CONSENSUAL SPANKING

F/M bending over

2012-01-31T17:51:00.001-05:00

Another quick post of spanking photos... this time bending over!
He could be kneeling on the bed

where a slipper or a strap
or a leather paddlebut bending over a chair is a classic post for the caneor that little coffee table has a multi purpose
remember to inform him why he is being spanked and practice your backhand, and demonstrate what an effective tennis player you areJust drop those pants and underwear, and bend over, and the strap will work magic...let us also not forget the stool, for not only sitting on while in the corner, but bending over firstand no matter how sparsely furnished your house might be, there are always walls handybut there is probably something to bend overHappy Spankings
red

F/M OTK photos

2012-01-30T17:37:00.000-05:00

Just a quick post to keep the spanking desires alive....
A woman should be diligent in her dutiesIf the male is dancing and moving too much, a leg lock is always useful, and happily inform him that his spanking is in no way finished.maybe a slight clothing mishap will cause amusement, specially because he cannot see it..

He may even start agreeing with everything you say... and that is quite funny because you intend to spank a lot harder soon...And remember to spank him before he goes out to the football match...but above all else, when finished she should be happy with her work...happy spankings
red

anal-play-essentials/

2012-01-29T16:37:00.003-05:00

A excellent video exists that you might like, if both of you are entertaining thoughts of pegging, or any anal play ...
my additions is that you can also increase the sensuality of the situationboth of these pictures are interesting, but no one needs start with anything as big as the next photo.
Positions are probably just as numerous as male female penetration
This is an excellent video..

http://www.kinkacademy.com/home/2011/03/anal-play-essentials/

let me know what you think
Happy Pegging
Red

laps awaiting you for your spanking

2012-01-28T15:43:00.000-05:00

Another collection of beautiful laps of all ages,Eagerly awaiting you bending over their knees for your spanking..The white will appear even whiter when your bottom is turning a bright shade of red
Oh, I am going to have such fun blistering your bottom...no matter how old we get, you are still my partner and you will still be spanked...
but decisions.. decisions should it be the paddle first....or the beltHappy Spankings
Red

wooden spoon

2012-01-27T16:33:00.000-05:00

One effective implement in your kitchen is the long handled wooden spoon.... So for all those husbands out there that spank their wives... A smiling picture of perfectioncan easily also be bent over for a spankingand before you know it she will be happily preparing your next meal and remember, you can also give another spanking after dinner before she cleans up the kitchen...
This post was intended for those women who like to be spanked (such as Hermione, Ronnie, Bonnie, and so many more that have spanking blogs detailing their love of being spanked...
It was also intended for men who enjoy looking at women's bottoms.
Happy Spankings
Red

dominance F/M

2012-01-26T16:43:00.001-05:00

well, I found this photo, so will go with the theme for todayWhen your beautiful bride opens her legs, kissing and licking is always a good option. {aside: loved the comment in Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Lisbeth: he does cunnilingus but not often enough in my opinion).
You might be offered the chance to kiss and caress her feet... be a willing partner
and at times you may find yourself doing domestic clean-upRemember to be cheerfulWillingand you will get all the spankings you desire in life, and maybe even more than your fondest dreams... in places you never imaginedHappy Spankings
red

kitchen help

2012-01-25T17:02:00.001-05:00

By natural history, women have traditionally prepared and cooked meals. However, in this more more modern era, roles have changed.
One might wonder why this has happened!Has the wooden cooking spoon changed to include new uses?Are men being given a helping hand to encourage their efforts?In olden times wood was used to build a fire to cook with... and yet the modern woman has adapted this old technique to create a fire of her own when needed on her man's bottom.

Whatever your thoughts might be, a woman is always there with a helping handhappy spankings
RED

while on vacation

2012-01-24T15:39:00.000-05:00

Never got back to our vacation. One afternoon after coming back from the beach, Cindy decided that a little spanking should be fun...

Thus, it was bare bottomed over her knee, where a immediate dose of the wooden hair brush warmed and heated very hot a cold bottom, freshly cool from the ocean.

I am specially happy that we did not bring any stronger implement in our suitcases.

The experience of being spanked after coming out of the shower must be dreadfully effective with a strong implement used vigorously, and i am fortunate NOT to have experienced this! (Yet!)The love making was great, and then we cuddled and I fooled around a little bit teasing Cindy. She responded by ordering me back over her knee for another rendition of hair brushing, and although she used strong force, the sensuousness of making love made the spanking have little effect. The endorphins protected my bottom from feeling the effects of the spanking.

It was still fun, and a wonderful time for both of us.

Every couple has their own reasons for spanking in their relationship. I am glad that ours is a little discipline, and a whole lot of making love..

Happy Spankings
Red

sex age test

2012-01-23T07:51:00.003-05:00

I subscribe to real age... always willing to find out a little info and maybe live longer and healthier... You probably will have to join to take the test, but joining is free, and does not take very long. I have the emails sent to my usual address, not my spanking address.

They recently sent out a sex age quiz, and also information of how to increase your sex drive. I recommend you take this test.

http://www.realage.com/sex-relationships/check-your-sex-age-now?src=edit&chan=sex-relationships&con=flipbook&click=slide1

you might also like to look at these top ten sex boosters and busters.http://www.realage.com/sex-relationships/top-10-sex-life-boosters-and-busters#fbIndex1

Anything you can do to increase your sex drive is great... so spanking is just one of our aphrodisiacs.PS: my SEX age turned out to be 35. Cindy (the cougar) was 41. We are going to have to follow their advice, and with just a few tweaks, soon we might just have a sex age of half our chronological age.

Newest: We bought a vibrator for Cindy to use occasionally during sex, but are experimenting with it on both of us.As SPOCK of Star Trek fame might have said: "live long and have great sex.. and prosper"

Example: on the last seven day vacation : three spankings and four times making love... and plenty of eye candy on the beach...
Humor for today....Keep smiling.. it keeps us young
Happy Spankings
Red

Cindy spanked

2012-01-22T08:34:00.000-05:00

Two days after the previous spanking, it was Cindy's turn. There was a reason, but as age has it's own rewards, I have not a clue as to what the reason was.

This was a quick bare bottom over the knee spanking, which was wonderful for me, but not as wonderful for Cindy. A bottom cooled by the ocean feels the spanks far deeper than normal. Maybe this was just ten spanks, with my bare hand, but it certainly was fun.The cuddling and making love afterwards was fabulous.

For the life of me, I just cannot understand why a couple would do denial of sex, but each couple has their own dynamics.

Happy Spankings
Red

at the beach

2012-01-21T08:57:00.002-05:00

Well, on our last vacation,we spent most of it on the beach. Unfortunately not too many Europeans at the resort, but a lot of US and Canadian women displaying the latest in beachwear.We ate breakfast and lunch in a restaurant, at the edge of the sandy beach.I thought you might like the bathing suit bikinis.I certainly did.Seems the designers have spankers in mind, when designing such attractive small pieces of cloth...
and if the sun does not tan these cheeks
I am certaint that many volunteers exist to help!!!
happy spankingsoops. i thought this would be an informative post!
!you must be kidding
guess who this is for
good guess
Red

spanking update

2012-01-20T09:56:00.001-05:00

Well, we travel a lot, and are very fortunate to be able to be healthy and financially able to travel. Of course, we travel in the off-season, when others are not traveling, whenever possible...

We recently went to an all-inclusive in the Caribbean, and had a wonderful time. However, the amount of smokers was completely unbearable. A portion of the main buffet restaurant was non-smoking, but the main areas of entertainment or sitting areas were smoking permitted.

The number of smokers was incredible, and we will not be going to any all-inclusive again until we find an inexpensive non-smoking resort on the beach.

Well, spanking... the first installment..

We had been in the ocean most of the day, and only had our hair brush with us. However, Cindy decided that this would be a good time to use it when we were back in our room. To cover some of the noise, we put the air conditioner, and the television.

The spanking was the traditional over the knee, bare bottomed, with a little hand warm-up.

One seems to learn new concepts when being spanked.

A spanking after a day in the water is very effective. The skin has softened, and each spank with the hair brush was very memorable. The skin was cold, and probably did not show redness easily. This permitted Cindy to spank longer and harder than normal, and the intensity of the built up warmth lasted for a couple of days.

We then made love, which was wonderful.

Spanking as foreplay, with no special reason except a desire to either spank or be spanked.

More updates in the next few days
Happy Spankings
Red

great idea

2012-01-19T10:14:00.002-05:00

This cute little item comes from the blog shown below: I think it is adorable...

On the pack of cigarettes, it states:

Smoking increases the chances of receiving a spanking.

Such a great idea, but not for anyone who likes to be spanked, as then this might increase their smoking.

http://quiaimebien.blogspot.com/2010/01/une-demoiselle-avertie-en-vaut-deux.html

Here is a link to the blog, but unfortunately it has not been continued since April 2010.

http://quiaimebien.blogspot.com

happy spankings
Red

spanko net

2012-01-18T15:01:00.000-05:00

If you are inthe mood to watch some short spanking videos, mostly if not exclusively of wimen being spanked, then you should take a short peek at this site.

It's explanation is quite all-encompassing, but I am not a member. If you are a member, please add a comment of your reflections on the advisibilty of joining this site.

http://www.spanko.net/

Some videos are too strong for my preference, but most seem fine.

enjoy

Happy Spankings
Red

another look at hair brushes

2012-01-15T17:20:00.000-05:00

Sometimes you just see them and know they will get to the bottom of the problem quickly
Very quickly you are looking down at themand almost immediately feeling themand they simply take the words out of your mouthbut probably worst is having to wait your turn before beicoming acquainted with them..maybe not, it's application is worse than your fears
and it just seems to never end.. but all good things do come to an end... Happy Spankings
RED

Great day at the beach

2012-01-14T17:12:00.003-05:00

at least in my imagination... Giddy-upbut remember you can always have fun outdoors in the cityHappy Spankings
RED

birching

2012-01-13T17:03:00.000-05:00

I found these photos on www.rspankers.de. However, I have no clue what is being stated on the siteDefinitely some different ways to use a number of birch branches to great effect....This looks like a very exposed position to be in....as does this one...Has anyone had any experience with spankings of this nature??

and back at home, if no birch trees are available, clothes hangers always are...Happy Spankings
Red

Men who have more orgasms live longer

2012-01-12T15:59:00.000-05:00

The following is an article I found on the Internet :

http://www.nytimes.com/1997/12/23/science/more-orgasms-more-years-of-life.html

It's what guys have been saying all along...sex is good for you.Men who have more orgasms live longer, a study of Welsh villagers reveals.It certainly helps to die with a smile on your face after living life to the full, conclude researchers who plotted the sex lives of almost 1,000 men aged 45 to 49 and then checked their mortality statistics a decade later.The epidemiologists from Belfast and Bristol universities offer the good news in weighty scientific language: Mortality risk was 50 percent lower in the group with high orgasmic frequency than in the group with low orgasmic frequency."Professor George Davey Smith and his team conclude: "Sexual activity seems to have a protective effect on men's health."Responses were classified into categories ranging from "never" through to "daily", the researchers report.

