5.1.17

reflections and BENEFITS of the 12 days of Christmas SPANKINGS

This has been an ongoing and interesting experiment, which was suggested by me as a ways for reducing Cindy's stress on the build-up to Christmas. (plus more benefits for both of us)

We have not been able, due to family visiting, and other activities, from actually doing this every successive day, but for quite some time it was two out of every three days.

It was my idea, and I thought starting with one spank would not be a worthwhile event.   Day two would have three spanks, day three having six spanks, day four would have ten spanks.. Boredom could set in before reaching any significant spanking.

Thus, we started with twelve spanks with the long tawse. IT is a very effective implement, and the benefit was that Cindy knew she would only give twelve spanks, so she made certain that everyone was effective.

The next day, as you should read (if you planning on do this), had 12 spanks with the soup stirrer, and eleven with the long tawse. Thus Cindy wanted the soup stirrer to be effective, but she also wanted the tawse to be effective.  (you can read about the other days by going further back in this blog's posts)
THE FIRST WONDERFUL BENEFIT OF THIS TWELVE DAYS OF CHRISTMAS IS THAT CINDY HAS TAUGHT HERSELF HOW TO MAKE EVERY SPANK BE REALLY EFFECTIVELY FELT.

THE SECOND WONDERFUL BENEFIT IS THAT SHE HAS EXPERIMENTED WITH USING THE SAME IMPLEMENT DAILY, AND LEARNED HOW TO BE THE MOST EFFECTIVE WITH THIS IMPLEMENT.

THE THIRD BENEFIT: RAMPING UP CINDY'S DOMINANCE, AND MY SUBMISSIVENESS. Cindy is now enjoying having me move from one position to another for each implement, and visually how the implement is more effective in a specific position.

THE FOURTH BENEFIT IS THAT OUR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS HAVE SKYROCKETED THROUGH THE CEILING, EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD BEEN AT A WONDERFULLY HIGH LEVEL OF MUTUAL EXHILARATION prior to this sequence of spankings. However, we make love after every second and occasionally after the third spanking, as the combination of both spanking and sex is totally mind blowing, but also a wonderful exhaustion.

The FIFTH BENEFIT IS THAT CINDY REALLY REALLY ENJOYS SPANKING ME. SHE HAS A GRIN FROM EAR TO EAR AFTER THE SPANKING ENDS. This is from both the physical exertion needed to spank, the dominance, and the anticipated sex, or denial of sex for another day. She is TOTALLY IN CHARGE!

Proof of this happened yesterday. She remarked over breakfast how wonderful the sex had been last night, and she still feels wiped out by it. She stated:" I wanted to both spank you and make love, but knew I wouldn't have the energy for both." [key note: I WANTED TO SPANK YOU!!!!!!!]

Another benefit is that I am truly spanked, and my bottom is sore for a few days after this frequency and intensity of spankings began.

The only deficit is that Cindy's stress was alleviated only for a few hours, but did not have a lasting effect. My sore bottom lasted longer than her being stress free.

I would suggest that everyone who is in a spanking relationship suggest this to their partner, but IT MUST BE THE SPANKEE THAT IS SUGGESTING IT. I would object to the spanker suggesting this, as the spankee has maybe little say in the ultimate acceptance or decline of this sequence. If the spanker does suggest, and the spankee agrees, maybe start with only one spank the first day, and grow into the total slowly... This would be much easier to have one's bottom recover during the twelve days.

Lastly, it could be done anytime of year, which should be obvious... a way to pass the winter months, or a way to pass the time indoors during the heat of summer.

What are your thoughts on this topic? Please share whether you think this might be something you will discuss with your partner.

bottoms up
Red

15 comments:

  1. As you know I've been following your 12 days of Christmas spanking. It is apparent Cindy is having more fun and is enjoying her dominance as are you. I agree if you had started with one spank it would have gotten boring. For those thinking of trying this (at least for me) I would want to start with the 12 day and work back so my bottom does get and stay sore for the full 12 days as a reminder to me that I'm being submissive to her. and to answer your question as we are getting frozen in I'm going to suggest it to R.
    archedone

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  2. no matter how my wife decides to give spankings and for how many days, as long as I'm over her lap, bare bottom in position is fine with me, this is heaven.

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  3. I would like to as Lindsay about it, but with a little daughter in the house, it's not going to happen, haha. It's really something to keep in mind though. I wonder how my little ass would feel after 12 days of spankings....and the lovely sex, of course.

    Marco

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  4. Red, it is almost an example of practice makes perfect - for her that is. And of course, you did learn new positions and new punishments too.

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  5. We actually did the 12 days of Christmas differently. We started out with 12 spanks the first day and worked down. But towards the end, it got somewhat boring. But then resolution time came and the annual 'We need to lose weight' resolution came up. I want to lose 18 pounds (actually need to lose 28) but want this doable. My wife needs to lose more. So 12 days of Christmas at about day seven morphed into spankings for weight loss. the first day, I received 6 or 7 spanks for the days of Xmas, 18 spanks for the pounds I need to lose and then quite a bunch that my wife needs to lose. The thinking here is that I helped her gain the weight so I should receive the spankings, she doesn't really like spankings and I do. So the first spanking was a doozy and my bottom was warm and sore for a few days.

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  6. Our 12-day observance came to an end tonight - with (as expected) B's thick paddle, followed of course by a recap with all previously used 'tools'. Not something I would care to be repeated (until next year, at least) My derrière is sore, to be sure, but not as much as I feared... I guess my backside has gotten tougher from frequent tannings (something that J. had already noted!)
    B. will be flying home tomorrow (possibly after delivering an extra "farewell") and, after that, it will be back to 'business as usual' with J. :-)

    L.

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  7. archedone: good luck in convincing R, and maybe a day off every second day might be a wise idea after day four or five... I was fortunate that Christmas visitors gave a few breaks.

    anon: glad you both are happy

    Marco; the little one does go to bed earlier than you do, so possibilities exist. You would just have to be quiet, and play music to cover the noise... but I have no idea how big your mansion is, so best to err on safety than your daughter finding out.

    otkloverjohn: definitively a win/win (sore) situation

    Baxter; welcome ot the club.. daily spankings become more intense as the days pass, even with almost the same amount of strokes. Good luck in the weight loss.

    L: sounds delightful, but I also now know how sore a bottom can feel like... You always know it while sitting.
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. L's derrière was sore indeed (and bruised) after B. and I delivered the final installment in our "12-Days" celebration, and I expect he will be on his best behavior for a while... But if he shouldn't... well! you know what may happen...

      J.

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    2. J; to each their own, but we avoid bruising.Wooden implements are used only on the most padded parts of my bottom. However, the tip of the cane can leave a few marks.
      Glad you had a fun Christmas
      bottoms up
      Red

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    3. Yes, we did! And L. took it like a trooper... Sure, his backside was bruised - but it's almost back to 'normal' now... and ready for a taste of the kitchen spoon or of the martinet next time he deserves it (although he has been remarkably well-behaved over the past few days) :-)

      J.

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    4. That 'next time' was on Sunday (while I was doing my usual chores) -and J. used a couple of her maple switches...

      L.

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  8. As I am still developing my wife's interest in spanking me 12 days can not happen for me right now. It has been Great reading your story and will try for 12 days as a soon as possible. Thanks Red for your great blog.

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    1. Joe: I would not advise you trying for this. Be happy your wife is willing to spank you,and let this slowly build. This is a first for us, in over 12 years of my being spanked.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  9. You guys are amazing. What a great treat for you both. Love it and so jealous. I love the pics you added to some of my favorite hairbrush pics.
    Regards
    Ron

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