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What is it that people like about being spanked?

The following article appeared on the website listed below in the link. I thought it was cute, but changed the graphics to my liking. September 24, 2010, 9:14 AM

The Science of Spanking

"Our sex columnist on the psychology of pleasurable pain By Stacey Grenrock Woods

What is it that people like about being spanked?

It's not just that it hurts, right?

My students always say that it's the attention to detail, but I can't imagine that anyone else goes to the trouble of using only hand-carved Honduran mahogany paddles and natural-boar-bristle hairbrushes.

Pain is a factor, as is pleasure, but there's no one word to accurately describe the appeal of the erotic spanking.

"I think it has more to do with the delightful sting and the delightful warmth and the delightful vibrations that it sends through the whole region,"

says Gloria Brame, Ph.D. and coauthor of Different Loving: the World of Sexual Dominance & Submission. Like I said, the only word to accurately describe it is delightful.

For one thing, the region favored by the modern spankhound — the Lower Ass Valley just north of the Upper Thigh Province — is a tender zone that, when smacked just right, rouses the neighboring genitals in both men and women. And of course there's the humiliation aspect, which we all need in order to feel loved. But beyond that, you could say that spanking is simply about people. "Me, basically, it's just kind of the intimacy," says KC Spanks Club founder Rich Spankman (of the East Hampton Spankmans),

"but that's not a term I really want to use either, because it implies sexuality and that's not what I'm looking for." Maybe delightful?

"Friendly. Like a friend... more like a friend."

The bottom line for spanking is that there is no bottom line, except the bottom line, which is so infuriating, it just makes you want to put the whole thing over your knee and give it a good, swift slap.

Read the article here: http://w ww.esquire.com/women/sex/why-spanking-feels- good-1010#ixzz1OG2C92p6

Do have a delightful time soon.

Happy Spankings
Red

4 comments:

  1. Red

    Great post, love the two otk brushings, wow. Also love the three ladies, one whose panty is being warmed up. Read the article, great stuff.

    Thanks

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  2. Njspank: glad you liked it, and appreciate the comment.
    happy spankings
    REd

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  3. I am a 50 year old man that as been getting spanked by my wife for many years and love every one for them.Most all of them are on the bare ass and given with a wooden paddle.The more the btter.

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  4. anon: thanks for sharing. May you have many more yars together, with you over your partners knees.
    Happy Spankings
    Red

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