25.2.18

rubbing a spanked bottom

I have never rubbed my spanked bottom after being spanked!  Here are a series of questions you might consider answering.

Have you ever rubbed your bottom immediately after being spanked?


Does it help relieve the soreness by loosening up the tightness in your bottom, caused by quenching  and squeezing.


Does your partner permit you to rub?


Does your partner smile with satisfaction if you are rubbing and holding your bottom?



your thoughts......

bottoms up


Red

11 comments:

QBuzz said...

I find it's usual the spanker's job to rub the bottom. Once it's suitably hot and red of course!

Anonymous said...

I rubbed once after a particularly noisy spanking with my wife's hairbrush. I didn't think that thing would hurt as much as it did. It excited me all the more if you know what I mean. ;)

Yorkie

Dan Mel said...

Not allowed to rub. If I do I get spanked again.

juliesp said...

I find it comical and humiliating. Sometimes I MAKE my husband rub his ass after a spanking, especially if there are witnesses. When he faces the wall and rubs, you can see his butthole!

I recently got spanked "for fun" in front of my family over my dress (see my blog for that). I rubbed to add to the comedy and blushy embarrassment of it all. It comes naturally, though, to a well-spanked butt!

Anonymous said...

I am not allowed to rub my bottom after the spanking unless she gives me permission to do so. I cannot ask for that permission either, it must come from her without me asking. If I rub without her permission I get spanked again. It does help to relieve the pain, I think. And YES! she smiles with satisfaction after she administers the discipline. On the occasions that she allows me to rub my behind she smiles with delight and satisfaction.
JayJay

Anonymous said...

Same here no rubbing allowed. Even if I was allowed to rub I don't think I would as I love to feel the sting and soreness. Having said that a few times after spanking me she has rubbed my bottom.
archedone

Red said...

qbuzz: a possibility, just to see how hot it is, and whether more spanks are needed

Yorkie: sounds a delightful way towards hopefully higher expectations (smiling)

Dan Mei: that would stop any rubbing permanently

juliesp; you are having such delightful fun. Making hubby rub when others are watching after a spanking increases the humiliation plus the dominance. I will post and send everyone who has yet to read your shenanigans. I will try rubbing to see if it helps, or works like Yorkie states. (that would always be helpful

JayJay: always important to do only what the spanker permits. A new spanking stating immediately after both parties thought the spanking was over, has to be FRIGHTFUL. Glad your wife is happy after spanking you.

archedone: thanks for sharing. Robyn rubbing your BOTTOM after spanking you is something I might suggest to Cindy.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

J. has no hard and set rules when it comes to "rubbing", but she herself never does it. When I serve some "corner time" after a session, I am tacitly allowed to rub my derrière - unless I am expressly forbidden to do so. When the spanking or whipping has been witnessed by one of her friends (which, fortunately, is not too often), I am typically allowed to "rub"- which, I guess, is meant to show how effective the session was! B. (J's sister), for her part, always enjoys watching me rub my bottom after she has blistered it...
L.

Anonymous said...

I don't need to see you rub your bottom after it has been paddled or flogged once you have knelt at my feet and kissed my hand - but I do enjoy it when you do... especially when one of my friends is watching!
J.

Red said...

L and J: seems rubbing has some advantages for everyone.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Well, this being the weekend, I got four serious lickings with the martinet, the crop and (2x) one of J's maple switches for failing to "perform" as required... (And rubbing was allowed!)
L.