One posting that caught my attention was
The giving up of control is quite a relief to some men. RM describes how any grumpiness is spanked away immediately. Since Cindy spanks for grumpiness, I am rarely grumpy for long.
Helping with housework is simply relieving her of doing everything, and thus Cindy is happier.
The three little rules:
is something that we do not follow, as group decisions are usually better for us. However, we are thinking of writing a bit of a contract like the Spencer plan, so that things are a little more formalized when spanking is used as discipline instead of as a game. Then again, we may not write any contract, as that has negative connotations, and ou rlife is pretty damn great.
So, if this is your cup of tea, or simply wondering, I recommend you visit.