caned while on vacation

Well, in looking back, we had both a wonderful vacation, and lots of spankings. One was that I was caned one night, for some reason that I do NOT remember.

Ronnie's canes are very effective, so I brought one along for the vacation. The advantage of a cane is that it is silent, and the only noise is if I verbally or gutturally make a lot of noise while being caned.

Our next port of callt heenxt day was St. Martin, and avisit to the nude beach at Orient bay.
The photo does not show many marks, but if you were up close, you could see some red lines on the top of my bottom.

I was not afraid to show them, and wondered if someone would remark and thus spark a conversation about spanking.

The beach was basically  empty as to normal years, as the entire resort (Club Orient) was totally destroyed by the hurricane.

They did have some chairs and umbrellas to rent, and we felt we were adding a little to their fortunes by taking a taxi to and from the beach, and renting equipment. In the port, we bought some souvenirs, and hot sauces for cooking.
In 21 days of cruising, I might have spanked at least five or more times.
 oh well
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weight control spanking being instituted

As many people do, I have eaten too much while on a  cruise ship  for 21 days. Cindy has decided, with my agreement, that I have to lose weight, and spankings will be a part of getting me to some new goals.

Actually, Cindy explained this to me, while I was over her knee, and my bottom being peppered with the short tawse, EVERYWHERE on my bottom, with  lots  of enthusiasm given to each spank..

This happened the first day home (Saturday), and we will have a weigh in every Tuesday.

Remember that you always gain weight when flying, and with all the salt and sugar in the food onboard, the weight is abnormally high.

However, mine is too high, and I want it lower.

The spanking: well the far cheek when spanked has some significant wrapping, and when the near cheek is spanked OTK, the devilish tips dive into the crack between your cheeks.

A few tears were created in one eye before this spanking ended. This was on top of Valentines Day three spankings (on the Wednesday, and the strong tawse spanking for rudeness on Thursday, so Saturday had a very tender bottom that was spanked)

I imagine I will be spanked every Tuesday, until my weight is below 180, and continue until I get to 175. My height is 5' 10", or at least it used to be (5' 9.75" now). Sadly, I carry a lot of the weight in my stomach.

Cindy's spankings are now extremely effective, and I bounce around on her lap and gyrate, to no effect whatsoever, except for Cindy in a very amused tone saying your feet are showing your appreciation of my efforts. (they dance incessantly)

I will keep you updated on my progress, but will not mention my actual weight now (it is below 185)
I believe I can lose weight

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Cindy is no longer reluctant to spank me, and this has been a wonderful aaddition to our love affair, that has lasted over 46 years.
this could be your lifestyle, as I am very used to being spanked

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viewing your fate

Just like their is the almighty finger, there is also another silent method of showing you what awaits.
As you descend the stairs, you see your wife is waiting for you
 She might have called you to come help her in the kitchen for a moment
 or she might have walked into the room you were in looking upset
or she might walk into the room with a determined demeanor
but, ideally, having decided how to handle the situation, she should be already HAPPY and SMILING
rest assured, you will no longer saying this next caption
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Sitting here on a very sore red bottom, due to a strong spanking with the tawse.

I get anxious while checking in on line for a flight, and responded very rudely to Cindy.

Back in the cabin, a little while later, it was bare bottom over the knee, for only significantly harsh spanks from the tawse, all over my bottom. I squirmed, moved, and gyrated while bein* spanked. None of these movements decreased the effects of the spanks.
Some pauses for explanation of why I am being spanked, then many more spanks.

When finished, Cindy was quite surprised and delighted with how red my entire bottom was.

I thanked her for the spanking, and added my apology again. I also stated that was how she should spank when needed, because it was very effective.

Now for a swim in the pool to cool off my bottom
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Update: the cool pool did nothing except accentuate the cool skin and hot bottom
My Reacting to stress, real or imaginary, must be more thoughtful in the future


Valentine’s Day update

After a wonderful dinner of lobster tails, and an evening of dancing, followed by a comedy show, the last spanking session occurred.
No clothes, over the knees with Cindy sitting upright, the tawse visited the until then white top area of my bottom!
OWWWW just does not explain how effective this spanking was, and then the tawse visited all other parts of my bottom including the top of the back of my legs.
Cindy explained that I have eating too much on the cruise, and I. Can expect to be spanked often at home until I can show her that I am eating reasonably!

My bottom is very sore today, but a good soreness

Ps: I was truly squirming under the tawse, and the thought whilst writing this makes the top of my bottom sore remembering

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Happy Valentines Day to everyone

Just a very quick post while using wifi on a Sea day!
We are celebrating by my being spanked three different times today!
First was Ronnie’s cane in groups of 14,to match the date of today!
Not hard, but had me moving and clenching, while over pillows. Total of 56 strokes or so, followed by fabulous love making. This happened in the morning.

This afternoon has groups of 7 to each cheek, with the bath brush. My bottom is quite on fire, as the total of both is a bit over 140.
Tonight after a formal dinner on board, will be a session with the short tawse. This was my idea, but Cindy is quite enjoying herself.

Happy Valentine’s Day

Bottoms up


The finger

The finger states everything, by just a simple motion
 the come here is undeniable
 exactly where?
that too is undeniable

the result that will happen.. hmmmmm I wonder
yes, that appears right

even superwoman can be spanked  (www.shadowlane.com)
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 always remember to smile



Happy to be spanked

As much as a spanking hurts, and your bottom is on fire, it is pleasurable

What is it that people like about being spanked? It's not just that it hurts, right?
My students always say that it's the attention to detail, but I can't imagine that anyone else goes to the trouble of using only hand-carved Honduran mahogany paddles and natural-boar-bristle hairbrushes. 
Pain is a factor, as is pleasure, but there's no one word to accurately describe the appeal of the erotic spanking. "I think it has more to do with the delightful sting and the delightful warmth and the delightful vibrations that it sends through the whole region," says Gloria Brame, Ph.D. and coauthor of Different Loving: the World of Sexual Dominance & Submission. Like I said, the only word to accurately describe it is delightful. For one thing, the region favored by the modern spankhound — the Lower Ass Valley just north of the Upper Thigh Province — is a tender zone that, when smacked just right, rouses the neighboring genitals in both men and women. And of course there's the humiliation aspect, which we all need in order to feel loved. But beyond that, you could say that spanking is simply about people. "Me, basically, it's just kind of the intimacy," says KC Spanks Club founder Rich Spankman (of the East Hampton Spankmans), "but that's not a term I really want to use either, because it implies sexuality and that's not what I'm looking for." Maybe delightful? "Friendly. Like a friend... more like a friend." The bottom line for spanking is that there is no bottom line, except the bottom line, which is so infuriating, it just makes you want to put the whole thing over your knee and give a good swift spank.
 I am usually smiling afterwards, like this gorgeous woman
and the sex is amazingly even better afterwards, whether immediately, later that day , or the next day
We highly recommend spanking for a couple to explore
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Happy to spank you

Cindy becomes very happy while spanking me,
 Her smile
is both very provocative
and very worrisome
She might look so super sweet
but the implement will take you aback
and both during
 and afterwards
she is happy

The only time is if she starts to get upset about something while lecturing during the spanking, so we have solved that by lecture first if she is unhappy,

and then the spanking driving home the point of a change in behavior is needed.

Does your partner smile after spanking you?

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