8.10.17

Do your children know you are spanked?

I wonder what our children would think if they knew that I was spanked whenever necessary, and occasionally Cindy is spanked....




Just imagine the scenario where we unfortunately die at the same time, and without having cleared out all the spanking implements. Obviously, they would be discovered by our children and their partners, but hopefully not by the grandkids.

I should consider writing a letter to our children (who are adults), and store it in with the spanking implements.  This is a unlikely scenario, but it is possible.

Have you ever considered this?
What might you consider doing now that I have mentioned it..

bottoms up

Red

19 comments:

kdpierre said...

Both my biological and my step kids all know......so there would be no surprises if a post mortem toy discovery was made. It would be more like , "oh, here's where they kept everything!"

juliesp said...

My husband and I were sorting through the appartement of his great uncle, a bachelor, who had passed on recently. I found 2 large black binders. Each page was an image of a shemale cutout from underground porn magazines, I suppose, with a clear plastic cover meticulously placed on each. Did not even show them to my husband, just discretely put them in a garbage bag and down the chute. Never told a soul!

an English Rose said...

Hi red, yes they both know about our fun and games. Our youngest is following in our footsteps we think.
love Jan, xx

Anonymous said...

We have one good friend who knows about our Domestic Discipline lifestyle and other kinks. She has suggested that we put a provision in our wills leaving her the locked footlocker in which we keep most of our toys, and she will dispose of it for us. Seems like a reasonable solution, though one we have yet to implement.

Dan

tomtiz said...

Yes my daughter seen me getting a spanking by my wife on the bare ass

cap said...

You were correct in what you did.
Somethings don't need to be reviled.

Dan Mel said...

My step daughter knows I am spanked. She has heard it happen a few times and when she turned 18 my wife gave her permission to spank me if I ever disrespected her.

Anonymous said...

Our daughter knows. She came home one day when she wasn't expected and caught me over my wife knee bare bottomed. I was crying and kicking as my wife was applying the hairbrush. When my was finished my wife seen her standing in the doorway. My daughter laughed and told her mom good job and left the room.
Sunnie

Hermione said...

We have often wondered about that and considered the possibilities. Since nobody knows about our preference, I guess the thing to do would be to dispose of our toys when we have to move to assisted living, or else simply say, "f*** it!" and let them find our toys when we are gone.

Hugs,
Hermione

ronnie said...

Our son doesn't know and I don't think I'd want him to.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Anonymous said...

Our plan is for the children to be enlightened at a suitable age so that it is normalised for them to take into their own marriages when they are adults.

Red said...

kdpierre; well done on your part.
juliesp: excellent solution.. no value in anyone else knowing
Cap: we agree.
Jan: you are much braver than we are... maybe one day you will ask him...
Dan: a very good idea.. worth considering for everyone...
tomtiz; that solved the problem of having to tell her.
Dan: I imagine she might have taken that opportunity by now?
sunnie: delightful.. a very good reaction by your daughter
Ronnie: same with us, but something to consider telling. Not certain they would want to think of us doing that.
anon; wish you stated whether you were male or female, and which sex your children are...
bottoms up
red

Anonymous said...

When my aunt died (and I was the only surviving relative), I discovered in her attic a number of rattan canes that had - I suspected - been acquired in SE Indochina (i.e. Vietnam) and had probably been used by her... At any rate, I decided I would use them... on my husband's backside - and they have been quite effective!

J.

Red said...

Hremione: I have no idea why your comments end up being not sent to my email, and only when I go to awaiting moderation do I find them...
Similarly, if we are no longer playing with the toys, then they will be disposed of. . If an accident occurs and we can not deal with them, then in fortunately our children will have something to discuss, unless someone throws them away without telling the others.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Cap: very true

J; some finds are worthwhile, at least in your circumstances
red

Hermione said...

Hi Red,

Blogger (Google) does not approve of Yahoo email accounts, and refuses to deliver any email from a Yahoo email account, or a few others. That's why you are never notified when I - or Bonnie, or any other Yahoo user - leaves a comment.

Red said...

Hermione: sad to hear this, so I will constantly check awaiting publication, and maybe even change the notification method that sends all (almost all) comments for approval. I enjoy comments from yourself and Bonnie, two very young, old friends.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

J. and I don't have any children, but I have two from my first marriage. N. and I always took good care NOT to let them know (or guess) that she spanked me. This meant that N. kept her "tools" under lock and key. It also meant that spankings or whippings seldom took place in immediate response to a "punishable" offense (as had been the case before they were born), but had to wait until they were in day care, or playing out with neighboring kids. When they got a bit older, N. would sometimes send them out on an errand when she had an 'account' to settle at the expense of my derrière. By the time they were in school, the 'problem' was much easier to deal with (and the 'sessions' could be harsher! -and even more so when they went away to college) ... This was the time when N. and J. became friends (and when J. learned - and watched - how N. dealt with my 'misdemeanors'. The 'kids' - now adults and living far away from 'home' - had no inkling, I am sure, that my 'new' wife was emulating their mother's disciplinary methods - any more than they had when she was still alive...
L.

Red said...

L & J: this information makes me wonder? Just saying!
bottoms up
Red