5.3.17

talking back

Sometimes, men just cannot help them-self, but over time, they can learn to improve...
One of my main problems is that when I become anxious, and upset or irritated, I raise my voice to try to explain what I mean...

This is a fault that we are now judiciously working on to change, but I have been this way for more than 40 years, so it will take significant attention by Cindy and extra effort on my part.

 
The implement for the spanking is, like most people, varied according to the mood of the spanker
 
as is my position to be spanked in
but whatever position and implement,  Cindy is VERY QUICKLY SMILING
but I am NOT smiling for certain

only later
smiles

bottoms up
Red

14 comments:

  1. I have given a bit of history of my wife spanking me and my wish that she had started it around the time we were married. I have done and said dumb stuff and had she spanked me at the time, I probably would not have kept doing and saying dumb stuff. Our marriage is a very good one at 33 years and counting, but how much better could it have been had she paddled me when sorely needed. She does now though and all is well.

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  2. Like you Red, the implement and position for correction is up to her. Have you ever wondered if they think ahead of time as to what they are going to use the next time and the position? Or do you feel it's a snap decision on their part.
    archedone

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  3. You should know better, Red. Haha.

    Best wishes,

    Marco

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  4. Back talking during the scolding! Now that is a sure way to get a slap in the face and a dozen extra cracks with the hairbrush or strap! This may be the first thing I learned from her. I back talked her extensively once, in front of her younger sister. I got an instant slap in the face, a severe scolding, and an even more severe spanking, with no regard for my privacy. I can still see the look of she delight on sisters face as my bottom was bared and given a "you won't sit for a week" spanking right there in our kitchen. JayJay

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    1. jayjay - I was spanked much in the same way in front of m younger sister. My wife had me over her knee dressed in my punishment uniform spanking the daylighs out of me when she showed up. She called to her to come in and watch as she continued my spanking. Julie was over joyed to see crying with panties down and my uniform pulled up. My wife stood me up and put me back over my sister lap and let her finish my bare bottom spanking. Julie went home and told my mom and dad about spanking me. Boy is she ever proud.

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    2. I was shocked the first time my wife spanked me after we married and even more so to find out this is how she will handle me when needed. I've had an interest in spanking for a long time but usually pictured myself as the spanker.
      Shortly after our second anniversary and probably about my third spanking by my wife, my sister in law walked in for a planned visit. I had just gotten up from wife's lap and was upstairs dressing. I heard them talking and paused to listen new the stairs.
      I was dumbfounded when my wife told her sister that she'd just had to give me a beating them She went on to discuss my behavior. She also told her sister not to say anything.
      I hid my embarrassment, hopefully well, after finally getting up the nerve to go downstairs. I seriously was not able to look my sister in law in their eye. My butt was warm and stinging and it made me very self conscious. She asked he I was doing I said fine wondering if it was a general question or referring to my recent discipline but i answered a simple fine.
      I never discussed it with my wife and alwAys wonder who else knows but I don't want the answer. I ask her "you don't tell anyone about the discipline do you?"
      She always responds with"behave and I won't need to discipline you. " She evaded the question and I move on. When asked marital advice or my good manners etc. Are commented on my wife always answers regarding husbands, "Love them, respect them, be the best wife you can be and give him a good beating now and then!"
      This always elicits a laugh but I have to say my wife really loved by this.

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    3. Anon: thanks for sharing. I would not think it is wrong for Cindy to tell someone she spanks me when I misbehave, except if it was our children or their spouse.
      Hopefully, friends think that we are a happy couple, and that I am very respectful to everyone.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  5. Baxter: Glad that you are now being spanked, better late than never. Marriages evolve, and it may not have been right earlier in the marriage.

    archedone; mostly a snap decision i would guess.

    Marco: yes, but mistakes happen.

    JayJay: seems like it is a family affair with everyone knowing you are spanked, and some given the privilege to participate.
    bottoms up
    Red

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  6. Yep my mouth gets my ass in trouble all the time
    Ron

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  7. My wife Margaret, like your Cindy, starts smiling quickly once her arm starts swinging!

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  8. My wife Margaret, like your Cindy, starts smiling quickly once her arm starts swinging!

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    1. Tom: exactly as it should be. Margaret is solving a problem.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  9. Years ago, I learned from my (late) first wife that "talking back" could have serious consequences ... but sometimes, I still did - and occasionally still do, even though J. is, if anything, even more intolerant of 'backtalk' than N. was...

    L.

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  10. Ron; we are very similar
    Tom: best method to relieve stress, and feel satisfied that the problem is being addressed, and solved...
    L: we never learn
    bottoms up
    red

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