31.5.16

sensual sexual tumblrs galore (adventurous Tuesdays)

Taking a day off from the spanking world, I thought I would post some links to sexual sites that are excellent.
A difficulty does exist in giving links, as the first picture or gif that appears might not be typical of the site, and the viewer might not progress further.

My first offering is that males reading this blog might see a position or a technique that they could attempt with their partner, that might lead to greater orgasms for your partner.
However, using a link to the ARCHIVE simply inundates a viewer with too much, if someone is being introduced to the tumblr world of pictures and gifs.
Some sites have misleading titles, like the following, but are full of non-spanking eroticism

http://spankme2372.tumblr.com/

Some have possible kinky ideas, but all it takes is one photo or gif to give your imagination a scenario to try something safe, but a little edgier, or simply a position that you think might be fun to experiment with.
Such as different positions for orally pleasing your partner,

Many tumblrs are produced by women, and I find them intriguingly HOT.

What we know in many cases about sex, is only that which we thought up our-self before the internet.
I truly hot site produced by a woman is this specific post
http://1hot2trotmamma.tumblr.com/post/145015246939
or simply
http://1hot2trotmamma.tumblr.com

Some sites even simply have ten photos or gifs immediately
being very overwhelming

Lately, we have been verbalizing various erotic scenarios while one partner is orally pleasing the other, that we would be too timid to ever try... Threesomes... but they have fun stimulating photos and gifs everywhere.

Some men's fantasy would be to have two women and one man, 
but equally valid is
so you will see both types. However, any combination between two members of one sex interacting with the third person will be present in both scenarios.This definitely helps break down same sex barriers.
If men love this idea
and this
the man might be needed to be guided by his wife on their first threesome
tentatively participating
http://womenwithotherwomen.tumblr.com/
and maybe some consoling of the spankee afterwards

So, besides so many spanking scenarios that are visible on this blog, consider exploring other sexual scenarios mentally with your partner, even if you never follow through.
try to pick up a technique today that is worth using in your love making. We can all learn something.

One trick that is worth sharing... Spicing up my oral skills by tonguing the alphabet letter  by letter on Cindy's clit area. IT is EXTREMELY EFFECTIVE, and I read about it on a Cosmopolitan daily email that I receive.

NEVER be too old not to learn new tricks.

bottoms up
Red

30.5.16

Just Wait till I get you home!

The title announces the time of when you should start to worry:   The statement makes our butt cheeks clinch and our stomachs tighten!

A classic over the knee spanking is a powerful experience for both.
No dungeon or fancy equipment needed or wanted
Using a everyday item to administer discipline downplays the drama and gives the experience a casual air
She might wait patiently, while you strip completely
You might be lectured first in this humble submissive position
but soon, her strong hand will have the dancing begin
She might even pause and let you know that she has been talking to a spanker friend, and that you are in for an extra "treat"
and to be certain you will stay in place
hook one leg behind his knees like this you’ll restrain him a bit and help him stay in place This way both of you can relax and focus on the spanking instead of being distracted by any involuntary movement 
 Afterwards, you might like to show your wife that once again you are a gentleman.....

Have you ever been informed while you were out that you will be spanked as soon as you get home?

Now, a smile for today...
I am Quitting Facebook, convinced by the lady below that other social media are vastly superior!!
bottoms up
Red

29.5.16

spank your partner

One wonders how many couples should play truth or dare.....
The idea that a partner is afraid to tell their spouse of their innermost desires and fantasies is an unfortunate situation.
I have had spanking fantasies for most of my life, but it was only about fifteen years ago that I dared broaching the subject with Cindy, whose mind is far less warped than mine...Because of the Internet, I was able to see like minded individuals existed, and the Disciplinary wives club website gave me the information and courage to speak to Cindy about it.  http://auntkaysdwc.com/

I had read the entire website, purchased some of her very informative books... etc...

Back to the topic....

This blog revolves around the male(myself)  being spanked consensually, but Cindy is also spanked sometimes.
Whatever your desires may be, TRY to discuss them with your partner. If your partner willing agrees to try something different, you will be probably be ecstatic with what follows.. and if she is enthusiastic, you may be spanked more than your dreams would desire.
bottoms up
 Red

27.5.16

Spanked with a tawse

Our relationship is wonderful, and Cindy is making certain that it remains wonderful. At times, I become too dominate, and need to be taken down a peg so to speak. Cindy expressed yesterday that I was making her feel guilty about going to some of her activities. I did not feel that I was doing this, as we had been scheduling what we were going to do daily in unison. Apparently, I was wrong.

We moved to the bedroom, and I retrieved the long tawse. I stripped off all of my clothes, that somewhat surprised Cindy. Having recently posted about being naked while being spanked, i thought I should experiment a little.

To make the long tawse more effective, I used the chair.... in this position
so that Cindy could be standing and have the ability to swing the tawse at arms length.
The tawse was somewhat effective, and many spanks were delivered. There was no real foot dancing though, as Cindy does not  somehow snap the spanks, and does not succeed to deliver strong spanks when I am in this position. It is more of a swaying motion , than a forceful swing.

As you can see, when Cindy concentrated on the nearest cheek, the ends of the tawse certainly dove into the crack between the cheeks
when Cindy decided it was enough, she stopped and I thanked her immediately for spanking me.

We then kissed, cuddled, and had absolutely marvelous love making, and we both had an amazing orgasm.

