Two days ago,we made the first attempt. Cindy used the wooden imitation machete that we had picked up last year when cruising in the Caribbean.
For those spankers reluctant to travel with spanking implements, this is the ideal implement. Purchase one like this at your first cruise port in the Caribbean. Every island sells it at local markets.
I was bent over at the waist, with my arms supporting me on the bed. This paddle can deliver a good wallop, and I received many. with this implement. I am certain it must make a good indentation on the flesh when it makes contact.
Having the spanking completed, we then made passionate love. We are dabbling in the lightest of bondage, and Cindy put a blindfold on me, then tied with scarves my hands outstretched, one to each night table ... Another useful role of night tables that manufacturers should advertise :)
She then lowered herself over my face, and I eagerly licked and sucked everything that my mouth could reach.
We caressed, after I was untied, and held each other in our arms. We then decided to go to a movie, and Cindy remarked while driving there that I can be remembering my spanking while sitting in the movie. I did, as the cushion seats were not enough for over two hours sitting.
Addendum: We may have to separate some sex and spankings to quick effective spankings for my weight. At the movie we had a good sized popcorn with butter, a rarity for us. Yesterday, I worked in the yard in the heat, then went to the gym, and then officiated at night. We then went out to the bar, where I had two pints (not one), fries, and came home and had a Danish pastry. I should have had a full glass of water before going to the bar, to quench the thirst. Some fruit, instead of fries, and no food when we came home. A quick spanking with the cane or the dominator before going out should do the trick!