One trip to the bookstore and all will be done... except for the stress Cindy feels.
About three days ago, she was being so totally unreasonable, that I took her by the hand, walked into the living room, sat on the sofa, and proceeded to lower her jeans, and guide her over my knee. It goes without saying that she was telling me she didn't approve, that this was not consensual, that we have too much to do... and so on.
Aside: In our consensual spanking arrangement, Cindy has only once volunteered to be spanked. She has agreed that sometimes she should be spanked, but that is only when no spanking reason is in sight. Her protests are neither loud, nor does she struggle to get away from me, but simply co-operates while denying that she should be spanked.
I repeated to her that her stress is out of control, and reminded her that she had written a letter to me last year, stating that she would Briefly, she stated that I could do the shopping, and wrapping, and she would help when asked... She promised to stick to this, and to remember to have fun.
As I lowered her panties, I asked her if she was having fun....
After I believed she had relaxed a little, I stated she could now get up. Very begrudgingly, she looked me in the eye and stated thank you for the spanking. We might have to work on that next time...
We are both far calmer, to be able to ENJOY the Christmas Season.
A suggestion: even if you are the person who is exclusively spanked, if your partner is stressing to much, you should suggest it is time they were mildly spanked to de-stress them.As an added benefit, you will be spanked soon afterwards, because the normal roles of spanker and spankee will need to be EMPATHICALLY RE-ESTABLISHED!
Actually, if never takes long to put the tree up...