22.9.15

how one person found out he was submissive

This was posted as a comment by JayJay

For me it was a very sudden realization. I started out as the spanker with my first girlfriend, She would get over my knee and I would hand spank her bare fanny and finger her clitoris at the same time.

After we broke up and I started dating the woman would eventually become my wife.

I waited until we started having regular intercourse to suggest spanking with her. I said " would you like to try spanking?" Her response was "YES!! " but she added that she wanted to wait until she and her sister moved into their new apartment.

When the time finally arrived I got the surprise of my life. I made a move to give her a spanking and she stopped me immediately and said:

Hold it mister I'm not the one who is going to get spanked in this relationship.
Drop your pants and bend over the arm of that chair. I did as she ordered.
She took of the belt from her jeans 
 and I learned that I was a submissive male.
After she cracked that strap over my bare behind to her satisfaction she stood me in a corner,
stripped off her own clothes and sat down in the same chair That I was just spanked on.

She called me over to her, spread her legs and told me to go down on her. I was wild with passion and down I went.
I went from thinking that I was a dominant male to knowing that I was submissive male in one evening. We fell madly in love that night and still are. JayJay PS. Thanks for all those great pictures.

6 comments:

  1. WOW! Thanks Red.I feel honored to be the subject of one of your posts. JayJay

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  2. My wife started out slower. She first asked me to put on a pair of panties. I hesitated a bit but I did it. Then she tried to make me wear pantyhose. After a little convincing I did it and liked it. Before I knew what hit me she was taking me to her aerobics class wearing a leotard and tights. I knew then I was submissive. Spankings started shortly after.

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  3. Our trip down spanking lane started when we were having sex. A few times during sex she would lightly spank me. After doing that a few times I found I really enjoyed it and we talked about it and I asked her if she would like to give me a spanking. She said yes and used her hand on me OTK then used a belt with me bent over the side of the bed. We both enjoyed it and she has been spanking me since. As a little more time went on we read some sites on spanking and discussed reasons for spanking me and I suggested punishment and maintenance. She said just because spanking too. I asked what that was and she said just because I feel like spanking you and turning your bottom a nice shade of red.
    archedone

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  4. JayJay: you are welcome.

    Dan: sounds wonderful... keep enjoying life

    archedone: thanks for sharing... "just because " are some of the best spankings

    bottoms up
    Red

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  5. I received my first adult spanking from my wife on our wedding night as she took me naked over her knee before we made love. markiee

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  6. markiee: I imagine you both had discussed this previously, and she knew of your desires, which coincided wit her thoughts?
    bottoms up
    Red

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