The team light-heartedly suggest that healthy living promotional campaigns can now be given a sparkling new zest. "Intervention programs could be considered, perhaps based on the exciting 'at least five in a day' campaign aimed at increasing fruit and vegetable consumption - although the numerical imperative may have to be adjusted."

The researchers dispute the findings of cultures who argue that sexual abstinence puts men on a higher plane. They noted that the Huli people of Papua New Guinea sent their young men to secret hideouts in the jungle where they were 'taught by celibate specialists of the mortal dangers of succumbing to women's desires."
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The obvious conclusion that can be drawn from this article:

Whereas:
If Spanking is a successful method to solve minor problems in a relationship
and
If Spanking is a successful sexual stimulant for many if not most participants

Therefore:
Spank your mate as often as possible,
Followed by making love as soon as possible

The conclusion: Spankings help you enjoy a longer, more fulfilling, orgasmic and happy life!

Doesn't that sound like a mathematical certainly from high school.

Whether the man is spanked, or the woman is spanked, or the couple spanks whoever is deserving of the spanking, the results will still be the same.

Happy Spankings (and live longer - or does that simply mean time goes so very slowly when you are being spanked..)

Red

Quick post

2012-01-11T15:52:00.000-05:00

The first is a picture of a lasy who does not believe your storythe second of a very determined ladyand the last photo is a house you should never visit...happy Spankings
red

prayer for the day

2012-01-10T11:35:00.000-05:00

May I never get too old to be like these men in this obviously Photoshopped photoif I go into cardiac arrest, may these concerned ladies come soon enough to jump start my heart once I see them.... May our next upcoming visit to an all-inclusive resort have sunny weather like in this photo...
and a wharf to walk out onto to fish...
and remember to always try to help my fellow man...and may Cindy find this amusing if she reads my blog....
oops...
oh myyes dear...
a job worth doing is worth doing wellHappy Spankings
RED
PS: on vacation again for a week

communication without talking

2012-01-09T09:41:00.001-05:00

Just thought I would do a quick post of wordless communication....
a little humor, to suggest that words of endearment are not necessarily needed to inform the male that he is about to be spanked.unfortunately captions have been added to these photos
One that is ever so nice.... and you can imagine this sweet woman stating:

"Oh honey, I'm afraid I'm going to have to give you a spanking.

Let's get it over with dear.

Get me the strap and take your pants off."

Happy Spankings
Red

Displaying spanking brushes

2012-01-08T08:23:00.002-05:00

I was reading on a yahoo group, and it caused a little reflection. The writer explained that his wife displays a large oval bath brush in her bathroom, and has hanging in his bathroom a large round bath brush. Guests often comment "that's a nice brush you have not knowing what they are really for."
Then Hermione posted two days ago about her kitchen, and another post was born.The author concluded with stating that his wife is becoming bolder with her public display of her disciplinarian role.We have two bath brushes in our bathroom, in the top drawer, that have never seen water. Upon reflection, one is actually lost quite a bit of it's original shine, only on the wood side, but not on the edges or most of the long handle. (oops) In addition, there are a couple of hair brushes that have never been used to brush hair with. It might be a little odd, if anyone ever used our bathroom, to see these brushes in a drawer, making the drawers quite cluttered.In terms of our kitchen spanking utensils, Cindy will sometimes hold one up, and raise an eyebrow, with that certain look, and I know to alter the direction of wherever the conversation was going. She also sometimes does this, simply to see my sudden reaction, and then smiles, quite proud of herself.

We have agreed that our spanking lifestyle will be our little secret. It remains so, in the most part, because although I write this blog, I have only commuicated with three people who have become friends, and exchanged pictures with one.Our spanking relationship is probably quite normal, if you happen to be in a mostly F/M spanking relationship. Cindy for the most part enjoys the fact that she can rectify problems that she perceives in our relationship or in my behavior, and the fact she feels better after spanking me. She knows that I will do my best to avoid being spanked for the same reason, and thus, the spanking actually solves the problem.I become aroused easily when spanking is mentioned, but don't like the pain. However, submitting to a spanking makes me feel better having endured the spanking, and thus helping allow a solution to the problem.

I think for Cindy, (or any woman spanker):
the physical effort needed to make her feelings known,
the control of my behavior whenever she feels it is necessary,
and the power she holds over me with just the hint of a spanking,
combine to make a very powerful stimulating event.

AND THE SEX AFTERWARDS IS FANTASTIC

I do and I don't at the same time like the idea of her spanking me in front of someone. Might she decide to show how strong a spanking she can give me. Might the spanking, if given by another woman, be much stronger than any I have ever had? How will I react if this occurs?

Maybe this post might spark comments from others

Happy Spankings
RED

caption day

2012-01-07T09:28:00.000-05:00

Captions to spanking scenarios are always fun.... Hopefully you will like today's collection....
This one might do a world of good... I can think of many politicians who would benefit...
Many might think this treat is not worth considering...remember to always follow through with any promised spanking..
Erotic, but disquieting: Your partner whispers in your ear that you are going to be spanked when yu get home....Happy Spankings
Red

ode to a hair brush

2012-01-06T08:14:00.000-05:00

Thought an easy post of some hair brush spanking photos that you could imagine yourself as being involved in.....
Can you guess why I am taking you upstairs my dear....
and can you guess why I am raising my skirt above my knees...
Aw.. you guessed right away, as I see your eyes glued to the hair brush...
and what do you think I am going to do with this hairbrushcorrect again, and do you sense my friends wanting to add their own spanks to your bottom...
Do you think that this little sore bottom of yourswill make you think twice next time before committing a spanking offense. Yes, now make dinner for us and all is forgivenhappy spankings
Red

thought for the day

2012-01-05T10:04:00.003-05:00

Always be very attentive when your partner talks to you....
otherwise, you may be bare bottomed being spanked very quicklyHappy Spankings
Red

new blog SOMEONE'S GOING TO GET IT

2012-01-04T16:22:00.001-05:00

Thought I would introduce readers who have yet to find this picture laden blog!
quoting from Andy's first post:

Just what we need, another blog, right?

"The sound of a woman summoning me, or anyone, for a spanking is the butterfly inducing, knee wobbling dizzying sensation that is unsurpassed . Seeing her with an implement in hand….well, it’s almost too much. That’s what this blog is dedicated to, strong women, welcoming laps, and spanking.

Well, I won’t be too verbose, after all, a picture is worth a thousand words. So, in that vain, here’s the first 10,000 or so (visual) words."

My ANSWER IS A RESOUNDING YES. These type of photos are awesome!

The name of the blog: someonesandy.blog.com

HOWEVER, when you look on the blog listing on my list of interesting blogs, the title is

Someone's gonna get it

The photos in this post are from the blog, but far too many for me to re-post, or even want to re-post..

Go visit, and you will enjoy...

I am slightly confused as this simply is blog.com, not blogspot like mine... and I am pleased to see another site called blog.com where one can create a blog.

Someone's gonna get it...

Happy Spankings

Red

laps of women waiting to spank you

2012-01-03T08:56:00.000-05:00

Here is your weekly (sometimes bimonthly) edition of women waiting to spank you....Okay, I am listening to your reasoning as to why you are innocent and should not be spanked.....
Do you think I am agreeing with what you are saying!!!
I am definitely unimpressed... i think I will let you know my answer by my actions..I hope you did not find the last picture too subtle...and I am sitting on this chair for a reason...so shall we get on with your spankingyou would not want to delay and have me add more than the two implements I was planning on using..Happy Spankings
Red

Coming out Kinky with Princess Kali

2012-01-02T10:37:00.000-05:00

Coming Out Kinky

Discussing your potential kinkiness with your partner is difficult....

We had been married for many many years before I ever discussed my spanking fetish with Cindy. Maybe if we had discussed it before being married, things would have been different. Quite possibly it would have been a deal breaker. We were both very young, although we did not think so at the time.Kinkiness was underground, so far that it might have been in China (smiles).

Only slowly, after our children had grown and gone to college, did I start to find spanking on the internet, and build the nerve to suggest spanking to Cindy....

I am uncertain if I have posted about this before, so will go look before continuing this discussion.However, I came across this quite good video, and I recommend you watch it, specially if your kinkiness is still underground.

Princess Kali discusses the various aspects of coming out as kinky during this eight-minute video. She sets the context for the conversation, highlights three reasons (political, health, and social) for coming out, notes the various levels of the process of coming out, and covers some of the effects of coming out too. In a future clip Kali focuses on how to come out as kinky.

Many other guides exist to help people find the nerve to "come out of the closet" to their soulmate.. Gay, lesbian, bi, spankers, bdsm... the list goes on and on... hopefully you can enjoy your kink with your partner

Click on the link...
enjoy
Happy Spankings
Red

Happy New Year : First football game for a blonde :

2012-01-01T09:55:00.005-05:00

Happy New Year to everyone. Thanks for the comments throughout the year, and for dropping by. Hope you enjoyed the posts... May everyone and their family have a wonderful New Year, with plenty of consensual spankings....

Joke for the day
With NFL football all day today, this joke seemed appropriate, if you read the entire joke and know at least a little about football (USA style)
A guy took his blonde girlfriend to her first football game. They had great seats right behind their team's bench. After the game, he asked her how she liked it.

