We have had a few rooms painted in our house, and the house is in a bit of a kerfuffle. We are in the process of putting everything in order, but I always tend to be strong willed (dominate?) in how things should be done, whereas Cindy is more let's get it done instantly.
My slow and sure is winning, as Cindy is making suggestions that take time to do. I am replacing all the light switches so that they are white instead of beige, and that will go nicely with th e white trim in the rooms. i did not want everything put back, because then I would just have to pull everything out to get to the wall plugs. We agreed.
i came home form the store with the items needed, and raised my voice thinking that Cindy had tried to put the expensive TV back on her own, as I saw roll marks. WRONG!
Cindy was talking on the telephone at the time of my ( very short) slightly elevated voice comment. (outburst in Cindy's mind). OOPS! You could almost see the steam rising from her ears!!!!!
As soon as Cindy was off the telephone, she pointed at me and then immediately pointed upstairs, and then the words upstairs, you are gong to be SPANKED! How dare you talk to me that way when I am on the telephone.
When we entered the bedroom I quickly closed the window, as she said: "get on the bed"
She went into the bathroom and came back with the wooden hair brush, and I was very quickly bare bottomed and lying on the bed. The spanks were hard, fast and furious. The lecture occurred partway during the spanking, but the spanks kept raining down.
This relieved the upset, and all was well again. i know a little better to look and think before reacting, but one does forget now and then.
Being spanked diffused the situation and all was well. Laate, I realized that the marks of the Television cart were the ones made when we rolled it into the other room. It had not been touched by Cindy. OOPS!
No loving making that day, but very affectionate. Being spanked certainly solvbed the problem, than arguing and my rebuttals, and staying annoyed or mad for a few days.
Well, we have been home for less than a week and a half, and I have been spanked three times. Obviously we are back on track. this occured last Friday, but I am only posting today.