I am creating a new category for my posts that is the pre-event spanking.
This is a spanking that is to motivate good behavior, before some event occurs. This might be having annoying family visiting, going somewhere that is low on your list of things to do, or so far off the list to not be considered,... you get the general idea...
Well, we were going to the "BORING Couple'" for dinner last night, and Cindy stated I should be spanked to make certain I behaved well. I could not disagree (and really why would I), but this lead to a discussion. The discussion was that when we last had dinner with them, we stated "never Again', or words to that effect.
I also added that Cindy was part of the problem, is that she responds in a way with every statement encouraging the person to give greater and greater detail.... all evening... I suggested that she has to not do this, and simply try to change the conversation often whenever we are being snowed under by boring details... "this restaurant was not very good... the fires were cold.. we had to send them back... they forgot the appetizers... and this was all about only one meal on their vacation... Cindy agreed, and I suggested that maybe she should be spanked when we get home if she did not keep attempting to change the conversation, and introduce new topics, as would I. She, reluctantly, agreed that if she did not stay focused, she would be spanked.
well, off to the bedroom we went, and the hurling stick was chosen to make a suitable impression.
If you have not read about it's previous usage, see this link..
http://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2011/11/spanked-again.htmlThe position: Bare bottomed, on the bed over pillows to raise my bottom.
Cindy however was standing, and I was positioned parallel to the side of the bed. This gave Cindy excellent arc and force, and balance.
No nice little hand warm-up, but simply the spanking. Each spank was attention getting, Foot movement commenced almost immediately. After a few spanks, Cindy was pausing to ask if I was breathing (no holding your breath), and then another hard spank to start the dance and owwws..
Cindy lectured a little about behaving at the dinner, and also remarked how much our friend would enjoy knowing she was using this implement to spank me. It is just like she is spanking you, which incidentally has never happened.
When Cindy decided she was about finished, she asked the question "five MORE?"
Funny to hear, as though I had any say whatsoever in how many more spanks would occur. It is actually a lovely touch, as you know these will be thought provoking, and definitely producing a rapid dance routine. Cindy had me count out each stroke.
The dinner... it went remarkably well, and we both jumped in the conversation to change the topic, and focus on different events. A couple of times when the very nice lady was talking (they both are very nice people0, but had really exhausted the topic and was catching her breathe, I started talking about something else. We were thus both talking at the same time, but I continued and she stopped. Cindy did the same, sometimes asking a question about a totally different topic (like their children, or commenting about ours.
The evening went very well, and I think the other couple enjoyed themselves also. (and we did not have to hear three times about the bad meal with cold fries)
Have other couples tried a pre-event spanking to help?
Sitting on a hot (still red) bottom, occasionally shifting your position, and wearing
erotic panties, certainly keeps you focused on the positives of the evening.
the above photo comes from
D and J building a female led household. I will write a review about it in the future. (actually reading the post J got the photo from my blog.. I wonder where i found it.
In addition, the thought of an annoyed and determined partner giving you a second far more serious spanking when you get home [if you did not respond well during the evening] is a wonderful motivator.
Happy Spankings
RED
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