watch what you ask for

Some people think spankings are just for fun.

However, beware what you ask for, as you may never know who she asks for advice when spanking you  aka: disciplinarywivesclub
and when next she beckons
well, all I can say is
sometimes, we learn that thinking this is a fun activity is NOT always true

bottoms up


adventurous tuesdays

A somewhat random collection of different ideas that has a dominant woman and a submissive partner....

Has your wife ever had you lick your own climax out of her? This happens regularly if I climax in her first, because then I orally please her to her climax!  (but never been milked)
Be on your knees to her in public, with such a submissive position? Never doen this
Being naked and submissive in front of her friends? Only in my dreams
 however, I am certain many of my readers have done this (being naked over her  lap for a spanking)

Maybe you might like to comment about something that you have done as a submissive!

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the hair brush

Anyone interested in taking a photo of one of their  spanking implements and sending it to me privately would be appreciated. I can then post about specific people's favorite brush.

Amazingly, some people use it to brush their hair... but the look of amusement lets you know she is not intent on brushing her hair...
no mistaking what this brush is about to be used for
 and on who!!!
so when she sits on the chair, prepare yourself

The reasons it will be used are as varied as their are people
misbehavior gets spanked
enjoy your fate, (afterwards)
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beautiful when she is angry

A new tumblr has burst on the scene, and I think it is absolutely wonderful.. Gemma really has a way of putting words with pictures, that as she says are good for the office, as long as no one is close enough to read the words. These are samples from her site:

This is DEFINITIVELY appropriate for me, at times

Because, as this photo states, whenever any doubt existed and I was not spanked::
 and afterwards;
and this might happen to many men after they visit the beach

Gemma wrote to me: (I know this is a large amount of say nice things so he might post about my tumblr)
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spankster friday thoughts

fun thoughts
How people should dress!!!!
and it might just increase your lover's desires, besides your own
and as the lady says;
so enjoy life:
This beautiful perky woman is giving you a very NAU|GHTY suggestion
OH yes, remember to be spanked often (and try for some interesting positions like this woman
may you be lucky enough to be a man and have a wife say this to you
bottoms up


text spoken

Here is another little pastime you might try in the safety of your home, as long as the person who spanks you (your spanking partner) is not in range of hearing what is said.

Click the link below,(better yet, copy and paste it in another browser and have both half screen if possible), so you can see this photo on half of the screen.
Type the words on the screen into the text area which the woman with the slightly annoyed look on her face... will then state to you


You can even choose the language, so that you can imagine other ladies from your past saying the same spanking ideas prior too spanking your bottom

here are a few more to try,
but I am certain you know some of your own words that have been etched in your mind
while being scorched into your bottom
enjoy tell this to your wife to earn a spanking!
bottoms up


spanked by mistress tumblr

A reader who left a comment informed me of his tumblr, and as I had taken a photo from it (without actually remembering), I thought I would pass on the website to you. The photo is panys down and over my knee

Here is how he describes his tumblr:
I repost femdom pictures that I enjoy. The things I enjoy most are spankings (of any kind, with or without captions), pegging and any sort of female dominance, though I think I'll mainly stick to spankings here. I'm a 25ish male who is lucky enough to have a beautiful and loving mistress in his life. This blog will mostly feature re-posts, but I might also post pictures of myself when mistress decides that my spanked behind should be put on display. She already has decided that I should answer all your questions, so if you should have any of them, please ask and I'll answer as soon as possible. Enjoy!
Be warned: it also has transgender photos, which is not a problem for me, but may be for some readers.
Here is the link:

Personally, I hope that he advances to finding a partner, not just a mistress, because being dominated by a person who you love, and who loves you is far better than any financial arrangement!
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how one person found out he was submissive

This was posted as a comment by JayJay

For me it was a very sudden realization. I started out as the spanker with my first girlfriend, She would get over my knee and I would hand spank her bare fanny and finger her clitoris at the same time.

After we broke up and I started dating the woman would eventually become my wife.

I waited until we started having regular intercourse to suggest spanking with her. I said " would you like to try spanking?" Her response was "YES!! " but she added that she wanted to wait until she and her sister moved into their new apartment.

When the time finally arrived I got the surprise of my life. I made a move to give her a spanking and she stopped me immediately and said:

Hold it mister I'm not the one who is going to get spanked in this relationship.
Drop your pants and bend over the arm of that chair. I did as she ordered.
She took of the belt from her jeans 
 and I learned that I was a submissive male.
After she cracked that strap over my bare behind to her satisfaction she stood me in a corner,
stripped off her own clothes and sat down in the same chair That I was just spanked on.

She called me over to her, spread her legs and told me to go down on her. I was wild with passion and down I went.
I went from thinking that I was a dominant male to knowing that I was submissive male in one evening. We fell madly in love that night and still are. JayJay PS. Thanks for all those great pictures.


learning not to say SHOULD (cane)

When informed i could stand up, she had me stay standing, while she added a few more hard cane strokes to the upper part of my bottom. These were really really felt. These are still visible on my bottom today, whereas the first ones have disappeared.

I have a dominant personality, and it surfaces in our relationship at times. It might be related to the work i used to do, and also my lifetime activity of officiating sports and coaching teams.

Thus, I sometimes say how something should have or should NOT have been done,

instead of phrasing it:
It might have been better if you had avoided such and such... as opposed to
saying bluntly: you should not have done that!!!

I do not realize I say this, but Cindy being upset with my saying should gets brought to my attention in a memorable way.

I had stated this maybe 20 minutes before, when Cindy entered the room where I was in, took a ruler out  of the desk, and told me to lower my pants and bend over. This was a plastic ruler, and although it did make my skin somewhat red, it was not really felt. She stopped after a little while, and I apologized and thanked her.

A few minutes later, while getting ready to go out, i stated that the spanking was not felt, and she MIGHT (not so slow a learner) want to use the cane to be more effective. It only takes a minute, and it WORKS! Cindy agreed.
Bare bottomed, bent at the waist with arms extended onto the bed to support me, Cindy gave maybe twenty quick short cane strokes, that were very effective.

I once again thanked Cindy for the spanking, and the problem is solved for now. Cindy's normal cane strokes are like the black haired lady in the gif below.. They are effective

My girlfriend, the one with the black hair, is a dominatrix. She shares her accommodation with the redhead and it was not uncommon for me to call in to see her and she would have a ‘no-show’. Someone who hasn’t the nerve to take a beating when it comes down to it. They would both be cross with such a timewaster and the least I could do to cheer them up was to offer my bottom. Soon put a smile on their faces. And trickles of blood down my leg.
Today, I definitely avoided the word SHOULD!!!

Slow, hard cane strokes are really effective, as are string rapid fire strokes
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