"Oh, I really liked it," she replied, "especially the tight pants and all the big muscles, but I just couldn't understand why they were killing each other over 25 cents."

Dumbfounded, her boyfriend asked, "What do you mean?"

"Well, they flipped a coin, one team got it and then for the rest of the game, all they kept screaming was...

'Get the quarterback! Get the quarterback!'

I'm like...Helloooooo? It's only 25 cents!!!!"

Sometimes blondes are not that dumb.... if you think about it...

Were you making fun of blondes??
Maybe this might teach you to mind your manners
and a little more to drive the point home
happy spankings and Happy New Year to everyone
Red

women behaving wonderfully Happy New Year's EVE

2011-12-31T09:12:00.000-05:00

I must readily admit that I love looking at women. I specially enjoy photos of women having fun by exposing part of their body in public places.The naughtiness of this is exciting...We have made love outdoors completely naked, where the chance of being discovered is slim, but still possible.We have even dabbled with Cindy spanking me outdoors a few times, once with a hair brush...The best part of women behaving wonderfully, is that you see women that are NOT models, but who are none the less beautiful. Next time (if this is a woman reading this...) and your partner wants to take a sexy risque photo of you, remember that he loves you, and truly believes you are beautiful..Their beauty is partly from being in love with their own body, and not being afraid to show it. Most are young, but fortunately people our age are also enjoying this extra thrill to keep the love spark and sexual energy flowing. You can even pretend to be Vanna White.One site where you can see some of the photos I have attached is called
http://snusk.tumblr.com/

However, this site has for every one picture that I posted approximately 100 oral photos of women enjoying a man's prick... Personally, it is easier to click on archive, than trying to go through almost 2000 pages of postings.However, people seemed to think the link to eagerlicker was good, so this one should also be excellent.The best thing I like about this site is women are free to do what they want, and you have to plan to be not wearing panties for pictures of bare pussies...ENJOY
and a special comment for my dear friends Hermione, Ronnie, and Bonnie : Strike this pose for the camera, and I am certain your husband would be very happy to give your bottom a few spanks if not a lot more....HAPPY SPANKINGS
Red

spanked again

2011-12-30T08:45:00.000-05:00

The house was ours alone for at least 30 minutes, while some family went out for ice cream... I have been somewhat stressed today, yesterday's magic having worn off, and requested Cindy give me a short spanking.Cindy being a very amiable and sweet wife, agreed immediately. Bare bottomed, over the knee for a good quick session with the wooden hair brush. Cindy remarked before starting that my bottom was still pink from yesterday, and then proceeded to make it a much more wholesome looking red.The spanking was over from the time I requested, until the last spank in about five minutes.Hopefully this will help to chase the blues away, for whatever reason they came upon me I know not why...

Maybe some sexual activities later will also help...

Does spanking chase away the blues for you????

Happy Spankings
red

spanked

2011-12-29T07:56:00.001-05:00

WE had some fun last night, as Cindy determined that we would benefit from her spanking me.

The usual reaction of won't that be wonderful followed by the uneasiness and a little foreboding about a spanking that she has decided is necessary, and will administer later that night.

About an hour later, Cindy decided to take a leisurely bath, which meant the spanking would follow soon afterwards.

When Cindy requested I join her in the bedroom, I went ASAP. Never anger a woman intent on spanking you, is my philosophy.

Cindy was seated on the spanking chair, and requested I retrieve two implements. The choice was the leather heart shaped metal studded paddle and the wooden hurley stick. I have posted pictures of both previously.

Ok, take those pants down and bare your bottombend over my knees
A short warm -up, with hard hand spanks, and then down to business.

The Heart shaped paddle stung like never before. At first I thought it was the wooden paddle, but then it arcing around the cheek made it's identification known. Cindy spanked hard, and I was owwing and foot dancing while she explained the purpose of this spanking.I was informed that I had been grumpy the evening before, and this was going to chase away the grumpiness. With family at home that night, and overnight, she had not been able to deal with it. This paddle was fierce, much more than I have ever encountered it to be. As usual, a lack of spanking for a week or more permits the bottom to soften up a little.

Cindy was spanking as forcefully as she was talking.... Cindy stated that I needed to be getting exercise every second day at least, so I should be using the gym membership that I have...

Then with harder spanks she stated at least three or four times a week, for your health and mental frame of mind. My focus was less on the gym and more on my bottom.

The paddle tip had found many normally unspanked areas, and then Cindy moved onto the Hurling stick. It definitely gives a solid smack each time. Used a few times in the same spot and once again I was owwing and dancing, and agreeing to go to the gym to help my body and frame of mind....

Afte the spanking, I thanked Cindy for the spanking, and we then cuddled and had fantastic sex. I understand that everyone is different, but sex after being spanked, or giving a spanking, is always wonderful.. A treat not to be denied.

Happy Spankings
Red

for those men who love wearing panties

2011-12-28T08:22:00.004-05:00

Thought I would do a quick post of a song by bob Rivers, a parody of winter wonderland,Titled "Walking round in women's underwear"Enjoy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kJ8kE5Kf3g

EnjoyPhotos came by googling men in panties, and arrived at what amazon has for sale...

IF still in the mood, you could always listen to

Grandpa got run over by a beer truck

Happy Spankings
Red

prayer for fathers and grandfathers

2011-12-27T09:12:00.000-05:00

Dear God, please send clothes
for all those poor ladies on
grandpa's computer. Amen.

Wow: if the kids ever saw what you have stored on your computer....would you ever be spanked....
get these pants down shall webend over that chairnow on your knees begging my forgiveness while I light your bottom on fire BEWARE
Red

Christmas

2011-12-26T07:58:00.000-05:00

May each and everyone of my readers have aMERRY CHRISTMASHappy Spankings (or shall we call them Season's Beatings...Red

Merry Christmas

2011-12-25T07:54:00.002-05:00

Thought I would throw a change of pace for everyone who might be interested

This is a tribute to Bob Hope, an American who gave so much of himself for his fellow men...

Bob Hope started touring and giving shows to the troops during World War Two, and one place indicated in the video had 60% of the audience wounded or killed in the next invasion in the Pacific fighting the Japanese.

Whether you believe that in that time and place American involvement in Vietnam, or other places was right or wrong ( and I thought it was wrong) Bob Hope was a person to cherish...

Enjoy the video .

Merry Christmas to everyone who has dropped by, I thank you one and all for visiting..
Red

Christmas Eve's day

2011-12-24T10:40:00.000-05:00

Well, just enough time left to ask Santa for that something special you really desire....Well, Santa always delivers your fondest wishes, sometimes even before Christmasbut all requests are considered
so be readysometimes you have to wait until Christmas morning...Fortunately for us, however, Mrs Claus likes to keep Santa in line....
and also any other wayward man needing direction
Merry Christmas
Happy Spankings
Red

Kama Sutra 365

2011-12-23T09:22:00.000-05:00

A book I picked up recently,(kama sutra 365) might be a last minute gift for one partner to give another.

One might say there is nothing new under the sun in terms of sex, yet this might be a great addition for your private bookshelf.The book has photos of couples, that show the position with a brief description.

What I like about it is that you can flip thorough, see something interesting, and then introduce the thought to your partner.
Same old, same old, is never fun in life... however, their are not 365 positions shown.. AWWWW!!!Now spanking 365 giving 365 different positions to be spanked in would be interesting.The spanking photos are NOT from the book

Happy Spankings
Red

wife spanked again

2011-12-22T11:37:00.002-05:00

Twice in two days... a wonderful record....

Well, earlier yesterday (I am always posting about something that happened the day before), Cindy got mad about something (I forget what), something minor.. and resulted in about ten hard bare hand spanks on my bottom.... bending over the kitchen counter Problem solved...

Later, Cindy did something that was quite over the top, and I stated that. about five minutes later, Cindy came up to me and asked if I could spank her to solve the problem that she had caused. The gentleman in me required that I agree with her request. Seeing that it was not major like the day before, it was a quick walk to the closest sofa, and Cindy was bare bottomed over my knee. No trace whatsoever of yesterdays spanking.
The spankiong was short, about ten or fifteen bare hand spanks, with some massaging between every few spanks, and then the spanking was done. Cindy popped up and asked if the problem was solved. I agreed immediately, and we hugged and cuddled.Cindy thanked me for the spanking, kissed, and then a quick little fondle, and the problem was gone...

The sex came gloriously later that evening, after dinner out to relax and enjoy osme wine and good food.

Happy Spankings
Red

Wife spanked

2011-12-21T08:45:00.001-05:00

The spanking given to me worked, but Cindy still was uptight, and unfortunately close to a melt-down. I saw recently on Real Age , or in a newspaper, that two philosophies can exist... You can have as a motto The Rolling Stones: " I can't get no SATISFACTION", or "Don't Worry, Be Happy" by Bobby McFerrin.

You can assume correctly that I like the "Don 't worry, be Happy". Well, Cindy stresses for Christmas, no matter how prepared we are. IF something is done, she immediately states what still has to be done, not really being happy that another task has been accomplished.

I suggested the night before that she would feel better after a hand spanking by me, but she refused outright. I stated she was uptight, and it would change her focus from tasks to her bottom, and let her mind relax... followed by great sex... She still refused, so I watched more football. I tried to say how many days still existed before Christmas, but this is a boiling over topic for her, which clearly indicates the abnormal stress.So, one day later, Cindy was even more uptight, and after a little meltdown, I suggested that I really think a spanking is necessary for her to help calm down, but now it will be the hand and the wooden hairbrush. She immediately replied only your hand. AHA!!! So she agrees a spanking might help her.... I persisted that yesterday she was offered the hand spanking, today the offer has changed.

What happened to the consensual???? she stated... No problem, no spanking....

A reluctant okay, but not hard. I stated ten spanks with the hair brush, and she countered...no only five... I again stated that this has to be effective, so best it be ten.... she murmured something but did not say no!!!!

Immediately, I was sitting on the bed, with her bending over my lap with her pants down. I happily lowered her panties,which she had to raise up slightly to permit being done.

Some massaging and talking, and then the hand spanking started slowly, with my rubbing her bottom in between spanks for a little while. I talked about how great our life is, our kids, etc... and all the pluses in our life...

