13.9.15

one idea on how to spank

Their is so much more to a spanking than just the spanking! The dominant displays her dominance in both word and deed, and the person about to be spanked.starts feeling the lack of any control in the situation!
Being stripped naked makes one feel very vulnerable, and being scolded while naked is definitely a powerful tool in every woman's arsenal!
and then having to willing bend over her knee causes significant trepidation.
The resulting spanking usually can result in feet dancing, and a very red and sore bottom!

Suggestion for today: the dominant should try totally disrobing the spankee, as described above, and then both participants can at a later time discuss if this procedure made the spanking more effective than normal.

Cindy has never done this, but I will suggest it to her!

Your smile for today
bottoms up
Red

6 comments:

  1. That is totally right on. My wife has me standing next to her while she undresses me completely and scolding me at the same time. It's amazing how vulnerable you feel standing before your wife naked while being scolded and then being guided over her lap just makes me totally submit to her.

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  2. R has disrobed me for "just because" spankings but for punishment I have to strip to my panties and present her with the implements to be used then the scolding takes place both prior to spanking and during. I'll have to ask her to disrobe me and we can discuss later how we both felt.
    archedone

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  3. Dan: i am going to recommend Cindy try this...

    archedone: sounds like a possible new addition could be worthwhile.

    bottoms up
    Red

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  4. Indeed there is much more to the spanking than just the spanking. Very well said my friend. I've been thinking about my situation and how the preparation for the spanking is extremely enjoyable to me. It starts with the announcement of impending punishment and continues right through to the undressing, the scolding and the positioning. However, once she starts in with the strap or the hairbrush the enjoyment stops abruptly and I'm thinking when will this be over!!!! Then I wait and wait and wait and wait and wait and wait while my bare behind suffers for my bad behavior. When it's finally over the enjoyment returns slowly. The corner time, the apology, the hug and chaste kiss that tells me the spanking was given with love, looking over my shoulder in the mirror to view the damages, all these things are very stimulating.
    Thanking her for being woman enough to give a spanking, is also very exciting.
    I enjoy looking forward to a spanking, and I enjoy the aftermath of a spanking but I dislike the actual spanking. Seems like a paradox to me. The submissive male is a complicated fellow. Thanks for the great spanking blog Red. JayJay

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  5. I loved the size disparity in the 4th photo as well as the submissive stance in the 2nd. In the 4th, the lady's calves were larger than her boys thighs and her large hand seemed to be doing quite a satisfactory job. He should feel lucky that those handprints aren't extending down to his knees. Lucky lad!

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  6. JayJay: a wonderful explanation of the entire sequence of a spanking. Thanks for sharing with us. My feelings exactly

    wooz: glad you enjoyed the photos. thanks fo rleaving a comment

    bottoms up
    Red

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