10.8.12

Strap-on pegging is about sex: not just bend over: (part two)

I am taking liberty with a site that states the material is copyrighted...
The site is http://www.cocksexual.com
The site has a wealth of free information for newbies to read, and I am learning a lot from the site free materiel.
The site is obviously pro pegging, so the articles are of this vein.
You can read part one :here

However, they make some really valid points to think about, so I have edited and condensed some of the articles, and hopefully the link in each post, and on my sites to visit will be suitable for them. I will also send an email requesting permission, after I have posted twice, so as they can gauge if I have had any effect for their site.

Thomas Roche: Memo to the Pegged:

Now comes the easy part, right? Because if you're a guy, getting pegged by a woman with a strap-on consists of one simple thing, right? You just, you know, bend over.
Right?
Wrong.
1. If you're about to play with a a hot woman with a strap-on for your very first time, learn one simple fact before you ever drop trou: getting pegged is not about "taking" "it" "in" "the" "ass" -- it's about sex, with a woman with a dick (in this case, of the strap-on variety).
observation: do not forget foreplay, love, cuddling, romance, setting the scene, verbal banter... everything that makes for great sex.
2. If she's just an average girl in an average world, and you're just an average guy looking to spread his thighs, and this is the first time the two of you have played with strap-on sex together, then this will be important advice.

Your confidence will encourage her confidence, and you'll both have a hell of lot better time.
What does that mean? It means engaging all her five senses.

look at it..  
Let her eyes see your eyes -- looking at her dick.
mix up eye contact, 
inspired dirty talk, audible horny panting and visibly ravenous dick-checks and you'll engage her fully.  

Coo for it.  Holy fucking shit that looks fucking hot, baby." 
Touch it and reach for it.  touch it like it's part of her, because it is. Or if it's not, then with the right amount of encouragement, maybe soon she'll feel like it is. Treat it like it's a real dick; stroke it, fondle it, caress it, Feel free to touch the rest of her, too -- touch her tits and her ass and her thighs and her belly; kiss her and...

Why You Really (Really!) Need to Suck Her Cock    the wearer doesn't feel any pleasure, right? Wrong.
The erotic charge that strap-on wearing females can feel is intensely augmented by ritual.
This may have to do with her dominance, your submission, with her power.

 And Now, The Anal Sex
The preceding paragraphs will, hopefully, encourage you to think of the interaction less as a female-on-male buttfuck and more as a male-on-female-with-a-strap-on par-tay.
First, don't be afraid to use your hands to guide her cock into you.
Second -- did we mention lube?
Last, and most important, pick a position that allows you to control the penetration.
In that case, "doggy style" can be a very good position to give you control -- even if you're not muscular, a guy's thighs tend to be his most powerful muscles.
In that case, if you're in control, have her remain relatively still and push yourself back onto her. You won't be able to see what you're doing, so don't be shy -- use your hands.

 A Few Last Words About Shyness
If you're feeling shy about getting up close and personal with that dick, then there's only one thing to do -- get over it. Dive right in and be active, and let her take the lead when and if she feels confident enough to do that.
And if she's the type who wants to pin you down and take you -- well, you'll get that message pretty quick.
But even then, she'll probably enjoy herself more knowing how bad you want it!
bottoms up
Red

8 comments:

  1. Hi Red: I couldn't agree more with this article, while most men think it means they're gay, and just bending over to be pegged, we know it's not at all!

    Although my Wife is not a great fan of pegging when She does it, we always seem to enjoy complete sex afterwards. I know it makes Her extremely hot, and we enjoy every minute before and after.

    Sorry it's been so long since I posted on your blog, but I do read it every day, and enjoy it a lot. Sometimes I just don't have anything to say or add. Still a great blog!!!!

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    1. James: thanks for the feedback of a positive experience with pegging. I agree it is not weekly, or even monthly, but as another option occasionally it could be great fun. Do not worry about leaving something relevant, simply nice photos would be appreciated once a month, but you also have your own blog to keep you busy.
      Thanks for writing today
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. Red, Totaly agree its love making not bending over. Surely the most submissive thing we can offer her. In the beginning remember she is learning as well. Like any love making if you make her feel hot and sexy its going to be better. We save it for special ocasions but its worth the anticipation.

    Keep up the great blog!

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    1. anon: extremely well explained. It is being submissive. It is something entirely new for both if never tried before with another partner. Making your partner feel hot and sexy is a part of making love. An fun addition I hope. (and i hope it is something we enjoy.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  3. You are totally right about ritual.

    I've never sucked the dildo (what's the point? it's just plastic), but my wife has made me lick her before she installed the double-ended dildo.

    A ritual we almost never miss before pegging is that she gives me an enema. I in fact sometimes realize she has the intent to peg me when she tells me to go to the bathroom before she "gives me a little cleaning-out". Nothing fancy: warm water in a bag, not too much. Repeat if the exhaust is too muddy.

    The enema adds to the submission, I think.

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    1. Pecan nutjob: Enema is probably the best way to go, and i will suggest it before our first attempt. I agree it would add to the submission (excitement), and a little licking of her 'cock' might also add greatly. thanks for writing
      bottoms up
      Red

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  4. Hi there,
    Next month my girl and I will be trying pegging for the first time, we're both very hype about it but a bit scared. I'm hoping that I enjoy it and that I will cum from it too

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    1. Longdong: Do not expect to climax while being fucked... but do expect to enjoy it, and with verbal enhancements to the activity, and lots of pre-romantic fondling it may happen.. also positions may be a factor. Write me after you have experimented
      bottoms up
      Red

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