The spanks continued, but I told her of a bruise on her bottom she had gotten when she fell recently on vacation. She tried to say " you spanked me too hard", but I reminded her of when it had happened, and that I had only given her three spanks... She agreed that it was there from before... Back to a leisurely spanking, with lots of talking interspersed with spanks, so that her bottom became nice and rosy, but very slowly....

Time for the hair brush.... a couple of gentle pats on the target... I am enjoying myself immensely... and then a moderate spank on one cheek followed by the other cheek... OWWWW... a little massaging on my part and a reminder that Cindy should consider using spanking as a way of relief from tension before it gets so strong she needs the hairbrush...

Spank spank...
Cindy "that's enough thank you... "
my Reply was "we said ten..." Relax and let the tension fade... spank spank

That's ten... no you are not relaxing only six...

Spank spank... massaging and enjoying the view of her somewhat rosy bottom... only two left
"Not Hard"
SPANK SPANK with some gusto...

Massage massage

Some cuddling and caressing, and a reminder to thank me, which Cindy did...

No sex this time, although the thrill was there, but Cindy does not yet want to give in that her being spanked can relieve her stress, and also lead to great sex. The spanking at least makes her think twice before saying something unpleasant, which is also helping her control her stress.

I am not certain if I wrote about this last year, but Cindy was spanked at about the exact same time of year, for exactly the same reason. A somewhat discipline stress relieving spanking works most times for Cindy, and a harder spanking works for me also.

Cindy's bottom was no where near as red as this photo, but I like the photo.Happy Spankings
Red

spanked by wife

2011-12-20T09:25:00.000-05:00

Well ,there have been a few spankings in our household, and I have used this title to allow it to be easier accessed by search engines.

This spanking was more about stress, which somehow comes with the holiday season... I was feeling stressed, whereas usually Cindy is the stressed out individual...

For this spanking, Cindy used both of her favorites, "old reliable' and the heart metal studded leather paddle.Cindy had me bare bottomed, over her knee for the spanking, which started immediately with heavy spanks from the paddle. Cindy remarked how much she enjoyed using it, and it definitely made its presence known. I was wiggling and dancing with it wrapping over the far cheek, or the tip finding a home between the cheeks.

Cindy then switched to the 'old reliable' heavy wooden paddle that you can get from the DWC. It had me owwing very quickly...When Cindy finally stopped, I had lost all stress, except for a sore bottom.

We then proceeded to have fabulous sex, with great orgasms.

IF you have never experimented with spanking, but are interested, consider how to convince your partner, gently, to introduce spanking. It has solved problems, and light a fire both on my bottom, and in our loins.

Happy Spankings
Red

hanging around - smile for today

2011-12-19T09:57:00.000-05:00

My goodness, but what lengths some people will go to just to be spanked. do you think the sign is for a gated community....definitely not a bus stop... but the broken line on the road for driving seems to me that the road ENDS right in front of this young lady..

Gives new meaning to the old English? (Scottish?) song:

KEEP RIGHT ON TO THE END OF THE ROAD...

HAPPY SPANKINGS
RED

Pleasing Santa

2011-12-18T10:58:00.001-05:00

Some Ladies will go to any length to please Santa, so that they get lots of presents on Christmas morning.
Seems to give a new meaning to being Santa's helper, and A GOOD REASON AS TO WHY SANTA IS SO JOLLY!

With so many artwork about Christmas, and specially Santa, I thought I would periodically post some to bring a smile to your lips. So, here is posting number one for Christmas.
Remember that Santa always likes to check his list twice...Do make certain that Santa thinks highly of you...
and may all your Christmas dreams come true...Happy Spankings
Merry Christmas one week early!Red

oh christmas tree...

2011-12-17T10:09:00.006-05:00

Sorry, I have no cards that I can send to my readers, so I thought I would send you a picture of a delicate Christmas Tree...Oh!!! you so need to be spanked, and I am going to enjoy spanking you...

I will bare that bottom over my knee
and spank it until it is a rosy red...
Happy Spankings
Red

slipper spankings

2011-12-16T11:50:00.001-05:00

Another great Christmas gift for your loved one might be slippers...We really have never used a slipper for a spanking!However, I have occasionally used a slipper to give Cindy a quick spank on her bottom, and it certainly is EFFECTIVE, from her startled reaction.Thus, maybe this post will be an inspiration to those spankers who have not ever used a slipper.Wait a minute dear, while I retrieve the implement!
Now, won't this be nice to warm your bottom...Seems you are having second thoughts as you focus on my slipper.....Do you really think you have a choice of implements for your naughty bottom...That is a better reaction... no dear is appropriate...Get your bottom over my lap pronto!! and let's have some fun shall we???Happy Spankings
Red

humor: art work

2011-12-15T15:54:00.001-05:00

Remember, keep smiling while you are spanking...

giving or receiving a spanking should remove any upset feelings and stress on both individuals involved.

There are always two sides ot the coin, as shown in the following two captioned drawings

whereas
A new job may not be exactly what you anticipated
whereas career guidance can take new directions
and then none spanking humor
how about another blonde moment
and remember to be kind
and spank the man, not shoot him
keep smiling
RED

time for turning the tables

2011-12-14T16:18:00.000-05:00

A site worth visiting, that has been around for a long time is
http://www.women-spanking-men.com/
It has some excellent pictures and videos ( a free section), and the spankings can sometimes be very severe.My opinion is that everyone in a spanking relationship should at least once be on the other side of the wooden hair brush. Empathy, and consent are essential in a relationship. However, I easily accept that only one person is the spanker, and one the spankee by mutual consent.I came across the following pictures, and think that they look a lot like Miss D. It warms my heart to imagine that she has been spanked at least once.(and one great looking bottom)Go visit the site, but you will not find any pictures except men being spanked..

Happy Spankings
Red

mouth soaping returns

2011-12-13T17:42:00.002-05:00

I thought I would just post some pictures of another variation you see on spanking sites...We have not ever tried this, and we have no interest in ever trying it...However, some readers might like the idea, open wide
so I thought this would once again be a very easy post...
and people being spanked is always interestingas long as it is consensual... In this last photo, it appears our heroine is more disturbed by what is going to happen behind her... than the soap
Happy soapings
Red

fantasy day Leonardo

2011-12-12T17:17:00.001-05:00

Another quick post of spanking artwork that I enjoy... Today is from Leonardo, and I am certain that you have seen many of his drawings...

i do not take the time to Photoshop and add comments, it is quicker to simply add them before each drawing... so begin the fantasy...

The wife sees the neighbors wife spanking her husband, and thinks it is a GREAT IDEA that she should imitate... he was smiling when she stated the situation, but that attitude soon changed.. Following through on a later dateleads to a good taste of leather on skin... and the pillow to raise the target nicely..One day she told her neighbor that she had learned to spank her husband from her, and when he misbehaved in front of the neighbor, they decided to share the chore...Unfortunately, or maybe fortunately, they arrived for dinner late one night, for no reasonable reason, and both had to pay the piper... I specially like the size of the hairbrush the women use, and the height they raise it before every spank is administered...if anyone knows of a site of Leonardo drawings, do let me know so that I can publicize his artwork..
Happy Spankings
Red

christmas panties for the Ladies : from MLKKLM

2011-12-11T16:27:00.003-05:00

I have found a wonderful present for so many wonderful friends... Hermione, Ronnie, Bonnie, Danielle, Erica, Pink, Bacall....

Translation: "I want a spanking"I previously posted about a wonderful site, chock full of great pictures, and may other categories including corner time and spanked bottoms... mostly of women...let us face it, although I enjoy being spanked (mostly), I 100% prefer to look at women's bottoms... imagine this.. P spanking Ronnie outdoors, and then taking a picture for sharing men's spanked bottoms has little interest, except the position they are in to be spanked...

I had suggested that the site was Asian, as it had many Asian ladies being spanked... The author is MLKKLM... and read what he recently wrote

Mlkklm said...: Dear Red,
I have a good read of your great blog... And see that post about "déculottée"... Well, it's not an asian site... It's mine and I'm French... It was a great way to share all the wonderful pics I collected on the net...
Now I'm done with it, maybe I will feed it again someday...
On the right side of the "déculottée" page, there's a few links to parallel blogs I ran too. ;-)
And I've got a more personal blog about cornertime... More male oriented, but there's some women punished too...
Keep up the good works !

The author of the tumblr site is MLKKLM, and he sent me the above picture. I hope he might send other great photos in the future.

MLKKLM has a new blog, which you can visit ...http://mis-au-coin.blogspot.com/

You can click on the translate button at the top of his blog to read in English... When you have time go and visit...

Happy Spankings

Red

Lumasoc

2011-12-10T16:58:00.000-05:00

I thought I would just post pictures for your enjoyment of the good old days when the west was young... AT LEAST IN OUR DREAMS

The first might be titled home, home on the range where the spanks keep you warm at night
whereas nowadays, central heating still is given a boost on the home bottom
that is a wonderful collection of potential bottom warmers on the wall
Remember to iron the clothes properly, or you will pay the price..

These drawings came from a blog titled Lumasoc , which no longer seems to be in existence... I have removed it from my blog list, as it was a momentary bright light..
happy spankings
RED

Brides

2011-12-09T16:04:00.001-05:00

I recently came across a number of spanking photos of brides. They are obviously staged, and for some website, but I do not know there real source.

So let your imagination roam.

I wonder, did your partner know of your spanking fetish before you were married?

Maybe the bride was spanked by her mother, before passing the cane to the groom for future use in the wedding...Can you imagine attending a wedding where the bride being given her first public spanking by the groom??? (Dreaming in 3 dimensional color)
Maybe a quick photo or two before the reception party on a river boat.. to show the cane lines have disappeared, so the groom has a fresh bottom to redden himselfTime to assume one of many spanking positions while pondering the joys of marriage during cornertime..Lowering the gown so that the view while standing in the corner for your partner's enjoyment, prior to your bridal spanking!
cornertime is over,
so let us get down to the real spanking... in position please
and we close with a happy bride after her spanking
HHHHMMMMMMMM! FINISHED WITH YOUR LITTLE FANTASY ARE WE???
let's get back to reality shall we
nice and red, so let us use the brush shall we...
and remember, I have these, so you are the one who gets spanked...
Happy dreams
Red

otto's spanking Art

2011-12-08T15:30:00.000-05:00

I am usually slow to publicize new sites, simply because I tend to look at a few favorites only on any given day. Also, I already spend too much time on the computer visiting spanking related sites.

