Ronnie's canes put to good use...

We seem to have gotten into a cycle where I am being spanked often. Why this is happening is uncertain to me, but I can offer some ideas...

The significant first caning the day before a busy weekend with family and friends, as a warning, was also followed by the Saturday having a short somewhat strong caning to behave before going out, now using the somewhat swishier cane... On an already sore bottom, this had a salutary effect. The day was excellent.

The Sunday, just again before leaving, was now the turn of the teacher style cane, with a crooked handle, that  is MAXIMUM SWISHY. Just a set of six, but after six maybe just six more, and WOW,  Cindy did not use the cane strongly, but it was VERY EFFECTIVE.

Thus, three canings in three days, and this humble man owns five of Ronnie's canes.

Why more spankings?
1. Cindy was a little reluctant to write to Ronnie,  as Cindy is super friendly, but innately shy. However, acquiescing to my request, Cindy was delighted after reading Ronnie's super friendly response. Cindy would rather talk about family, and get to know someone, than simply talk about spanking. Thus, Cindy now has a better idea of another wonderful person who happens to enjoy spanking,  as opposed to one (and only one)  unfortunate experience we once had. (even though most of that adventure had been wonderful) There are so many wonderful spankos in the world.  I guess it is something like Cindy would never talk about our sex life with someone, so the idea of talking to someone only about spanking would be unacceptable. Talking about family, travel, exciting things is far more important. By writing to Ronnie, Cindy is more comfortable with the idea of spanking me. Cindy goes through phases, like everyone else, and this phase is spank now, and spank often. If I do something she dislikes, bare your bottom. It works.

2. We do not have sex after every spanking, and thus the build up of sexual tension makes the sex a day or two later explosive.

3. We are content and extremely happy and fortunate in life, and thus spank away any little problem.

4. Cindy is using spankings to have me do positive things. She has promised me a spanking tomorrow, simply so that I plan activities for myself when she is busy all day for the next period of time. no plans, longer spanking, daily, on an already wells spanked bottom.

In summary, Cindy used the cane last Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and since then she has used the food stirrer twice in the kitchen for on the spot, and the short OTK cane from Ronnie, in an over the knee spanking in our bedroom. You might now understand why I am sititng on a well padded chair writing this.

ASIDE: I am re-publishing my former blog... spankedhubby.blogspot.com , about once a day or two, and I am amazed that their were so many spankings given by Cindy (then called Lynn) in a short period of time. We seem to be in that phase currently. Th epostings currently are from 2005, so twelve years ago. Makes us confirmed spankos.

oh yes... OTK   means, as I defined it back then  Only Too Kind...
(photos of women being caned, much better than seeing my bottom)
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Spanking Art sites

Many, many people like looking at spanking art, and I am one of them....
So, today, here is a selection of sites you might like to look at.

However, they are either consensual, or fantasy, and the 
vast majority will have young women being spanked. However, here is one for KDPIERRE that shows a office setting where the MAN is about to be spanked

Have fun looking, but also realize many sites have children being spanked, and that is something WE FIND UNACCEPTABLE.. CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY!

Irony for today, to make you smile

 political, or just plain funny



femdom spanking photos

Although this site says consensual spanking, most people know that the predominance of photos and spankings that I post are about a woman spanking a man.

"I know this is very embarrassing to you to be spanked like a naughty little boy but finish laying across my knees so I can give you a painful spanking"
This site has many fun photos and captions, as the above quote shows

"She is so thrilled that he actually admitted that he was wrong and she was right, and now is being spanked for starting the fight."

The author of this blog also writes spanking stories

After a hand spanking, be sure he feels it by using a hairbrush or bath brush. It’s a good indication that he is feeling his spanking when he tries to protect his bottom with his hand.

so many pictures, that you will certainly find many for your enjoyment.

The title is somewhat misleading  
Spanking, domination, chastity, as in my quick look a tthe last months, I did not see any chastity photos.

