13.4.15

requested spanking

Our vacation was fun, but very tiring, and we both got sick to varying degrees. Before beginning the return trip home, I asked Cindy to give me a reminder to keep me pleasant while we travelled home.
The hotel room had both a convenient settee to rest over, and even provided a long wooden brush (that ostensibly is used to polish your shoes)
Cindy gave me a small spanking, but when she stated it was over, I requested some more spanks to be effective. This request was accepted, and a strong number of many hard spanks were duly administered in a rapid manner.
Shall we say that the airplane ride home had me feeling the spanking throughout the long journey.
If you feel you need a spanking, do not be SHY, ask your partner, and you will be pleasantly given that spanking in most cases.

Your smile for today
and remember
bottoms up
Red

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Does asking for more spanks not take away what a spanking is all about. If someone is being punished properly they don't ask for more.

Anonymous said...

Its complicated

Anonymous said...

What's complicated? If your being punished you ain't asking for more. Just saying!

Anonymous said...

I have been in your shoes Red. I have asked for a spanking to change my outlook and she did give them. I've also (during the spanking) asked for them to be harder and again she honored my request. The settee you had in your room I've found in many hotel rooms and they work fantastic for spanking. That is where I got the idea to make our spanking bench and it sits at the end of our bed. Company thinks it's a neat place to sit while dressing. If they only knew LOL. If I may comment on Anonymous he is talking about punishment spanking. What he/she does not understand is you didn't do anything wrong and were not being punished. I'm guessing he/she is not into spanking.
archedone

Red said...

anon; as the saying goes, it takes two to tango.... and Cindy's mind was somewhat elsewhere (we don't want to be late), so the second request resulted in grabbing her attention, and thus inspired her to be certain that she was effective. Spankings do not and should not be BRUTAL! We do NOT believe in blood, or bruising, whereas some readers might.

JO: thanks for the comment. it is complicated.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

anon: see above reply...their are different levels of spankings!
red

Red said...

archedone: love the idea of what you built! We have purchased quite some time ago a straight back chair that sits in the corner of our bedroom, and occasionally we even use it to put on shoes, but it is used far more often for Cindy to sit on and spank me!
Spankings are given from one loved one to another, and thus are given with love in our relationship, not the fantasies that occur on spanking websites of simple punishment1
bottoms up
red

Anonymous said...

Thanks Red, And to anony: I wasn't being flipant. Spanking is innately complicated. Built around pain and humiliation that we long for.

in a way Red your blog demonstrates this complexity in the way you focus on a different theme each post. And you don't look like running out of themes!

Keep up the good work.
jo

Anonymous said...

My first (and only) "request" for a spanking was mostly 'pro forma' when N. and I agreed that I should be spanked "as needed" (by her reckoning)... and I thereby forfeited any "right" to object, although 'ex post facto' complaints were allowed.

The same "deal" was subsquently agreed upon before J. and I married - and it has been effectively enforced ever since...

L.

Red said...

L: a wonderful arrangement that works for your wife and you, as well as it worked with N before her untimely death.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Jo: thanks for the kind words. It would be easy to misbehave and treat Cindy badly until I was spanked, but that would simply be wrong. This spanking was simply for me, to help me relieve travel anxieties. (and truly, it is complicated for someone not in a spanking environment to understand)
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

The main reason it works is because L. always knows (and never questions) the reason why he may need to be spanked or whipped. Though he often whines, yelps or sobs while his backside is being brought to the appropriate condition, he never fails to thank me afterwards (and, if I so decide) to meekly serve some additional "corner time".

Other than having added a few of my own "tools" (and a few of my own friends as occasional spectators) this is pretty much the same way he had been "trained" by N.

J.

Anonymous said...

As the one who has been on the "receiving end", I would claim that you are at least as harsh (or even harsher) a disciplinarian than N. was! Could it be that (as you sometimes claim) the skin on my rear end has been getting tougher over the years?... And the fact that you have a sister who in only too glad to give you a hand is also a factor, I would argue...

L.

Red said...

With frequent spankings the skin in my case becomes tougher a little, so any spanking after a period of inactivity in the spanking realm is truly felt immediately.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

sometimes I walk into the den...totally naked and erect and tell my wife that I need a good spanking

Red said...

Anon: hope your wife obliges you, and even spanks you when you are not requesting it, but your behavior is demanding a spanking
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

Regular "tanning" turns the hide to leather...

J.

Red said...

absolutely
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

... which means, of course, that J. uses the washerwoman's paddle, the "Italian bridle", the crop or the rattan cane more "generously" than she formerly did! And, yes! - I have gotten used to it...

L.