A relatively new site, well, probably under a year, is worth visiting.

This stylized photo art is titled 2 minute spanking ottosspankingart.blogspot.com

Otto creates his own stylized artwork, but posts artwork from others also...

I really like part of his description of his blog: "So thanks for coming by, and may your bottom be forever red!" I echo that sentiment.

This example from his blog shows a young man who is about to be spanked, but whose erection shows that great feeling of fear and excitement.
The site is more dominant than mine, where pegging is presented as though without consent. Fortunately, I take this to be consensual role play.
This may or may not be your cup of tea, but with so many people of all persuasions visitng my blog, I am certain some will like this newer site.

Happy Spankings
Red

site to visit

2011-12-07T10:38:00.001-05:00

I will do a few short posts to keep you busy.Many more tumblr sites have come to my attention, devoted to mostly spanking. There might be cornertime (part of spanking), sex after spanking (something we love), ear pulling, people in position to be spanked, strapping of the hands, and other variations.Obviously, you choose to spend more time looking at those photos that you most enjoy.Thus, today's entry is titled: http://sircane.tumblr.com You cannot get bored, because their are more than 575 pages (576 when I last checked)I like the idea of simply posting pictures, and might simply consider posting all the pictures on my computer, thus freeing up space.Have a visit, while I am away once again on a short last minute cruise.Their are so many advantages of living close enough to take a last minute cruise, at ridiculously low prices.Happy Spankings
Red

spanking and sex

2011-12-06T08:17:00.003-05:00

Yesterday had a fun return to spanking. Cindy was annoyed at something I had done, so it was a trip to the spanking chair. Cindy had me retrieve some shoes to elevate her knees, and requested I retrieve some leather implements. Before putting the shoes on Cindy's feet, I kissed and sucked her toes a little. Never a dumb man, as this helped dissipate a little of her anger.

I retrieved the leather metal heart shaped paddle, and the leather fingered strap.

In a flash, Cindy had me bare bottomed over her knees, and started in full force with the leather fingered strap. It was very effective, also reaching the far side of my bottom and beyond, as she spanked away.

Then, on to the heart shaped paddle, for many memorable spanks, again the far bottom cheek getting the greater share of the spanks...

Cindy stopped, and decided she wanted another implement. The wooden bath brush was retrieved, and then a good solid dose of spanks were administered, before she felt that the spanking was complete. My bottom is still a touch of red today.

I thanked Cindy for the spanking.

Problem solved, we then moved to the bed for romantic cuddling, and absolutely fantastic hot sex with a lot of oral and then fucking in new positions. Always good to be inventive. We recently bought a new book of positions, with pictures, and glancing through it now and then helps stimulate the sexual appetite, and keep the spark alive.

Happy Spankings
Red

a matter of perspective

2011-12-05T11:37:00.001-05:00

Today, A practical example of how the human mind works In the picture below, we will analyze what it represents to some groups of people.

Read the review after the photo ...

- For young men, it's a nice ass. Only the most observant will define this as an ass crossing the street. The really observant will see the thong.
- For older men, it is a respectable woman with a nice ass crossing the street.

- The perverts will imagine her as a naked woman.

- The wise men will ponder the presence of mind of the photographer in the face of such beauty and gratitude that it was shared with humanity.

- For half of the women, this is an ordinary woman who should not have left home dressed that way.

- The other half is wondering where she bought that blouse.

- The wise women imagine the misery that this will be at 50.

- Children, the curious, and monks will probably notice a dog driving the taxi.
Don't be alarmed, I didn't see the dog either.
It appears that another attempt at humor has gone astray... Alright keep those hands up

let's get this underwear down
come along young man
Time to pay the piper
and more

I have found these pictures in the public domain, but am quite certain they come from
www.vixenladies.com/

Smiling keeps you young
Happy Spankings
Red

humor

2011-12-04T09:38:00.002-05:00

I went to the doctor's office the other day and found out that my new doctor is a young female and drop-dead gorgeous!I was embarrassed, but she said, "Don't worry, I'm a Professional- I've seen it all before. Just tell me what's wrong and I'll "check it out."

I said. "My wife thinks my dick tastes funny."

wow that was soooooooo funny

Could you join me upstairs for a moment or two...let's get these clothes out of the way shall we...I want you here , NOW!!!and now my thoughts on your humor...and then the doctor will share her thoughts with you....
first over her kneethen over the sofa..
smiling yet...
Happy Spankings
Red

love the thought

2011-12-03T11:11:00.001-05:00

Wonderful pictures to help you pass the day !
This woman is wondering if she should spank you? Was your answer to why she is thinking of spanking valid enough to avoid a spanking...
I thnk your answer has made her very happy... No indecision now, and she is relishing using three implements on your bare bottom..
She has now moved to the spanking chair, and is quite determined to not have a repeat of the behavior that is requiring this spanking
Unfortunately, you can now only focus on the implement, and not your beautiful partnerShe is getting perturbed over your slowness in undressing...
okay, now the bottom is being bared
She is smiling because the feet are dancing, and the spanking has only just begun....Time for the brush to reinforce the lessonand a little lecture with a new brush...and a grande finale with the terrible strap to drive the lesson home...
Happy dreams
Red

Enjoy life!!

2011-12-02T09:11:00.001-05:00

Where does the time go? 'Remember yesterday and dream about tomorrow,but you better live for today'...How quickly the years passNow smilebut remember, your partner just might not find this as amusing as I did!!!and her best friend might enjoy being a part of the action
Happy Spankings
Red

laps for OTK

2011-12-01T07:08:00.001-05:00

Bringing the topic of this blog back to spanking.... here are some photos you might enjoy to fantasize about..

Yes dear, why do you think I am sitting on this chair....because I am tired... that is funnylet's get a little more serious... don't you think you should be bringing me an implement to use
or do you think you will be happier if I go choose a few...that's better, now off with those clothesand scoot between my thighs for a well earned spankingHappy Spankings
Red

Pegging : The Poll for Males

2011-11-30T09:01:00.000-05:00

A popular topic... Pegging...
This has elicited a few comments, much more than usual.Thus i decided to do a little poll to see what might be the truth about some of my readers... I will post on another day to see how many women have tried anal Sex. I wanted this to be a poll for men only..

Aside;I checked stat counter, and here were the most recent statistics from people who ventured to my blog, and chose to click on one of the links....
05:22:12 to 16:01:05, 29 November 2011

	Exit Link
97 Hits	www.dailymotion.com/video/k39p7rKoldhAsi2u8l0#from=embediframe
63 Hits	sensualpegging.tumblr.com/
54 Hits	wf1027.tumblr.com/post/11781944672/pegging-in-mainstream-film-imdb

wow	Happy Pegging
Red

pegging keeps becoming more popular

2011-11-29T06:36:00.009-05:00

Now,who is saying what to whom!!!Well, if you happen to look further on the right hand column of this blog, you will see that the third most visited post in this blog is about pegging. My blog has had over 1,615,000 visits, and pegging is the third highest ranked post!!!
I wonder why????I am still very ambivalent about pegging, but more and more pictures occur on any femdom type site. Living with the philosophy of try anything once, within reason, it may happen. We have not discussed it.
However, I saw the following video, and it was both amusing and thought provoking. The poster above is advertising for the movie.
I think this link will get you to the scene about pegging...

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/k39p7rKoldhAsi2u8l0#from=embediframe

If it doesn't and you would like to see the scene, it is funny, but also thought provoking....

try:
http://wf1027.tumblr.com/post/11781944672/pegging-in-mainstream-film-imdb

I had been wondering about posting this item about pegging, when I read on a friend's blog (Ronnie) about women faking orgasms. Being open in the blogging world is a fabulous idea....
See the discussion by clicking here to get to Ronnie's blog.

To be inhibited about sex, is somewhat to deny oneself possible joy. WHY???Pictures can be dominant submissive Or sweet and softI will let you know if we ever proceed with pegging.
Pictures can be enticing...
the two main posts previous are are:

http://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2010/06/pegging-anal-sex-with-twist.html

http://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2011/09/anal-sex-pegging.html

A good site to visit about this topic:This site is the best I have found!! It is much better than my posts about pegging, and the author is friendly, informative, and posting loving friendly sexy videos., as opposed to the tyrannical dominant / sniveling submissive of many websites : http://sensualpegging.tumblr.com/The photos are mostly from this site, AND THE SEX IS LOVING, NOT ABUSIVE!!!!.and the advice sounds reasonable and intelligent... such as:
"A lot of guys worry about what will happen afterwards. It only affects the rest of your relationship if you let it. Pegging assumes that there is trust and mutual respect. Even with people who are seriously into domination and submission, or even humiliation, they start from there. If you are not in a relationship that includes sex AND trust and respect with you then pegging is a bad idea.
Guys, if you want to be pegged, trust should go right along with a good harness. If you are too scared of the repercussions then find a sex worker. "

One last thought from Ronnie's blog
http://ronniesoul.blogspot.com/2011/11/dump-orgasm.html
'We educate ourselves about cooking, gardening, architecture and literature, so why not sex?', to which the reporter comments 'Sounds like my kind of homework'.
What other activities have you tried besides spanking????
happy spankings
Red

Sexual advisor; your Monday smile

2011-11-28T09:53:00.000-05:00

our little smile for the day...
A buddy, who had been a co-pilot for many years, , stated that, when he was asked what his job was , he would reply.

"I was the sexual adviser to the Captain.

"When they'd question, "What?"

He'd reply, "Yeah, the Captain used to say, If I want any fucking advice from you, I'll ask for it!"

Humor is good, spankings are also
Happy Spankings
Red

pre-event spanking

2011-11-27T11:26:00.014-05:00

I am creating a new category for my posts that is the pre-event spanking.

This is a spanking that is to motivate good behavior, before some event occurs. This might be having annoying family visiting, going somewhere that is low on your list of things to do, or so far off the list to not be considered,... you get the general idea...

