18.11.17

love our lurkers Nov 17 and 18

As you have seen on numerous  spanking blogs, we are asking people who may not have added a comment to the post to consider leaving one today or tomorrow.

The idea in my mind is to give you a little nudge towards sharing the reality of spankings that might be in your life. (As always, this blog is for those 18 and over, and if you are younger, please leave and do something more exciting than reading blogs.)

Writing a blog has helped me connect with similar minded people, and seeing their normal every day life, with a little spanking to add some extra spice. Most women and men spanking bloggers are spanked, and enjoy it, although not necessarily while the spanking is occurring. Women, however, are more willing to share their everyday thoughts and adventures, which is great to read. Somehow, I am shy about writing that, but not about writing about my spankings.

If you visit a blog occasionally, PLEASE leave a short message thanking the person for their efforts, even if you are not currently in a spanking relationship.

I  am uncertain whose drawing this is, but if they would let me know I will link to their site, or remove it if they desire it to be removed.
I love this piece of art, so if you know the artist, I would like to see more of their drawings.

What I like about this is that the woman looks unperturbed that someone has seen them, but the man is shocked, and very embarrassed.


I imagine the shyness is not wanting anyone who is not into spanking to know about our lifestyle. Having met so many people in my life's work, and in officiating, I do NOT want any of them to know.

Thus, I always recommend: to anyone who might be leaving a comment to:
create a secondary email account, from a site that you never use except for spanking related messages,
do not use any data that is real when creating that account,
never save a user name or password on your computer for this account
and always use a specific browser that you normally do not use, and use it incognito if possible.
with the prevalence of computers on your phone, this becomes more troublesome, so maybe turn off the suggestion mode so that accidently someone does not see what pops up.

You can always post as anonymous, but with fiction writers using anonymous, your comment might not appear, unless it rings true... One unfortunate person keeps wanting to write about his fantasies, instead of going out and living life.

and always smile

I believe a list of spanking bloggers that are posting  "love our Lurkers" can be found on Hermione's blog         http://hermionesheart.blogspot.com


 enjoy life
 and remember
bottoms up
Red

15 comments:

Terpsichore said...

Stopping by from Hermione's blog list to say hello and wish you a happy LOL day! Best wishes, Terpsichore

Fondles said...

Happy LOL day to you too! and i loved that sylvester pic!

ronnie said...

Red hello. Happy LOL days. You have a lot of readers so I hope you get some new ones come out and say hello. I love visiting you here but don't always comment. It's good getting to know you.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

an English Rose said...

Hi Red, nice post, hope you have fun today and tomorrow.
love Jan,xx

Anonymous said...

I love the comic posters you find. More please!
- MyTopFantasy

Anonymous said...

Thank you for your blog!

lindy thomas said...

G'day Red, lovely post. Happy lol days, hope you make heaps of new friends.
Hugs Lindy xx

Eric51 Amy49 said...

Hey there Red,
I've been a lurker here for a couple of years. Hello!
Amy

Cat said...

Happy LOL Days, Red...don't always comment but do enjoy your blog. Thanks for the giggles and the excellent advice.

Hugs and blessings...Cat

Diary of Daisy said...

I'm new to your blog so can't wait to read more. Happy LOL day Red!

Katie said...

Hi Red, :) Happy LOL Days! Love your post! The cartoon about the hot dog and the smart ass gave me a good laugh. I think that your advice to others is very good info. Thank you for sharing.

I've been a lurker this past year, and even then, on and off. I have been an unorganized blogger this year, and hope to write more, as well as get around more in the coming months. It's nice to stop by! Enjoy the celebration! Many hugs,

<3 Katie

Downunder Don said...

Hi Red,
I love your take on life and all those silly/insightful/funny photos and cartoons. I also think you are a very brave man to go across Cindy's lap as often as you do.
Happy LOL day and may there be many more

Baker said...

First time here, stopping in to say happy LOL day to you!
--Baker

Eddie said...

Hello Red,
I'm a lurker from Ireland who thinks your blog is terrific.!
Keep up the good work.!!

Red said...

Terpsichore: thanks, hope you had a happy LOL day also.
Fondles: thanks for dropping by Happy LOL to you also
Ronnie: thank you, and wonderful to get to know you also.
Jan: thanks, and hope you have a fun LOL also
Mytop fantasy: you are welcome, thanks for dropping by
anon: you are welcome.. and if Sean, stay with reality.
Lindy: G'day to you to mate
Eric and Amy: thanks for dropping by regularly, and leaving a comment occasionally
Cat: advice should always be taken with a grain of salt, as what works for one couple does not necessarily work for anyone else. Glad you like the humor also
diary of daisy: I will have to look at your blog also. welcome aboard
Katie: you are always welcome, and thanks for the kind words
Downunder Don: Life should be enjoyed, and I have asked Cindy to spank me, and it has worked for us amazingly, fantastically well. Fun things in each post is fun for me also.
Baker: Happy Lol to you also, and thanks for dropping by.
Eddie: thank you. I am glad you like the blog
bottoms up
Red