A brief summary will suffice! Cindy over my knee, with me sitting on the spanking chair is a quite pleasant change! Pants down, panties on, and a hand warm reviewing why she happens to be in this position of her own choosing. ("I don't remember saying three!").
Now the panties are lowered, and the hand spanking becomes firmer, bringing a nice glow to her bottom. Lecture about how we can avoid such a terrible fight over nothing, and how we have so many better ways to deal with stress. (and why the HELL are we stressed when putting things in a suitcase????
Cindy, with encouragement, thanked me for her spanking. We shortly thereafter made quite passionate and exhilarating love.
The next day, Cindy started to lose it over something trivial, i reminded her is this something so serious that it will need a spanking, and she immediately re-thought the situation and all was well. Both of us did not get upset, angry, and the little problem was put in perspective.
Afterwards, i reminded her that anything I do that causes her to be unhappy, she should deal with it by spanking me significantly on the spot, or putting a notch in the spanking chart ( it means five notches results in a strong spanking), or simply say later today I will spank you for this. So easy to solve any problem with a spanking.