Well, we were going to the "BORING Couple'" for dinner last night, and Cindy stated I should be spanked to make certain I behaved well. I could not disagree (and really why would I), but this lead to a discussion. The discussion was that when we last had dinner with them, we stated "never Again', or words to that effect.

I also added that Cindy was part of the problem, is that she responds in a way with every statement encouraging the person to give greater and greater detail.... all evening... I suggested that she has to not do this, and simply try to change the conversation often whenever we are being snowed under by boring details... "this restaurant was not very good... the fires were cold.. we had to send them back... they forgot the appetizers... and this was all about only one meal on their vacation... Cindy agreed, and I suggested that maybe she should be spanked when we get home if she did not keep attempting to change the conversation, and introduce new topics, as would I. She, reluctantly, agreed that if she did not stay focused, she would be spanked.

well, off to the bedroom we went, and the hurling stick was chosen to make a suitable impression. If you have not read about it's previous usage, see this link..
http://consensualspanking.blogspot.com/2011/11/spanked-again.html
The position: Bare bottomed, on the bed over pillows to raise my bottom. Cindy however was standing, and I was positioned parallel to the side of the bed. This gave Cindy excellent arc and force, and balance.No nice little hand warm-up, but simply the spanking. Each spank was attention getting, Foot movement commenced almost immediately. After a few spanks, Cindy was pausing to ask if I was breathing (no holding your breath), and then another hard spank to start the dance and owwws..

Cindy lectured a little about behaving at the dinner, and also remarked how much our friend would enjoy knowing she was using this implement to spank me. It is just like she is spanking you, which incidentally has never happened.

When Cindy decided she was about finished, she asked the question "five MORE?"
Funny to hear, as though I had any say whatsoever in how many more spanks would occur. It is actually a lovely touch, as you know these will be thought provoking, and definitely producing a rapid dance routine. Cindy had me count out each stroke.

The dinner... it went remarkably well, and we both jumped in the conversation to change the topic, and focus on different events. A couple of times when the very nice lady was talking (they both are very nice people0, but had really exhausted the topic and was catching her breathe, I started talking about something else. We were thus both talking at the same time, but I continued and she stopped. Cindy did the same, sometimes asking a question about a totally different topic (like their children, or commenting about ours.

The evening went very well, and I think the other couple enjoyed themselves also. (and we did not have to hear three times about the bad meal with cold fries)

Have other couples tried a pre-event spanking to help?Sitting on a hot (still red) bottom, occasionally shifting your position, and wearing erotic panties, certainly keeps you focused on the positives of the evening.

the above photo comes from D and J building a female led household. I will write a review about it in the future. (actually reading the post J got the photo from my blog.. I wonder where i found it.

In addition, the thought of an annoyed and determined partner giving you a second far more serious spanking when you get home [if you did not respond well during the evening] is a wonderful motivator.

Happy Spankings
RED

holding the implement part two

2011-11-26T11:23:00.005-05:00

Powerful photos are ones that let your imagination run rampant...
What is that you are holding dear...
No question as to what is about to happen as you sit on the sofa watching the third football game on a Sunday and you see your partner approaching you...
The innocent expression: I am going upstairs, so come join me... and then you see your wife going up the steps..Or, Your wife calling to you while already upstairs, asking you to please join her...
What about the situation when she asks you to come in the bedroom for a moment, and this is the vision that you see...
or, to close, you turn around from reading this blog to see the following setting....The end result will be the following, but personally I prefer seeing a woman's spanked bottom instead of a man's, thus the following well spanked bottom...Happy Spankings
Red

good communication is important

2011-11-25T08:15:00.003-05:00

After being married for 38 years, I took a careful look at my wife one day and said ......."Thirty Eight years ago we had a cheap house, a junk car, slept on a sofa bed and watched a 10-inch black and white TV, but I got to sleep every night with a hot 22-year-old girl.

Now ... I have a $500,000.00 home, a $35,000.00 car, a nice big bed and a large screen TV, and ... I'm sleeping with a 60-year-old woman. It seems to me that you're not holding up your side of things."

My wife is a very reasonable woman.

She told me to go out and find a hot 22-year-old girl and she would make sure that I would once again be living in a cheap house, driving a junk car, sleeping on a sofa bed and watching a 10-inch black and white TV.Aren't older women great? They really know how to solve an old guy's problems.

Happy Spankings
RED

Happy Spanksgiving

2011-11-24T08:36:00.001-05:00

May everyone celebrate no matter what ccountry you live in!!! It is always the thought that counts!
The cards come from www.kinkycards.com
They have a wonderful selection,so if you have not devised your own card for our Thanksgiving day festivities, maybe toddle along and send something to ensure that someone's goose is cooked, if you know what I mean...We are home again, and today will be a fun filled day of Turkey and Football and family that live nearby.. Hope the turkey is delicious, and the football games are not in themselves turkeys...
and for the purists, here is traditional spanking artwork...
enjoy.
Happy Thanksgiving
Red

humor

2011-11-23T09:40:00.001-05:00

Another victim of this ECONOMY..
It always seems to be the young who suffer the most!
the 'poor little thing' has no shoes!
so you chose the spankingmy my...I think this is a very effective spanking...
and a little penance in the corner will followHappy Spankings
Red

fun

2011-11-22T18:22:00.001-05:00

A fun way to be spanked....
or maybe like this
and as many people have found out....
Happy Spankings
Red

just in case you forgot...

2011-11-21T09:19:00.001-05:00

thought for the day

Just in case you forgot ...
but this also helps...
any questions
Happy Spankings
Red

so you think your day is going bad - humor

2011-11-20T09:23:00.008-05:00

Something to think about....You may be having a really really bad day
but someone will still come along and screw you...
Do you really think that was amusing...come here...
Maybe a little help having you stand up by pulling your ear will give you an impression of my thoughts about your humor..
now, let's have those pants down shall we...and the underwear..
you do know what is next don't you...

First over my lap for a good dose of the hairbrushfollowed by you having more time for additional thinking as I use the bath brushand then even more reminders while you are spending sometime in the corner to think before you post..Happy Spankings
red

mooska captions

2011-11-19T16:11:00.000-05:00

It appears that Mooska has completely stopped posting and creating new captioned photos.and the resultHowever, I think he has given us a wealth of erotic spanking captioned photos.
..the result and the result
Happy Spankings
Red

humor : spankng art

2011-11-18T14:56:00.000-05:00

Today, I thought I would post some spanking art for your enjoyment...Spanking a woman is always fun..
sometimes, a smile says it all

oh, if only we had friends like this where we could lend a helping handWhat would you give to have been a fly on the wall, where the older woman has just been spanked by the younger woman
The following sounds like money well spenthappy spankings
red

endart

2011-11-17T16:41:00.000-05:00

Endart has closed, but is not forgotten...
Here is a little sample from the pastand thenthe spanking begins
and continueswith the end result
Thanks Endart, for allt he great spanking drawings you can to us.
Happy Spankings
Red

oops!!!!

2011-11-16T19:11:00.000-05:00

A quick follow-up to the spanking of Cindy that I reported yesterday.The next day, we were walking and joking a little.

We had not seen anyone for a while, as we were walking to a somewhat isolated place.

Cindy joked out loud, " well if you wouldn't be spanking me all the time."At that precise moment a woman walked by us, maybe five feet away, with her head down. She had just come around the side of a high statue, that we could not see. She certainly heard every word, as Cindy was talking in a normal, if not a little extra loudly for effect.

OOPS!!!!

Oh Well
Happy Spankings
Red

Cindy spanked

2011-11-15T16:52:00.000-05:00

This occurred a couple of weeks ago while we were on vacation. We had been together 24/7 for quite a while, and occasionally it is possible to be grumpy. This time it was Cindy!!! :)

After one significant problem, I suggested that Cindy needs to be spanked, and I believe it should be ten spanks for real with the hair brush. Cindy immediately countered that ten was too many spanks, and she didn't want the hairbrush used.

Well, that at least settled the fact that Cindy knew she was wrong, and that a spanking would clear the air. Although our spankings are consensual, they also solve problems. My reply that I would be strongly spanked if I had done that, and Cindy replied, okay, with the hair brush but not ten spanks...

Progress is occurring. You admit that you are wrong, and that you should be spanked.!

yes Pardon, I did not hear you.. .
YES
Well then, ten spanks will really make you remember won't it.
yes

Back in our hotel room later that night, I had Cindy bare bottomed over my knee, and I was loving every second of it.

A few hand spanks had Cindy counting the number, but I informed her that this was just the warm-up.

Then the hair brush. Whack whack, one per cheek, and OWWW! That's too hard. I started massaging Cindy's bottom to dispel some of the sting, and spread the warmth.

Spank pause spank.. more massaging, as much for my pleasure as Cindy's.Do you think you will remember to behave better? Spank spank
YES
Massage, then spank, spank OWWW ,and some clenching of her bottom.Two spanks left...
WHACK WHACK one per each cheek...OWWWW
More massaging...
cuddling,
and eventually making love...

Problem solved...
Happy Spankings
Red

reading at the beach

2011-11-14T10:25:00.000-05:00

I hope I never get this old...That has to be the best book ever... but i doubt it...

Do you really think I found that amusing.... does it look amusing nowlet us see a little dancing tonight shall we dear... i will set the beat for your dancing
that's goodHappy Spankings
Red

explain this photo

2011-11-13T19:41:00.001-05:00

a fun site you might like to visit, with no spanking, or almost no spanking (Threesomes are weird in Alaska) ...but lots of weird stuff for everyone...or maybe evenhere is the link
http://explainthisimage.com
cheers
Red

Health Warning

2011-11-12T09:10:00.002-05:00

VERY IMPORTANT TO READ FOR THOSE WHO TAKE MEDICATIONS, ESPECIALLY AS WE AGE!

Most people know not to mix certain medicines without consulting their doctors.

Some medicines cannot be mixed with certain foods... and certainly most of us know not to mix certain medicines with alcohol... although, some people think that mixing alcohol and medicine is harmless.

As a public service the AMA have recently published a new warning being distributed via pamphlets in pharmacies across the U.S.

Below is the cover jacket of one such pamphlet:.

