21.3.16

our attitudes change

Times change, or at least our openness about certain things. To suggest in the sixties that a woman would like to be spanked by her partner, would have been outrageous.
Nowadays, I have a number of women friends, all met in the blogosphere. that enjoy being spanked, and some (ronnie) crave it often. This concept of desiring to be spanked is in a number of men, as noticed by the amount of visits to this blog, which is mostly about men being spanked by their partner.

So, if you have never tried it, talk to your partner about it, and GO SLOWLY.  The shoe is definitely on the other foot so to speak.
and if married....
This next art definitely looks like a REDRUMP drawing... http://redrump.blogspot.com

marriage counseling is only a chair away.
bottoms up
Red

11 comments:

  1. I'm such a male wanting to be spanked, but to find such a woman that you would feel comfortable bringing up the subject was hard to find. In my mid twenties dating met this person who was just fun to be around, spanking subject I did not bring up. It was a weekend at the coast, I forget what I did, but out of the blue she stated a spanking was earned. I just looked at her, she saw the smile on my face and soon I was across her lap and my bare bottom was feeling the sting of her hand. I did squirm, kick, said enough and she stood me up and I not knowing had found the woman I was looking for. She sternly said she decides when I need a spanking and when she will stop the spanking. With my pants around my ankles and underpants also I was told to step out of them, and better not move. She went to the bedroom and returned with a hairbrush and when she finished I was bawling, dancing around the room and rubbing until told to face the wall. Afterwards sitting on her lap, I confessed, she said she knew, her mother had spanked her dad, men just have a way of showing the need. She then informed me spankings were not for sexual pleasure, punishment, would be applied when needed and not always at home. We married three months later, and I think it was a year after our marriage I was being careful about messing up. Most spankings occur in the bedroom, if consider really a naughty little boy, will after the spanking face the wall in the front room or kitchen, will not move no matter who shows up. She bares my bottom, always otk, sometimes it is only the hairbrush or just the hand, but no matter it hurts. As for being erect, she will have none of that, it will be addressed, spankings hurt more afterwards, trust me. So I'm a male who wanted to be spanked, found such a woman, have no regrets, could not ask for anything more, even tho at times dancing around the room crying, rubbing, I wish I had not done what I did to get such a spanking. My wife reminds me, men are just little boys in adult bodies and little boys like to be naughty and women will spank their naughty little boy.

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    1. anon: glad it works for your wife and you, to make a happier marriage.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. Wonderful advice and terrific post. Well done thanks
    Ron

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  3. yeah, I can say I have a need to be spanked. Actually many people could benefit from a spanking from time to time

    Baxter

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  4. Glad I wasn't a sixties wife! ;)
    love Jan,xx

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  5. Spanking and the desire to be spanked is not new and thanks to the internet it is now more in the open. I might suggest that John Wayne was a spanker. Many of his films had spanking in them.
    archedone

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  6. Proving once again the desire, need, has always been around. Maybe Landers would understand, once her bottom was stinging, warm. My wife sure enjoys her spankings, no matter where, and I sure enjoy the afterwards.

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  7. The woman I married told me that her mother would be spanked, she could hear it from her bedroom. She asked her mother when she was in her teens, she said her mother just smiled, can't explain, but must be experienced. Two months into our marriage my wife one afternoon said she wanted to be spanked, I looked at her and soon had her across my lap. She enjoyed her bottom being bared and I enjoyed warming her bottom and seeing it turn red. What followed was, well best ever.

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  8. ron: fun connection of ping pong paddle in article and captioned photo

    Baxter: very true, but unlikely to happen to some who would really benefit.

    Jan: were you wanting twice a week, a better frequency than twice a month?

    archedone: nothing new, and very very common in older movies, until we became too politically correct.

    anon #1: sounds perfect. Why not sign with a fictitious name, and then describe more of your consensual lifestyle.

    anon#2: glad it works for both of you. As in the above, why not sign with a fictitious name, like archedone does, then give a fuller description of your married lifestyle, and recent activities.
    bottoms up
    Red

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  9. Since John Wayne administered at least two spankings in his movies ("Donovan's Reef" and a lengthy one to Maureen O'Hara in "McLintock!") and stopped one (in "True Grit" because Glen Campbell was "enjoying it too much" when he was spanking Kim Darby) and, of course made several movies where a spanking was implied or threated (notably in "The Quiet Man", also with Maureen O'Hara), I think it's safe to say he might have had an "interest" in spanking (as a top, no doubt).

    The last pic is unmistakably by RedRump; you're right.

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  10. smuccatelli: I believe John Wayne loved doing those scenes, as the women being spanked probably did also. I wish people would stop removing the artists signature, like in the redrump art work.
    bottoms up
    Red

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