3.3.18

Being open about spanking

Well, I doubt we will ever get there publicly with strangers, but privately, a few couples through the internet know about our spanking activities.

Someday, I wish that Cindy might say this, if we are speaking with people who are not family, or local friends. (That is, unless they state they are into spanking in their relationship.
It is always nice to come home to a happy wife, even if it means she is happy because she is about to spank you.
Has anyone told family about their spanking activities.
We only have children and their spouses, so will NOT be telling them.

bottoms up



Red

19 comments:

Merryslave said...

Merry has 5 grown sons from a previous, ages 26 - 32.
Two of them are aware that Merry spanks me, although I don't think Merry has specifically told them so much as they've been around our place enough to figure it out.
Merry's 4th husband (I am here fifth) is completely aware, because he lives with us.
Re your first picture, if Merry was asked a direct question, I'm sure she would be open and truthful, but the topic is not how she starts a conversation.

QBuzz said...

Well I think our neighbors are aware that we spank each other, if only because of the noise :D

Anonymous said...

We have not told anyone, but my girlfriend sometimes gives me a few swats on my (fully clothed) bottom in front of friends, so maybe some of them have realised that she goes further in private.

Anonymous said...

Hello Red, I think it's on the safe side to assume that Lindsay's sister knows that I am being spanked by her. She made a remark about it, not too long ago. It's strangely exciting to know that she supects it, haha.

Best wishes,

Marco (from Lindsay).

Dan Mel said...

Yes we have a few people who know my wife spanks me. My mother in law and sister in law know and I know a couple of my wife's friends know. Also one of the house keeping ladies at the hotel we are at knows I am spanked now.

Joe said...

We have not shared with anyone but some may have heard.

Anonymous said...

No family or friends know that Robyn spanks me. We feel it's a private matter between her and I. If some one did figure it out it would not bother me. I'm not ashamed that she spanks me.
archedone

kdpierre said...

Rosa and I are 'out' as you, or anyone who visits my blog, know.

Anonymous said...

Very early into my first marriage, N. decided to spank me (for a reason) under the eyes of one of her closest friends, then, in time, of three others (one of whom was J.) Of course, I have no way of knowing whether any of them later told about it (J. claims she didn't)... Later, after we were married, J. followed N's example and occasionally spanked me (or threatened to) in front of a few of her own friends - one of whom had also watched N. "in action"- but she also invited B., her sister, not only to watch but also to "give a hand"!... I am fairly sure that the word has gotten around... And then, of course, there are the (many) times when N. or J. have spanked or whipped me in hotel rooms (or other semi-public locations) where there is always a good chance of being overheard - as I have discovered...
L.

Anonymous said...

Yes, there is no doubt that a few of N's friends (myself included) knew that she spanked - or whipped - you... even before she actually "demonstrated" it. She had made a point of hanging her martinet on the kitchen wall, where I (and some others) could see it - and figure out what it was used for! It was, shall we say, a "conversation piece" (and that's the reason why my own martinet is also hanging on the kitchen wall in our new home)... My other "tools" are kept in a closet (which only B. knows about), but the martinet -and the kitchen spoon, the paddle or the hairbrush- are the only ones I use when you are being disciplined in the presence of those of my friends who are "in the know"...
J.

Anonymous said...

I guess I should be grateful for your restraint... even though you did (twice) use the vinegar-tempered maple switches to whip me under the eyes of P. and G.
L.

Red said...

Merryslave: thanks for such an enlightening explanation of your marriage.
Qbuzz: At least a couple or more of our cabin steward or cabin neighbors on cruise ships must know by now.
anon: thanks for sharing
Marco: maybe someday, Lindsay will invite her to watch.
Dan Mel; quite a few. I would find it liberating.
Joe: very possible
archedone: identical to us
kdpierre: very true, and proud of it, which is wonderful
L and J: thanks for sharing your spanking adventures.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Yes - and that was fun, wasn't it? They enjoyed it - and were thrilled to learn that you were instructed to regularly supply me with those switches! :-)
J.

Anonymous said...

Weather permitting... tomorrow will be the opening of the outdoors whipping season! L. has been well-behaved since he got a taste of the rattan cane earlier this week (and also when Maria came to work). Today, he did his chores without my needing to use the kitchen spoon or the martinet - but tomorrow... a hike in the woods - and a good maple switch!
J.

Anonymous said...

Hoping for rain - but sooner or later (and over the next six months) ... I know what to expect!
L.

Anonymous said...

It was still a bit chilly on Sunday when we went out in the woods, but I am sure you will agree that I managed to put some serious heat on your exposed derrière with that nice maple switch!... More to follow over the next six months...
J.

Red said...

J: good method to heat both of you on a chilly day.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

L. has been relatively well-behaved this week. Only once did he need a "reminder" (with the martinet) - and Maria had no cause to chastise him on Wednesday - but over the weekend he may need some "attention" while he performs his usual chores... and (weather permitting) I am planning another trip in the woods!
J.

Anonymous said...

I did get a taste of the strap on Saturday (for mishandling the laundry), but - given the weather - escaped the trip in the woods (and its usual consequences!) but J. decided I needed a stern caning earlier tonight.. and left my derrière with some sorry marks!... I will certainly do my best to avoid displeasing Maria tomorrow!...
L.