Sweetie, do you really think people will be amused by that attempt at humor...
Does this raised leg for you to bend over give you an idea of how pleased I am with your posting...
So if you can display yourself like that outdoors, then a spanking outdoors will be appropriate...
First go cut me a switch
and then we will continue with a few other choice implements to warm your bottom until it is flaming red..
This implement looks effective... let me know what you think..
and this little pony whip seems fabulous...and now that we are home in our back yard let's entertain the neighbors shall we...
Happy Spankings
Red

sunday morning spanking

2011-11-11T14:54:00.000-05:00

When the clock is moved backwards, that gives an extra hour in the morning. We took great use of it today.

Cindy decided she should spank me, as we are going away soon, and this will help keep me on AN EVEN KEEL. I have stored up some posts, so they will keep going many of the days that we are away on vacation.

Cindy requested I stand in the corner, while she would take a short bath. Nothing like contemplation before a spanking to set your mind in a whirl.

Cindy's bath was over, and after she had dried off, she requested I get the bath brush. We have two, and thus she stated bring both. One is harsh, the other is horrid. I brought them to Cindy, and she placed them on the floor beside her.

Seated on the spanking chair, Cindy's feet do not reach the floor, so I retrieved a pair of high heel shoes for her. A little kissing and sucking of her toes, before each shoe went on, helped delay the inevitable.

Cindy then requested I lower my track pants, and then my underwear (no time to have put on panties), and it was bottoms up for me over her knees.

Cindy started with a hand spanking, and has developed a method of making the spanks quite strong. Within a short time, she was bending over for the harsh bath brush. At times like this, one wonders why I ever purchased any bath brush.

Cindy did her normal pattern of spanking hard in one place until my feet start reacting, and then after a few more spanks moving to the other cheek to change the intensity, and kindle a new fire in a new place. The problem is that very soon there is nowhere that is not on fire, but the spanking continues to my owwwws and dancing.Cindy then paused, and reached down for the horrid bath brush. Cindy requested that I move forward, so that my head is resting on my arms on the floor. This display of authority regarding my bottom's position for being spanked is quite powerful and dominant.

My looking at Cindy's ankles and shoes lasted only a moment, as the new bath brush had my feet dancing immediately. no need to stay spanking in one place to get my feet dancing, as they started with the first spank. This did not cause Cindy to move spots, simply to continue spanking. Then she moved lower, the crease and the top of the back of my legs joined in with being on fire. I was owwwing continuously.

Then Cindy moved to the other cheek and crease, and I was squirming to try to avid the spanking. I HAVE NEVER SQUIRMED ON CINDY'S LAP BEFORE, SO THIS WAS A NEW LEVEL OF SPANKING FOR US. A slight pause, as Cindy commented WITH A PLEASURE IN HER VOICE that was almost singing with joy: " was this what you asked me yesterday to do when you asked me to spank you again before the vacation"

Without even a chance to respond, the bath brush came down and literally danced all over my bottom and back of my legs. My feet danced a jig (I do not ever remember them moving so much), my lungs were pushing out the owws, and I was once again squirming to try to lessen the fire.

Cindy finally stopped, and I was permitted to get off of her lap. I thanked Cindy for the spanking.

The sex that followed was fabulous, as I spent time kissing her breasts, then lying on top of Cindy(on her request) as we caressed, then .... it was fabulous...

Happy Spankings
Red

Love Our Lurkers

2011-11-10T17:41:00.009-05:00

Thoughts for today... WelcomeMemo to the lurker... read the following photo scriptSo you like the concepts in the blog, but are too shy to leave a message of support... (read the next captioned photo.
I hope the above was interesting for you to read and dream a little.
I really appreciate you dropping by, and am thrilled whenever someone leaves a comment.

I post for the fun of it, and hope you like what you find.You can click on the headings I have posted, to see specific topics in this blog. Thus, I will not repeat our philosophy today.

So for today, some captions, and some spanking photos.
And remember, both partners may end up being spanked.enjoy and feel free to leave a comment.. truly appreciated...
Happy Spankings
Red

photo Wednesday

2011-11-09T14:35:00.001-05:00

Wow! That has to be a whopper of a tale you are trying to tell me...Do you really think it will be a good enough explanation for me NOT to spank you...
Come here nowyes, look at what awaits you
My hand will start the fire...The paddle will stroke it nicelyThen you can stand in the corner and consider telling tall tales...

Happy Spankings
Red

husband in the kitchen

2011-11-08T08:00:00.001-05:00

Some other artwork and photos to show the man at work in the kitchen.This can be deemed submissive, but by my way of thinking, and many others, sharing the work load makes life better for everyone.
your drink mistress
So let your imagination roam free and enjoy the thoughts of dominance and submission.

Make certain the entrance is nice and clean when I get home
Clean up the kitchen also while you are in your maid's uniform..
Your wife learned this about you from your mother
it definitely appears tha tyou enjoy this, if you look carefullylife is to be enjoyed, and a little encouragement to do a good job is always helpfulso keep enjoying
Happy Spankings
Red

holding the implement

2011-11-07T10:20:00.000-05:00

A new twist in spanking photos is always fun.The latest I have seen has a few variations.Today's presentation is cornertime.The spanked person is required to hold the implement that they were spanked with!
As of yet, I have only seen photos of spanked women,and it is always pleasant to see a woman's reddened bottom on display.Has anyone ever tried this with cornertime and their spanked partner.
This one is described as rudely having to hold the cane.
New thoughts for enhancing spankings are always good to consider.
Happy Spankings
Red

spanked again

2011-11-06T10:17:00.000-05:00

Two days later from the previous posted spanking:
a email I sent to Cindy:

I worked a little too long outside, then played on the computer a little too long, so am now going to get my hair cut. I will then go for lobster on the way home...

The sex and spanking was great ... Could you possibly give me another real spanking like that tonight, and then make love with you being in the dominant position however you like. Holding my head against your pussy while i licked you was fabulous

love
Red

The Response:
YUM!!!! :)

xoxoxo

*******************************************
Cindy called while out, and informed me that she was upset about.... (no reason to disclose this part) and that when she got home I was going to be spanked!!!

I was unaware that she had read my email..

The tone was such that I was definitely wary. The thoughts: " Be careful of what you wish for, they just might come true," rang through my mind.

Was Cindy just role playing... or was this one really really for real...
***********************************
When Cindy came home, she found me standing in the corner of our bedroom. I had moved the spanking chair out in to the middle of the room.
*******************************************
Aside: we were in London England recently, and also in Paris. Wonderful tale to tell about Paris.
In London, in browsing through a sports store, we saw this sporting equipment, and Cindy insisted that we purchase it. We had seen one mentioned a long time ago on another website. Here is a link where you can purchase on online.

http://www.thegaastore.com/product-p/hur021a.htm

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Cindy expressed approval that I was waiting for her standing in the corner. She stated she would be back in a few minutes, and that I should wait for her by remaining in the corner.

When she returned, about five minutes later, she asked me to get the leather multi finger strap, and the new toy from London.

Sitting on the chair, she called me to her side, and had me lower my jogging pants. A short lecture of why I was to be spanked. She had me lower the panties I was wearing (that I had put on when she informed me about the forthcoming spanking). I prefer to keep them around my ankles, as I know what they are and it adds a little submissiveness to my mind.
A tap on the knee had me bare bottomed over her knees in a flash.

Cindy began with the strap, and used it with an awful amount of strength. I am reasonably certain that I was owwwing and dancing within the first minute. A pause for Cindy to catch her breath, then another dose of the strap. Another pause, and then a third dose of the strap. My bottom was on fire.Cindy then placed the strap on the floor, and stated: should we try this new one now?

I am always amazed at such a rhetorical question! I am currently in a position being spanked, and Cindy has not stated the spanking is over. So, I really have no say in it being used, and I know darn certain that it is about to be used. Unfortunately, I cannot find any pictures of anyone using this implement...Cindy decided that I should move up more, into the position where my head is touching the floor, and the lower part of my bottom is greatly accessible to being spanked. I did get a chance to look at her legs and shoes, before the first spank (GASP!!!) brought me back to reality. OWWWWWWWWWWW.

Spank! OWWWWWW and runnig the marathon with my feet.
This thing must be lethal. It is weighted at the paddle end, and it appeared to me that Cindy was not only spanking parts of my bottom and back of legs with this, but that the long wooden arm leading to the paddle was also landing on my bottom.

Cindy sounded like she was smiling, definitely very pleased with herself and her purchase, when she stated: " My, this seems rather good". Smack....

The spanks came slowly, and Cindy even started rubbing my bottom and legs a little in a CARESSING FASHION BETWEEN SPANKS. This made certain the blood was once again flowing in the area, so the next spank would be felt in all it's intended intensity.

Cindy probably only applied twelve spanks, but each was the hardest I have ever felt. My ooohing and owwwing and dancing feet must have shown Cindy how well her spanking was being felt.

A final couple to finish was announced, and they were fierce.

When permitted to get up, I thanked Cindy for the spanking. Keeping this to a s panking blog, we repeated the sexual maneuvers of two days before, with me on my knees, Cindy's hands on my head, and my having a wonderful time licking Cindy's pussy. Our eventual orgasms were fabulous.

This was one of the strongest spankings (if not the strongest ) spanking I have ever had. I felt close to tears while this Hurley stick was being used, and probably would have been in tears by twenty or so spanks... That might be a fun idea, but I can only say that while not being spanked. When being spanked, I was just hoping it would end soon.

PS: my bottom was red for over a day afterwards.
So, spanking in our life is both a problem solving method, and a great prelude to fantastic sexual activities.

Happy Spankings
Red

BLOGGER PAGE VIEWS

2011-11-05T09:45:00.005-04:00

If you have ever looked at the bottom of the page, blogger has a app that display the number of page views.
I think the name of the blog was well chosen... CONSENSUAL SPANKING, as it tries to lead people to understand that no one has a right to spank someone else, but that the spanker can be given express permission to spank by the person who is about to be spanked.

Without starting a major dissertation on this concept, the consent is usually given without any limitation, (except health issues) for any time the spanker wants to spank the spankee, whether as foreplay, or for discipline.

