Cindy gets uptight and stresses, then blows a fuse so to speak. Cindy is always somewhat uptight when we have guests for a dinner party, and somehow this one coming up got the better of her. We were purchasing things at Costco, a place she hates to go to. She becomes overwhelmed by crowds, and wants out of the store instantly. However, it was not crowded, but Cindy reacted negatively to everything we were going to purchase, and had agreed to before going.. The quantity of such and such is too big, too many cookies, why do you want that gooey dessert, etc... I blew a fuse at all this, and know that a spanking for this action awaits me in the future.
Later at home, Cindy did a melt down, eventually realized it, and told me to spank her, I refused! She was still too wound up, that a spanking would do no good, and possibly drive her stress even higher.
The next day was the party, and she had a minor meltdown again...
The day after the party, she had a meltdown with my wanting to do gardening instead of hiring someone to do it. We are financially fine, but I enjoy gardening, and it is something to keep me busy and active, versus searching spanking blogs and tumblrs of all varieties, and going to the gym.
Today, Cindy was somewhat grumpy again, and I stated I will take her advice and spank her. Cindy refused!
Later we talked, and I reminded her of our notch system, that if she thinks I am doing something she dislikes, simply say the word "NOTCH", and I will immediately try to change whatever is happening. What if we are out in public where people can here, and I intend to spank you later for your action. My reply was simply to say "three notches".
Cindy later in the day stated that I could spank her. She was reticent, as we immediately went to the bedroom. I lectured her for a bit, but doubt if she was listening. i made a production of unfastening her jeans, so she could step out of them, then slowly lowered her panties to have her over my knee.
Th is pphoto is NOT Cindy, but her expression was exactly like Cindy's expression...
When Cindy stood up, i reminded her to thank me, which was done very reluctantly.