Jan writes: I am a fifty something wife, happily married. We have been doing ttwd / dd for a few years. We are now even more happily married :).
The wonderful thing about blogging, and commenting on other peoples spanking blogs, is that you get to connect with REAL PEOPLE, In our life, we do not have any friends that live nearby, that we would ever talk about spanking with. the spanking friends that we (actually I) have built-up live a long distance away, so one could talk about spanking without being judged.
Some bloggers tell you about their everyday things, some focus solely on spanking, but it let's you connect that we are just normal people, with a decided kink to either spank, but in most cases, be spanked.
Most blogs, where the creator writes about spanking themes, are people who are spanked. Rarer are the blogs that are written by the spanker.
So, I wholeheartedly recommend that you drop by Jan's house and say hello. The more sites you visit the merrier.
Aside: spanking tumblrs are great for pictures and captions, but you never really get to know the person who is creating the site.
Here is one for your fantasy..