Stat counter was used on this blog early in it's existence... and it has the number below at time of writing.

it has the following information

Pageloads

	Today	Yesterday	This Month	Total

consensual spanking	5,468	5,998	17,062	2,370,781

Visits

	Today	Yesterday	This Month	Total

consensual spanking	2,315	2,479	7,246	889,814

Amazing... this was from the evening of November 3rd
Thanks for dropping by.Happy Spankings
Red

A spanking good story from the newspaper

2011-11-04T07:56:00.001-04:00

The following was an article published in.. The Star, in South Africa,. I think it is excellent, and something you might enjoy reading. I have highlighted a few parts, and specially the word CONSENSUAL.

A spanking good story

November 1 2011 at 10:37pm
By Noor-Jehan Yoro Badat

Suddenly spanking seems to be everywhere – in movies, on TV (there have been scenes in Desperate Housewives and CSI, among others) and in romance novels (even the proper queen of historical romance, Johanna Lindsey, included a spanking scene in her book Keeper of the Heart).

Some of the best-selling books on Kindle aimed at women are futuristic or fantasy romances featuring brutish warriors or stone-cold cyborgs who soon have the heroine over their knees. Laurann Dohner, Michelle M Pillow and Mandy M Roth are coining it, churning out male dominance shorts with titles such as The Barbarian Prince and Begging For It.

Stalls at the recent Sexpo in Johannesburg did a brisk business in paddles and other spanking toys, and an “Over The Knee” (OTK) demonstration was held by Bella Rouge, an adult toys retailer.

Bella Rouge owner Jenni Osrin goes as far as to say erotic spanking has gone mainstream.

She and others interviewed for this story were very quick to make the distinction between safe and consensual spanking that brings fun and spice into the bedroom and the heavy BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) scene that often involves professional discipliners. It’s even removed from the male spanking fantasies of old, such as the role-plays set in schools.

“I think many women would prefer to imagine themselves in a luxurious courtesan-style scenario,” Rowan Spelling, former editor of The Erotic Review in the UK, wrote in a recent sex column in the Daily Mail.

Indeed, in many of the best-selling spanking stories, after a few paddling episodes, the heroine melts the heart of the stern hero and there is much cuddling and vows of love by the end.

Most women keep spanking in their fantasies. Some would hate to actually be in the position of receiving or delivering it, while others don’t bring it up because it would be embarrassing or awkward if one’s partner thought it offensive or ridiculous.

That wasn’t a problem experienced by Cathy*, who met her partner James* at a “spanking party”.

She says she wouldn’t have a relationship if it wasn’t with a spanker. “We know that we could never be 100 percent happy without spanking in our relationship.”

The couple have an array of spanking tools – her favourite is a cane, his is a thick slipper. They have also used a Jokari game paddle, wooden spoons, a bath brush... pretty much anything that catches their eye.

So what’s the appeal?

Osrin says the sense of surrender can be “a massive relief” for modern women who expend so much energy controlling every aspect of their lives.

“All your stress just goes right out the window,” she says. “You can really just be yourself in the bedroom. You can explore your fantasies and let all inhibitions go.”

The same applies to men, she says. They, too, find it erotic to allow someone else to decide how and where to direct their pleasure. “Some men like a woman to take control in the bedroom.”

Clinical sexologist Marlene Wasserman, popularly known as “Dr Eve”, says: “Couples can reach new levels of trust with each other. It increases communication and arousal levels can be heightened.”

Apart from those with BDSM proclivities, some people do it because they’re merely curious. Others get a thrill out of doing something “naughty, unusual, and kinky”. Some are sexually adventurous and occasionally enjoy it as part of the sex play. A few may be pressured into it by their partners.

“It really is about power exchange, so either gender may take on a certain role at a certain time in which one agrees to be dominant (the spanker ) to the submissive (the spanked),” says Dr Eve.

Cathy says she finds sexual spanking quite addictive. “I lose myself completely and quickly go into what we call ‘subspace’. This is when the endorphins kick in, and you literally get a high.”

Sh says it leaves her feeling totally relaxed and loved. “My partner is attentive and focused on me.”

The anticipation is the worst and best part. “You can see the arm going up and you just know that in a second there is going to be searing pain going through your backside. My partner knows this, and he always builds the anticipation before every stroke,” says Cathy.

“That’s the beauty of a spanking. Loving and hating it. Dreading it and yearning for it. The anticipation and the satisfaction.”

James, she says, “loves the thought of the spanking more than the spanking itself, and he loves the way his bum feels afterwards.”

What follows soon after a spanking session is “mind-blowing, deeply satisfying sex”, says Cathy.

And, like any couple feeling satiated, they kiss, hug and cuddle.

“Sometimes we take pictures of our handywork and just lie and admire it, stroking and soothing our bums and being grateful we have each other,” she adds.

Still, however popular a fantasy, spanking isn’t spoken about much. It can also be controversial.

“There will always be the people out there who think that it is promoting abuse,” says Osrin. “Spankings have to be completely consensual. And they also have to be done for the right reasons. It either turns you on or it doesn’t.”

You should engage in spanking only with someone you trust and with whom you have discussed your limits, say the experts. It’s important for both parties to know exactly what the other one wants.

It’s best to start off slowly, with an OTK hand spanking, slapping gently and building it up, all the while checking that the spankee is still enjoying it.

Xena*, a professional dominatrix in Johannesburg, agrees that there is a still a stigma to spanking. “People think you are strange, a pervert that needs to see a psychologist. But, in fact, spanking adds a different edge to your life. People fear what they don’t know.

“It’s all about letting go of your social inhibitions. Women in this country are brought up to hate their body, and we’re not taught to ask for what we want.”

However, Osrin feels that increasingly people are exploring their sexuality and becoming more adventurous.

“Whenever I suggest spanking as a form of adding more spice into a relationship, it is always met with curiosity and eagerness,” says Osrin. “It’s definitely being accepted as a part of a normal intimate lifestyle.”

She says everyone should explore some kind of alternative play in the bedroom. It doesn’t have to be spanking. It could be role-playing, the erotic use of food, or simply exploring with toys.

“We are all creatures of habit and it’s very easy to fall into a routine in our sex lives. While this is safe and comforting, it is also repetitive and boring. So, keep the spark alive and explore something new,” Osrin says.

* Their names have been changed

SO enjoy giving and receiving spankings

and hopefully fantastic sex and cuddling and hugging afterwards
here is the link
http://www.iol.co.za/the-star/a-spanking-good-story-1.1169482

[Aside: sometimes people (other ladies) speak with my wife at the gym. Cindy is just such a nice person that people unload their worries and family situation. A woman today told her about marriages that break up after 30 years, and wanted her opinion. It appears that they are are having problems after he recently retired. Retirement can be difficult, because the couple become 24/7. When we retired, no children were at home and that is when I told Cindy of my spanking fetish. More about this some other time, but you wish that you could say to this woman, why not try spanking each other whenever one is doing something annoying... but modesty prevents this.]
cheers
Red

SPANKED: good man spanking

2011-11-03T10:45:00.005-04:00

The follow-up to yesterday's post!!!

We had a very busy day! I worked at cutting the grass, cleaning around the outside of the house, edging etc... going to visit a relative who is in hospital, going shopping for an insanely long time.. and finally dragging ourselves home.

After supper, (which was decent take-out), Cindy stated she was going to take a leisurely bath, and then spank me. " You have earned it after such a hectic day where you were good all day!!"

Wow!!! A good man spanking.... what exactly that meant I was uncertain... Would the conversation of yesterday have some impact on the spanking... My mind was in a delicious quandary, and the thoughts produced their normal sexual reaction.

Cindy called that I should come to our bedroom, and when I arrived she was dressed in very exciting lingerie. She decided that I should get two implements, one of which must be leather. I chose the heart shaped, studded leather paddle, the holy terror.

Cindy was already wearing shoes that elevated her knees, and after a little necking, informed me that I should take off my pants, as she sat down on the spanking chair.
When informed to remove my underwear (panties), Cindy first had a little fun stroking, kissing, and sucking my erection. Then a pat on her knees meant that I should position myself over her knees.Cindy first started with a hand spanking, but quickly moved on to use her favorite leather implement. This was applied to my bottom with strength and quickness, such that my bottom started to be on fire very quickly. Cindy used her familiar technique of spanking one spot until a noticable reaction occurred on my part, and then moving to another spot to deliver the same treatment. I am certain I was owwing and feet dancing quite a bit by the time Cindy stopped. This devilish implement had succeeded in nipping in between the cheeks at times, as the tip has to land somewhere when spanking the closet cheek.The above picture shows that certain parts of the bottom are not as easily spanked.

Cindy then stated that it was time for the 'holy terror', but that I needed to somehow make my lower bottom more accessible. The solution: almost always, my feet are touching the floor, and the hands are touching the floor on the other side of her knees, with are arms being straight. The solution as seen in many pictures of spankings: Lower my head to the floor, thus my arms are bent and just resting on the floor.
The above picture truly shows how much more of the bottom is available to be easily and effectively spanked. You also get a great look at your partners legs, feet, and shoes, and the carpet. (That is, if your eyes are not watering)

OWWWWW! The first of what was to be many spanks really landed where few spanks are normally given. The spanks came at a medium pace, strong, spanking the bottom of my cheeks, and the top of my legs. Wow... I was definitely dancing, and the owws makes me glad that we close the windows before any spanking at home. Cindy paused, and massaged my bottom a little, and then had me spread my legs for a little extra caressing, and then began the spanking again. She remarked how this really gives her another area to spank, and seems to be very effective. I assured her it was effective. More spanks with that wooden 'holy terror' proved it'to be well names, andthe spanking ending.

The caressing began, and then I was permitted to stand up. I immediately thanked Cindy for the spanking, and then went down on my knees to begin making love with Cindy. Being on my knees gave excellent access to her breasts, and then her pussy, which was by now extremely wet. Cindy had her hands on my head while I was orally pleasing her. The hands on the head was a very dominant/submissive concept, and we both loved it. Her orgasm was fabulous.

Upon entering Cindy, intercourse was fantastic, and Cindy had a second orgasm while I was climaxing.

We agreed that this might be a wonderful thing to continue!!!! Good man spankings...
Happy Spankings
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