Problem solved in the most delightful way possible.
I am certain this tawse is effective, just not the way Cindy uses.
The short tawse she uses has me singing it's praises for it's effectiveness, as my feet also dance along to the music of owwws emanating from my mouth.
your smiles for today:

bottoms up
Red

26.5.16

A working (now) video promo for a spanking from Audrey Knight

The video now works... my apologies, I inserted as a picture instead of as a video. Stefan sent me the actual spanking (or at least the first part), and this is the promo for the event of Audrey spanking Abigail.
I hope this upload comes through, but can only test it by posting this, which will be done automatically at 8:00 tomorrow morning.

You can see more at
Some are great to look at, but some are unacceptably too severe for my cup of tea.
Some people would like to be spanked to tears, but tears have a better chance of occurring if an emotional context to the spanking is given, where the person then feels remorseful, in my humble opinion.

bottoms up
Red

25.5.16

Audrey Knight re-visited

As some of my readers may have found out, the spanking site run by Audrey and Stefan has disappeared, being replaced by some other fluff nonsense. Here is the new site, so wander over and see some real spankings:


I received the following email from Stefan, Audrey's husband.

Hi Red!

I know.  We went offline for a day and someone grabbed the name.  The same thing happened to the first tumblr…..the same people grabbed it for doc tail butt plugs…lol

What are you going to do?  There will always be people who try to take what they haven’t earned.  I suppose that’s even good in a way….otherwise, who would we feel good about spankin?  :-)


Is the address we had to move to.  Would be most grateful if you could update that.

Switching gears….

I am putting the touches on a real punishment spanking that Audrey gave to Abi.   So it its quite long.  I was thinking you might  want it divided into episodes of 10-12 minutes.  It starts with an OTH airbrushing, then to a full on OTK, then to a stand up strapping, then to a butthole spanking, and conclude with a vicious paddling.  There is also some corner time.

We are proud of it as it is both authentic but also very mindful of the fact that it is a film, and exploits the potential for intimacy that film can provide quite well.. It also is scored with entirely original music and, well, yep!  I’m psyched.  This will be the first of a series of 4 vids in a line titled “Audrey and Abigail on Their Own Terms”  I think the intimacy and severity will take people aback in a very good way.
Here’s a little trailer of part one.   You can get an impression of what we’re up to by it.  I aimed to really punch the moments that matter to spankos, and this scolding was executed so well one feels like Abi has been spanked before a single swat lands,

Let me know your thoughts and I hope you are well,
STEF

A word of warning.... some of the spankings shown are TOO INTENSE FOR MY LIKING! WE do NOT have bruising, nor any skin possibly being broken. Thus, depending on your likes and dislikes, venture over and enjoy most of what you will see, and be very happy that you are not being spanked to this intensity, unless you wanted that level of a spanking.

bottoms up
Red

24.5.16

thoughts for the day...

Many, many men would like this....
i know I do
Here might be some reasons you would be spanked....
Making what we thought was a reasonable request

bottoms up
Red

22.5.16

Why TUMBLR porn is GREAT for women

I came across this article, that comes from
that I think is excellent.... This first quote is so affirmative

"I don't want to overstate what it means for women to go through that journey of feeling like they're sexual agents, not just sexual objects.

OUR RELATIONSHIP:
The wonderful part of Cindy and my spanking journey is that we are both active participants, and no one is a sexual object. Spanking leads many times to wonderful beyond our wildest imagined sexual satisfaction, and Cindy quite often slyly complains that her throat is sore from her verbal ecstatic outburst when orgasming. We both smile when she says this. We do not try to have simultaneous orgasms, although it is wonderful if it happens.  We do make certain that we both orgasm. Our sex life is amazing, and far more satisfying than it ever was for the first 30 years of our marriage. Spanking has liberated us from the constraints of a puritanical outlook on sex and life.

I cannot possibly overstate, how the internet, with spanking sites and spanking blogs, has loosened us up to being so more adventurous.
This article has too many interesting explanations and reasoning to be summarized by me, so I suggest you read it. Porn is not only for men, but also for women


One more quote from the article:

"You can find a collection of porn that really speaks to your sexuality and your sense of sexual self," said Chase, who founded Lady Cheeky seven years ago after she started looking at porn on Tumblr in the wake of leaving a sexless marriage.  ladycheeky.tumblr.com  Cosmopolitan magazine labels this the #1 site FOR WOMEN!

I am going to send a link of this article to Cindy!

A) Have you ever looked at TUMBLR sites?

B) Does your partner  ever look at TUMBLR sites?

C) Do you have a tumblr ID/

D) Please leave a comment with a link to your tumblr site if you have one.

Whether you are male or female
happy spankings
Thought for EVERYDAY
bottoms up
Red

21.5.16

jokes to get you spanked

I( always enjoy a good laugh, or at least a smile. If you have a hilarious joke, do send it to me privately for me to post...
These are slightly funny, but would get you spanked:
The wife's back on the warpath again. She was up for making a sex movie last night, and all I did was suggest we should hold auditions for her part.
 
I've just installed strobe lights in the bedroom. It makes the wife look like she's moving during sex.
You will be moving on her lap, but no escape!
and,as the saying goes
Now, to avoid a argument, follow this man tip:

Man tip 
No woman has ever started an argument with a man who was vacuuming, dusting or washing dishes.
However, this is not an absolute and definite truth
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/Spanked_by_their_Wives
bottoms up
Red