Definitely a site worth visiting for F/M Pictures

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SOMEDAYS, you feel like this

this is  the way it goes
 and sometimes, Cindy has the same thought
 come here
effective from the first spank
and if your feet kcik too much, they are restrained
You can almost hear the words   ...
"That spanking really hurt darling."
"Well, that's exactly what you needed, and you will have more in the future whenever needed"

I am happy that she follows through on the thought, as, being spanked washes away stress, misbehavior, or simple blah feelings
Do spankings work for you and your partner?

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SPANKEDHUBBY (reviving a old blog)

Enough time has passed by, that I can revive a older blog, and for those interested, they can connect the dots which they had believed from the start....
I was blogging as DWCMIKE in 2005, and am now re-posting those posts, from the beginning, one or two a day.

I HAD a difference of opinion about posting about a spanking gathering with some participants!

Those posts will NEVER be mentioned, and I WILL NOT EVER be posting anything about the event.

It is fun to think that using stat counter, there were 2,750,000 visits to the site, and this site you are reading has more than 5,800,000 individual visits.

(total more than 8.000,000 unique visits to a spanking blog)

So, if you really want to read my original thoughts when I posted in 2005,and for  a few years,  click on the link

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Caned with Ronnie's Canes

The canes took just ten actual days to arrive, the ten days including the day mailed and the day received, and includes a weekend. Extremely fast, and maybe a little too fast.

It took only one day for me to receive the benefits of their arrival.

Cindy stated early in the day that I imagine I will have to spank you later, as we have two weekend engagements, and this will help ensure good behavior.

Later that day, when Cindy stated it was time for your spanking!!!!, she asked me to give her one of the canes my friend had sent. (we had purchased 4, and Ronnie included a fifth for good luck, and because of our friendship.... (some friend you might say...an extra cane! YIKES!!!)

Not being the dumbest person on the internet, I took them out, experimented with the swish, and picked the one that was LEAST swishy.

Bare bottomed, bending at the waist, hand on bed for support. While in this position, Cindy always asks if my back is okay, are my abs tightened, and responding yes, the spanking begins.
Cindy was mild with the strokes, but I felt every one of them. Cindy remarked how this was making nice red lines across my bottom. Some were swishy, but most were not. However, my bottom was treated to about thirty strokes.

To ensure good behaviour, I was then  positioned prone on the bed, with my bottom raised by two pillows at my groin, and another ten good strokes were applied.  Strokes like this this following gif leave a very DEEP BURNING SENSATION.
Cindy did NOT use the arm swing and force that she normally uses with the tawse, or bath brush, but this was a very effective spanking.

Thus, when she uses them with a real intensity, they will be something that truly catches your attention IMMEDIATELY!!!  (and this was the least swishy cane)

I have felt the effect of the cane throughout the day, and into the next day.

If you have never been caned, I highly recommend you purchase one or two from Ronnie. Tell her that I recommended you

Almost forgot! we then a hour or two later made love, and it was SPECTACULAR!

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Ladies get to choose Day

The title can imply one of two things, either the lady is the spanker, or the spankee...
So, will she be waiting to spank you
 or waiting to be spanked
will he be spanked (maybe with a tawse0
 or will  she be waiting for his belt on her bottom

Lady readers:  state your preference for today,
and the man must comply!
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The strong woman

Time to return to finding (or re-finding) blogs where the man is spanked in a loving relationship by his partner.

This is a wonderfully written and article site, and many of my readers already visit it frequently

The author (Ms Tina) in the most recent post talks about what she means by 24/7. It is a very thoughtful and excellent explanation. I recommend you find this article, if you are looking at this page sometime in the future months from when it was posted.



As you know, any site I mention has things that I like, but some of the spankings may be too severe for my and Cindy's liking.  Just as I recommend tumblrs, some of the photos are excellent, and some are not to my liking.

However, some of the things we do may not exactly be some readers cup of tea either.

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the belt

A very common way to be spanked, is simply for a belt to be used. Most men wear a belt daily, so they have the implement  handy to either spank, or be spanked with.
The fear and anticipation that starts as the belt is slowly being removed
 seducing you into the scene of your spanking
It 's longing and loving cress by the spanker
and then those words you dread (while she has a look of enjoyment saying those words)
and without further delay 
Cindy has used my belt to spank me many times in the past. 

if you would like to see a few sites devoted primarily to the belt


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