New Year Resolutions

I am not one to make resolutions, as I would like to think that I am open minded enough to make changes whenever needed!  However:

Resolution 1 : for those men wishing to be spanked by their partner... maybe leave this visible on your computer screen by accident

RESOLUTION 1 FOR THE LADIES: try the direct approach

If you have had trouble convincing your husband to spank you, resolve to try the direct approach!

 Resolution 2 : for a woman wanting to stop her husband's computer naughtiness

Resolution 3: if  a  woman is disappointed in her partner
Resolution 4: that a man's eyes should not wander
These came from a fun site with some interesting spanking captions, but, unfortunately, it also has edging and chastity photos. (What naughty boys get.. but happy we are only into spanking)

Happy New Year's Eve: DO NOT DRINK AND DRIVE, or at least, if you have a couple of drinks, make certain you eat enough, and enough time elapses, so that your alcohol level on a breathizer is an acceptable level for where you live!

bottoms up



Here is a fun video of winter driving.... assuming you are not looking at a snowstorm outside your window!


Winter driving tip
Driving in the snow is like eating pussy
If you don't slow down and pay attention you could slide into the asshole in front of you! 

Not that that would be a bad thing!
Be careful this winter!
even if you drive carefully, expect to be spanked often!
bottoms up



I have recorded many of my spankings, but by no way more than about 60 per cent of them. Many short spankings with the soup stirrer in the kitchen are too numerous to count, and are not even included in thinking of the number of spankings I have received.

This spanking was somewhat new, in that it involved using my belt on my bare bottom. The reason was simply that too long had passed, and the daily stresses were taking their toll on our relationship.

Informed I would be spanked earlier in the day
I was eventually requested to join Cindy in the bedroom.

This time, i was bare bottomed, with a pillow under my hips, while I was lying on the bed.

The belt was folded, so it was doubly as thick, and it is already a thick belt. The reason we rarely use it while traveling is that it echoes tremendously, and makes a lot of noise. The next door cabin on a cruise ship does not bother us for a wooden implement, but the belt probably would be heard a long distance away, and thus could cause a commotion that is neither recommended nor wanted. One or two people knowing is fine, but twenty cabins would be a difficulty.
The advantage of this belt is that Cindy can travel allover my bottom, both the top of the cheeks the sit spot, occasionally concentrating on just the closest cheek meaning the edge of the belt lands inside the crack of my bottom, and the top of the legs. Cindy can also create a rhythm for herself like she is in a exercise class! The rhythm  for me is quite different, as leather spanks deep, without the sharpness that produces an immediate foot dance. Thus, Cindy is quite content to spank longer, and harder, which is much safer than with a wooden bath brush.
I was squirming somewhat from side to side when Cindy decided my bottom looked suitably spanked, and I was permitted to rise and look in the mirror, after thanking her for the spanking! My bottom was a FIERCE Red, and very sore.

We embraced, caressed, and had a wonderful session of making love, orally.

My bottom has been sore for two days now, and on the second day after the spanking, the sit spot area was red after a shower. I do not know how a shower brings the color back to my bottom, but it certainly does.

If you have never tried a man's belt, you should sometime! The amount of added force with the swinging of the arm increasing the velocity of the belt is simply AMAZING!

bottoms up


smiles for today

You had better look twice
because some things are not what they appear to be at first glance. this is just a lady holding a glass.
keep looking, you will eventually see quite a few dolphins
 the following is very true
A wonderful thought for a woman to offer her man sometime soon!!!! Should I dare Ronnie to try this approach
be careful how you phrase advice!!
and remember:
lastly, beware the Dick police

bottoms up


Merry Christmas to everyone

Hope you have purchased for your wife a little extra special Christmas gift for just her eyes and yours, unless others know! (Gift idea comes from the Yahoo group spanked_by_their_wives)
HOWEVER: You should be doing family related activities instead of reading my blog!
Hopefully, if your wife finds out, she will correct your behavior quietly
well, it is up to YOU! the cane is quiet, so, CAN YOU BE QUIET while being caned?


May the day be delightful! 

Santa's taking the day off and resting, now that his work is done!

bottoms up


Time to exercise (your smiling ability)

A wonderful idea for Ladies, just in time for Christmas, here is a hint how to please your husband
 They are a wonderful view to wake-up to!

Click the following link, and it will make the men in the audience smile!

and remember,
Thus, you might think of me as
but, as always
your partner has decided it is dance time
bottoms up


the purpose of some spankings

In  a consensual spanking environment, spankings are given for one of two reasons.
Many times:
One might not actually feel the pleasure when the bath brush is descending
but after the spanking has stopped, you are left with the hot bottom, and enhanced submissive feelings, and love for your partner!
and this applies for both men and women

even at Christmas

bottoms up


Christmas cheer

Here is a very rude Christmas song, that I know many readers will enjoy.....

Make certain that no one who would disapprove can hear it!


Seems like the New Yorker knew something in 1939

And here is how Santa deals with those naughty ladies
 Looks like a wonderful list to own.. of all the naughty girls in town
but a word of warning to SANTA!!!
Merry Christmas
bottoms up


let your imagination have a good time

Enjoying life, is the most important thing you can do! Having a loving partner helps everyone enjoy life! I am very fortunate, and have the added extra happiness that Cindy satisfies my kink in TTWD (spanking me), and thus we solve problems, show our love for each other, and in so doing enhance a fabulous love affair, with wonderful sexual activities often!

So, some thoughts for today....
Imagine the following happening...  which might happen one day in CHICAGO!!!
You can imagine Cindy explaining to the friend's wife, or the friend's wife explaining to Cindy
This would be C from Chicago (not Cindy) spanking me!!! YIKES!!!
and this might be either wife with her husband!!1
bath brushes are EFFECTIVE!!
So, if we ever do meet, here's hoping they don't have other members of the DWC present at thesame time!
and we will never meet at the office
pleasant dreams
bottoms up