"Our sex columnist on the psychology of pleasurable pain By Stacey Grenrock WoodsWhat is it that people like about being spanked?
It's not just that it hurts, right?
My students always say that it's the attention to detail, but I can't imagine that anyone else goes to the trouble of using only hand-carved Honduran mahogany paddles and natural-boar-bristle hairbrushes.
Pain is a factor, as is pleasure, but there's no one word to accurately describe the appeal of the erotic spanking.
says Gloria Brame, Ph.D. and coauthor of Different Loving: the World of Sexual Dominance & Submission. Like I said, the only word to accurately describe it is delightful.
"but that's not a term I really want to use either, because it implies sexuality and that's not what I'm looking for." Maybe delightful?
"Friendly. Like a friend... more like a friend."
The bottom line for spanking is that there is no bottom line, except the bottom line, which is so infuriating, it just makes you want to put the whole thing over your knee and give it a good, swift slap.http://w ww.esquire.com/women/sex/why-spanking-feels- good-1010#ixzz1OG2C92p6
Do have a delightful time soon.