6.1.14

the Look revisted

Thought you might find this amusing
 nothing.. and the look... run for the hills
watch that you do not give a dumb reply that you don't have the balls to spank me
and NEVER NEVER wear underwear labeled like this...one tough cookie..

you might find out the following
 that if you require being tied up
 there will be no mercy
enjoy life
bottoms up  (and smile)
Red

11 comments:

Andrew C.... said...

What does it mean when one reads a blog, looks at the picture of an undressed male being caned and starts feeling jealous? Perhaps I have to lay out a couple of canes on our bed to hint to my girlfriend.... It somehow feels wrong to hint or request a caning, but going unspanked might be worse.

Baxter said...

When my wife gets upset with something, I have said well, then just spank me. She turns the tables on me and says, "no I am not going to spank you when you have pissed me off. Spankings for you are for my enjoyment. And anyway, if I spanked you when I was pissed off, your ass would be grass." or some such wording as that. So I wait until things are fun again between us and just look at her and ask for a spanking. Did that this past weekend and she took the belt to my butt and oh I can still feel it.
Baxter

Anonymous said...

Unlike Baxter, when R is upset, I don't have to ask for a spanking, she tells me I'm getting one. The bondage pictures brought back memories of when R would tie me to the bed. She hasn't done that for a long time. Now she feels it's more fun to require me to hold position or receive more spanks.
archedone

Red said...

Andrew C: it depends where your relationship is in terms of spanking...There is so much more awareness of sexuality, that if it is important to you to be spanked, then you might broach the topic with your girlfriend. I cannot advise, you have to know how the relationship is...
good luck
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Baxter: the conundrum.. This is worthy of a long explanation..some other post I might try... but simply using a more severe implement, longer and harder.., being scolded...maybe standing in the corner before or after or both... being assigned some menial tasks... and you making an extreme effort to never do the thing that caused this problem again... might just work to alleviate her anger, and make the punishment fit the crime... but you should discuss this when all is well... and a little too flippant an answer of 'just spank me' exacerbates the situation: you both have to see it as punishment
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

archedone: good idea for Baxter to also include in the discussion
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Re:Pix #6
J. has used the cane (and the martinet) on a few occasions in the basement (because I had not cleaned it as ordered), but I was fully clothed - except, of course, that I first had to drop my trousers...

Re: Pix#7
Once (and only once!), while we were visiting her sister in Burgundy, J. and B. thought it would be fun to bind my wrists, and to have me hang from a low beam in the attic, with my toes touching the ground, while they took turns with some sturdy switches. J. sometimes talks about repeating the scene - but hasn't done it so far...

L.

Red said...

L: wow, what adventures you have...
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

That scene in Burgundy was actually B's idea - but I gladly went along with it. Whether I ever choose to repeat it depends on L's behavior.

J.

Red said...

J: have fun deciding when and where
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I have already found the "where", but I will decide on the "when" on the occasion that L's behavior requires some special treatment !

J.