We are currently on vacation. This means that although I have left posts, I cannot reply to comments, but please continue to leave comments. Keep enjoying life, and keep spanking your partner.
We do NOT believe in spanking children!!!
This blog is a real life account of our journey into the wonderful world of Spankings between consenting adults only. Spankings can be playful to satisfy a craving, or involve ideas of loving domestic discipline.
I have been amiss in not writing about a blog I have visited a few times, which I think is excellent. The level of writing and thoughts are excellent, but you will not visit this site for spanking related pictures and art work. That is a very good thing, because you visit for the thoughts expressed, which might stimulate your thinking.
Tomy's most recent post had one idea which I will be following up on. Tomy and his wife have had a review of their DWC lifestyle, and that has lead to some changes, which include a weekly review, and harder spankings.
Due to health concerns, I have not been spanked in a very longtime, and I think we are both feeling that neglect in our lifestyle, with frustrations mounting. However, since i started writing this, and now, we seem to be moving back towards spankings.
While chocolate and Easter eggs feature prominently in Eastern
European celebrations, another tradition might raise eyebrows – the
Easter spanking. In countries such as the Czech Republic and
Hungary, it’s a custom for men to “spank” women with specially made
decorative willow whips on Easter Monday. The symbolic spanking –
it shouldn’t hurt – is supposed to bring the women good health in the
following year, and men are supposed to get an Easter treat (such as an
egg or chocolate) for the favor.As travel writer Stephanie MacLellan explains in Getting Spanked, or Easter the tradition is widespread, but not everyone takes part.
Life is fun, and sometimes they involve little spankings.
Cindy has been quite adventurous is having her bottom spanked a little, whenever she is being mischievous. I am not certain how to describe the situations, but she states something that is mischievous. and I respond by twirling my finger meaning turn around and bend over, and she does, a smile on her face, and wriggles her bottom at me while I give it a few spanks.
In the morning, we eat breakfast in our sleepwear, so misbehavior by Cindy is always more fun on the bare bottom. When she is laughing and wriggling, I can give good feeling spanks, and if she keeps rebutting while laughing, I have ended up giving ten spanks without her really noticing. She feels them afterwards, but they are not disagreeable to her. Just fun pleasant spanks and eroticism.
This drawing by Leonardo is almost the saucy pose Cindy strikes...
At other times, if she is wearing jogging pants, then it is bare bottom also.
Cindy has gone back to using the wooden soup stirrer when displeased, ten or a little more for whatever reason she is annoyed with my words or deeds. not a really spanking, but very effectively given.
As an example, she came in the computer room which looks out over the street, and carried this implement with her. She motioned, and I was quickly bare bottom over the back of the sofa, while she addressed various issues that had annoyed her.
As it was a dull day, she suggested I turnout the light before we started, thus less chance of being seen from the street. I have no reason to believe someone has seen walking by, but after this many years, it is quite probable.
This spanking had three parts, with a number of spanks to the upper back of the legs also. Spanks, then lecture as to why, spanks, then lecture about another reason, then more spanks.
I actually still feel it six hours later.
Little spankings have a great effect of keeping us happy, solving minor problems, getting rid of little frustrations, and making for a happy happy lifestyle.
We were in France a few years ago, and in Paris I saw these in a news stand while walking along the banks of the Seine.
The clothing and hairstyle fit the era imagined, lovely cornertime photo. I always believe it is nice to see yourself naked when you were younger, as opposed tot he specimen looking back at you today in the mirror.
Corner time completed, may i have my spanking now, please seems to be what this willing delightful woman is saying
a friend showed up, and is being helped to show her bottom before the spanking.
Remember to be SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL when involved in spanking scenes and try to improve your behavior, by learning from your mistakes
Times change, or at least our openness about certain things. To suggest in the sixties that a woman would like to be spanked by her partner, would have been outrageous.
Nowadays, I have a number of women friends, all met in the blogosphere. that enjoy being spanked, and some (ronnie) crave it often. This concept of desiring to be spanked is in a number of men, as noticed by the amount of visits to this blog, which is mostly about men being spanked by their partner.
So, if you have never tried it, talk to your partner about it, and GO SLOWLY. The shoe is definitely on the other foot so to speak.
Both your partner and you will thank me, as one idea once a month that works is a wonderful experience, and I believe you will learn more than that each month. Making love is fun, and having more of an idea what women might be thinking about is fabulous.