23.12.15

the purpose of some spankings

In  a consensual spanking environment, spankings are given for one of two reasons.
Many times:
One might not actually feel the pleasure when the bath brush is descending
but after the spanking has stopped, you are left with the hot bottom, and enhanced submissive feelings, and love for your partner!
and this applies for both men and women

even at Christmas

bottoms up
Red

10 comments:

  1. I agree with the 'inflict pleasure'. Of course there is the actual pain of the spanking that you need to just get through to get to the after glow and residual pain and looking in the mirror to see your red bottom.
    Baxter

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  2. I don't know about a spanking inflicting pleasure. I left early this morning for the gym and when I returned home my wife greeted me at the door with her paddle. She grabbed me by my ear and guided me to a chair she had set up. She pulled down my pants and panties and put me over her lap and scolded me for not having my chores done yesterday She blistered my behind good and made me finish my chores. I won't be sitting tonight while our guests are here for Christmas Eve.

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  3. I have a dear friend that leaked some information to my husband and I was over his knee for a OLD FASHION spanking this time consensual but unexpected. As I sit and write this I am still stinging but I will get my tern at BOTH of those guys......

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  4. Baxter: very true... if a spanking is to correct a problem in your behavior, then it is given so that the couple can move on and forget the incident , and once again be happy together

    Dan: it did solve the problem, as your wife is now feeling satisfied, and thus you will have a pleasurable evening, and many more happy days, tha tis , until you screw up again

    anon: glad to know the spanking was consensual, and effective. The unexpected spankings are very effective. I am glad to be your dear friend, from a distance!

    bottoms up
    Red

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  5. I like the last one. It's Veronica from OldFashionedGirl SPANKING, right?

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  6. From my experience in a long and happy marriage---in which I have taken an infrequent bare paddling---I would have to say a paddling does not make for pleasure AT ALL---I HAVE A DAMN SORE BUTT I deserve what I got--as my wife has put up with a lot---but frankly the sensation is not unlike getting paddled bare from my football coach---I am not implying my wife is not a very feminine person--she is---but its no pleasure for me--I just take what i have coming and it just hurts alot there must be otehr guys like me

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    1. anon: certainly there are more men like you, and yes, if a wooden paddle is used, and you are bent over, it hurts... Everything depends on intensity, and as Cindy and I are more mature, my spankings are not what they would have been if we were twenty!
      thanks for dropping by.
      bottoms up
      red

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  7. smuccatelli: You are getting better at identifying who someone is, but feel free to leave the address
    http://oldfashiongirlspanking.blogspot.com
    I eventually found the website, and will post a link on my blog to it. She has a very interesting blog, and Christmas day had an almost identical picture. Thanks for the idea
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. Sorry. Thought you already had it. She's got a great site and I visit it frequently.

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    2. smuccatelli: I am learning of more sites every day, but there are more spanking sites than days in a decade.
      bottoms up
      Red

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