise the spankee gets by running an imaginary mile with the feet kicking and dancing everywhere. Wow, it also improves my listening abilities, because you pay close attention to every word of what you did wrong, and how to correct it. Mental alertness guaranteed while you are being spanked.

Many of my regular readers of this blog are in a spanking relationship with their partner, and many times either immediately after being spanked make passionate love with their partner, or within the next day or two.
For a significant spanking, most times you will see me helping place Cindy's spanking high heel shoes on for her, as this shows my submission, and raises her knees so that I do not fall off.
Then it is time to either be bared for my spanking
or bare my bottom myself and await the words
Sometimes, Cindy is so delighted with the idea of spanking me that she gives me the choice of which implement should she use  FIRST.....
Depending on the reason I am spanked, determines whether we make love afterwards. Almost every significant spanking
is followed by fantastic sex, as the spanking arouses both Cindy and myself, and the problem that caused the spanking has been solved.
However, on the spot corrections just solves a small annoyance, and with simply get on with our day.

So, if you have never been spanked, but have the desire to experiment with it, why not ask your partner for a spanking?
bottoms up


how a gift gets you spanked

A simple post from yesteryear...
Your loving wife's response is foretold long ago!
She definitely was not pleased with your gift
bottoms up
and have you seen the new version of StarWars, not rogue one, but rouge one!



Spanking thoughts for today

Spankings work for both men and women, and many of us appreciate being spanked for fun, or for discipline, or for both reasons..Hopefully, this is NOT your situation!

As Ronnie, Hermione, Jan, Cat, Bonnie, Cheryl, and so many many more have stated
However, women should and do know that it works for men to be spanked
and this is the absolute best way:
and corner time allows the man or woman  to reflect on his behavior, and learn to behave better
and this states the reality of our fascination with spanking

bottoms up


the wooden hair brush

The wooden hair brush is probably the first implement you were ever spanked with by your partner. Your first spanking might have been by your partner's hand, but this was probably the first implement.
1. They are always so conveniently found in any part of a house for that on the spot correction
2. No words are needed when you see your wife sitting solemnly on the spanking chair with the brush on her lap
 3. Your wife will sit patiently waiting while you bare your bottom, because any delay that you try
will just give her more motivation while she spanks you

and the wallops will come from a greater height
3.Your wife will become happy while she spanks you, as she works out her frustrations and aggravations that you have caused
4. Her methodical method of delivering your punishment will be the foundation of a happy union, which you can be assured will continue for your entire life

5. While the hair brush remains in plain sight, no one knows you are spanked with this brush, unless they are told. However, if she has told her friend, she will probably be showing her how it is done sooner or later.
6. And then, she might even give her friend a hair brush for hristmas, and let her practice using it on your bottom.
 7. Finally, no need to worry about your buddy knwoing you are spanked, his future is preordained
and your wife will enjoy learning
but remember never challenge the spanker
And, just be really careful if she purchases a solid ebony hairbrush
and never EVER comment:
bottoms up