8.9.17

a friend was spanked

This is a wonderful caption, that is very true in many households

We personally know this couple, and she has also spanked me. We started communicating a very long time ago, when she started searching the internet, and came across my www.spankedhubby.blogspot.com
He had introduced spanking into their relationship, and she was searching about men being spanked, and I happily encouraged her that it was equally fine for a woman to spank her man.

She never looked backwards after that, and although she was occasionally spanked, he was and is spanked much more often, and I think he is the only one that is spanked.

Do you think, that:


SUBCONSCIO|USLY, you misbehave.
just to be spanked?  


your thoughts
Personally, I think I do sometimes with out knowing I am doing it.

 too good to resist

bottoms up
Red

15 comments:

Cat said...

Thanks for the giggles, Red...the umbrella one is my favorite. ;)

Hugs and blessings...Cat

Anonymous said...

I don't believe I've ever acted up so I would get a spanking, but I do know I've asked her to spank me. Just because I felt I wanted one.
archedone

john said...

Yes, those were the days my friend. Thought they would never end. Regretfully due to health issues there is not much spanking any more and certainly no parties. You're very Lucky you're still going strong with spanking and all the travels. Hope to see you too again.

Red said...

Cat: you are welcome

archedone: my misbehavior at times has frequently merited a spanking. This behavior is not asking to be spanked, but bottoms up is the outcome.

John: I did not know you were still reading this blog, so thanks for leaving a comment. Spanking parties are a thing of the past, but when d is feeling great, do ask for a sp anking directly, instead of misbehaving. Hope we meet again soon also.

bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I doubt that L. ever deliberately misbehaves to earn a spanking (if only because he knows I will "deliver" without fail for any transgression), but he has learned the hard way what 'consequences' will inevitably follow his misdemeanors. And, of course, I alone decide on the "specifics" on what is called for!

J.

Red said...

J: as it should be, and as it is with Cindy
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

It's true that J. spanks me often enough (and always for "a reason") that I don't need to create an "occasion", but I do "volunteer" for a spanking (or whatever else she deems appropriate) when I know I have committed a transgression that she hasn't discovered (yet)...

L.

Red said...

I cannot remember doing that, but I probably have in the past
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

In my experience (first with N. and later with J.) "volunteering" can be problematic. To avoid any hints of "topping from the bottom", one has to be clearly found guilty of a punishable offense. Lowering one's pants and offering one's derrière, "assuming the position", fetching a "tool" (when she might wish to use another one) may not be welcome - even if there is no doubt that punishment is called for (and no clemency is to be expected). On some occasions, when my wife was away from home when I "messed up" (e.g. burning the roast), I chose to await her return (and the inevitable consequences!) by positioning myself bottom side-up on top of our bed, or over the back of the sofa so that she would find me "in position" when she got home and found out what I had done... The wait might be fairly long - but the outcome was always memorable, whether N. or J. were "delivering"!

L.

Red said...

L; sounds appropriate, in that you are ready to be spanked, and J (or N in the past) need only determine with what implement(s) and how severely.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

I don't mind L's "volunteering", as long as we both agree WHY he should be punished, but I regard the matter of HOW as my exclusive privilege. The choice of "tools" is mine (even if he is required to fetch them) and so is the "position" he must assume. I may set the "tariff", or (more often) leave it to my own discretion until I feel that the lesson has been learned. I expect him to thank me (on his knees) after the session, to kiss my hands - and (if I so decide) to serve a spell of bare-bottomed "corner time"
J.

Red said...

J: sounds perfect, for a woman n charge of her man.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

J. is indeed "in charge" - as she demonstrated again last night...
And I have been given notice that (weather permitting) a "hike in the woods" is on the agenda this weekend - with the usual (and predictable) consequences for my derrière...

L.

Njspank said...

I always do
Ron

Red said...

L: the great outdoors..enjoy (sort of)
Red