how one person found out he was submissive

This was posted as a comment by JayJay

For me it was a very sudden realization. I started out as the spanker with my first girlfriend, She would get over my knee and I would hand spank her bare fanny and finger her clitoris at the same time.

After we broke up and I started dating the woman would eventually become my wife.

I waited until we started having regular intercourse to suggest spanking with her. I said " would you like to try spanking?" Her response was "YES!! " but she added that she wanted to wait until she and her sister moved into their new apartment.

When the time finally arrived I got the surprise of my life. I made a move to give her a spanking and she stopped me immediately and said:

Hold it mister I'm not the one who is going to get spanked in this relationship.
Drop your pants and bend over the arm of that chair. I did as she ordered.
She took of the belt from her jeans 
 and I learned that I was a submissive male.
After she cracked that strap over my bare behind to her satisfaction she stood me in a corner,
stripped off her own clothes and sat down in the same chair That I was just spanked on.

She called me over to her, spread her legs and told me to go down on her. I was wild with passion and down I went.
I went from thinking that I was a dominant male to knowing that I was submissive male in one evening. We fell madly in love that night and still are. JayJay PS. Thanks for all those great pictures.


Anonymous said...

WOW! Thanks Red.I feel honored to be the subject of one of your posts. JayJay

Dan Mel said...

My wife started out slower. She first asked me to put on a pair of panties. I hesitated a bit but I did it. Then she tried to make me wear pantyhose. After a little convincing I did it and liked it. Before I knew what hit me she was taking me to her aerobics class wearing a leotard and tights. I knew then I was submissive. Spankings started shortly after.

Anonymous said...

Our trip down spanking lane started when we were having sex. A few times during sex she would lightly spank me. After doing that a few times I found I really enjoyed it and we talked about it and I asked her if she would like to give me a spanking. She said yes and used her hand on me OTK then used a belt with me bent over the side of the bed. We both enjoyed it and she has been spanking me since. As a little more time went on we read some sites on spanking and discussed reasons for spanking me and I suggested punishment and maintenance. She said just because spanking too. I asked what that was and she said just because I feel like spanking you and turning your bottom a nice shade of red.

Red said...

JayJay: you are welcome.

Dan: sounds wonderful... keep enjoying life

archedone: thanks for sharing... "just because " are some of the best spankings

bottoms up

Anonymous said...

I received my first adult spanking from my wife on our wedding night as she took me naked over her knee before we made love. markiee

Red said...

markiee: I imagine you both had discussed this previously, and she knew of your desires, which coincided wit her thoughts?
bottoms up