28.10.16

does holding help

A common feature of spanking photos
is that the spanked person is holding their spanked bum
or creeping downward to their spanked bum
whereas everyone is familiar with the pose
and the expression, keep your hands away from your bottom (while the spanker smiles for the photo)
but you might see the spanker enjoying the warmth of your bottom while you stand with your hands in front
 
or it can be used to curtail your snacking habits after being spanked
My questions to you today are:

Are you permitted to hold your bottom after being spanked?

and

Does it give any comfort to your bottom after being spanked?

However, sometimes you may be permitted to hold your bottom, as your partner delights in how you dance around the room
 I can say undoubtedly that holding your bottom before you are spanked has no lessening of the spanking whatsoever



bottoms up
Red

16 comments:

  1. The third photo down reminds me of my wife after a dinner party. She out did herself and I told her, it will be addressed when we get home. She too looked at her bottom after I gave her a sound spanking. The look she gave me well let say the next morning, she got another spanking, stood naked facing the wall.

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  2. Hi Red,

    As you may recall, my wife and I practice fun spankings only and, as far as holding goes, I encourage her to hold my bottom as often and as long as she wants, whether it's been soanked or not!

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  3. Holding one's bottom after spanking does ease the sting as does mild rubbing. I'm permitted to hold my bottom while I'm getting into our display position then no holding no rubbing which would be impossible as display is on knees and elbows.
    archedone

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  4. The first time I was spanked for punishment my disciplinarian ordered me to strip and then put me in the corner while she sat in a nearby chair, hairbrush on her lap.She was surprised that I involuntarily and unconsciously began to rub my bum while facing the corner, saying something like " I haven't even started and already you are holding your bum" I thought about it later and decided the rubbing of my bum before the spanking started must have been an unconscious to protect it from what I very well knew was coming.
    KL

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  5. Yes, Lindsay let's me rub my butt a bit, after the spanking. It gives me some comfort. Indeed.

    Best wishes,

    Marco

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  6. As a different perspective, I actually MAKE my husband hold and rub his cheeks vigorously. From the rear, it exposes his bottom hole very shamefully when he does this, and from the front, well you can imagine the view from the front!

    I have a paddling of my own coming up, so I will have to let you know about that!

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  7. I am never allowed to hold touch or rub my bottom after a spanking. If I do I get another round of spanking.

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  8. For obvious reasons, I have been forbidden (by N as well as by J) to 'hold' or cover my derrière while a spanking or whipping is in progress. What happens afterwards depends on whether I am given 'corner time' (no rubbing allowed!) or simply 'dismissed' and allowed to put my pants back on - rubbing if I want... but I found out long ago that it doesn't help much...

    L.

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    1. Actually, though L. is indeed forbidden to interfere by attempting to cover his rear end while he is being paddled or flogged, I don't mind (and, in fact, rather enjoy) having him tearfully rub his bruised backside while he is serving some 'corner time' under the eyes of one of my (few) friends who are privileged to watch - and, of course, of my sister (who, unlike my friends, usually 'helps' with the actual delivery of his punishment)

      J.

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    2. J: protecting ones bottom with their hands during a spanking is a DEFINITE NO, followed by even stronger spanks for a significantly longer time. I can see how the rubbing can be entertaining to you.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    3. Yes, especially when those friends comment on the scene... Only three of my friends are ever invited to watch - and only on 'special occasions', which may occur (for each of them) three or four times a year. Some of my other friends know - or have heard - that L. often gets spanked (but have never been invited to watch it) - and that doesn't include, of course, those who only _overhear_ L. getting his derrière paddled or flogged in a hotel room (often enough, but in different locations!) Whatever post-spanking rubbing may occur is, obviously, not 'watched' in such cases...

      J.

      ps: My sister, of course, not only gets to 'watch', but actively participates whenever we get together!

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    4. J: you definitely are in control. I wonder if you have been paddled like strict Julie? (just to be on the strong receiving end of a spanking, and only if you consented
      bottoms up
      Red

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    5. When I was 19 (my first year in college), I had a boyfriend who spanked me a couple of times, but I can't say it turned me on. I rather enjoyed it, however, when he agreed to be on the receiving end. Then (some 15 years later), I became friends with N. - and soon got to watch how she tanned L's (her husband's) derrière (and how he accepted it). The rest is history... but, yes, L. has once in a while been allowed to spank me on the (rare) occasions when I had misbehaved. No witnesses involved, of course - and nothing like what 'strict Julie' claims she endured... Only my sister knows about it - and I, frankly, do not really "enjoy" it even if I ackowledge that I (sometimes) _deserve_ it !

      J.

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    6. J: We started off with my spanking Cindy, but this did not last very long, probably only once or twice, a long time ago, Cindy decided that if I liked spankings then I should receive them.
      It is wonderful that you accept being spanked, when you acknowledge that you have been significantly at fault and deserve to be spanked.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  9. Hello Red! No1 I am not allowed to hold or rub my hiney during or after a spanking unless she gives me permission. JayJay

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  10. Holding my bottom is permitted, but it only helps remind me what had just happened. It often amuses my wife when, after a day or so my hand goes to my still tender bottom, and she asks, "how's your bottom?", with the biggest smile on her face.

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