9.3.15

why women spank their husband?

For couples that have been married for a while, sometimes the marriage starts to have problems, like possibly finishing each others sentences
This, however, is never a problem in a Female lead relationship. Just quietly take his ear
 Have him stand their while you lower his pants and underwear
position yourself comfortably on a straight back chair
slowly and methodically apply wooden brush to his bottom
 his staid demeanor
will soon give way to a feet dancing, apologetic, much more polite gentleman
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who would benefit from standing in the corner to think about just why he had been spanked
I promise you, it works for men of all ages.
bottoms up
Red

35 comments:

  1. The dreaded words "Young Man to the bedroom and get ready", which means a spanking is coming, I must be standing, pants and underpants pulled down. It is always otk, hand first hairbrush to insure I learn my lesson. Depending how mad she is I'm taken to the living room to face the wall, or she will tell me to remove everything and taken to the living room naked to face the wall. Visitor or not I stay facing the wall, time varies. This is a serious, no sexual, spanking and trust me sitting is very uncomfortable, and when someone drops in I just wish I could run and hide. Her mother drops in often and on one such visit she mentioned my bottom was not red enough, my wife handed her the hairbrush, but she pulled out of her large purse a thick paddle and boy did I dance on her lap. I was told by her to put on my pajamas and that is when my wife started pj punishment. Naughty little boys do not leave the house and do as "Mommy Said", also it is early to bed and worse of all a bath given, not a fun bath either.

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  2. LOL yes we do finish each other sentences but not with those words. never had my ear pulled (she doesn't need to) just a stern look and you are in for a spanking. Our FLM started when I did something wrong and after not talking the rest of the day the next day I said I was sorry and said I wish you would spank me for what I did.
    She agreed and after spanking and talking we both felt that was the best way to handle problems.
    archedone

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  3. The first time I spanked my husband was a fun birthday spanking. It was over his underpants but I enjoyed it. When I wanted to do it again he said no. Several months later I had to give him an enema as prep for next day's exam at doctor. Since he was on all fours I got a hairbrush an spanked him with the enema hose in his bottom but before I started his enema. Now I spank him over my knee or over a chair every few weeks. He knows it's coming when I leave panties out for him to wear that day

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  4. there is a woman who has worked for me for nine years and sometimes she or I finish the other's comment by SFTU and then we laugh about it. I would never say that to my wife. When she says I need a spanking, she says go to the back room and get ready, which means naked over a pile of pillows and the paddle or crop at the ready.
    Baxter

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  5. Why? Because he needs/deserves it. Because it clears the air. Because I feel like it. Because he accepts it. Because he was trained that way. Because "making up" afterwards is so good. Because it keeps him on the straight and narrow (though not always) Because... so many other reasons why !

    J.

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    1. Yes, I was "trained that way" - by N. - but you were a quick learner, and an even more most effective disciplinarian!

      L.

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    2. Trained not by one good wife, but by two! Lucky man!
      Matt

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    3. 2 and a half, if you add B. (J's sister) - whenever we get together...
      L.

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    4. L: hope B does not take you to task for calling her a half!! :)
      bottoms up
      Red

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    5. So do I - especially after the way she "performed" during her latest visit over the "twelve days of Xmas"! If anything, B. is even sterner than J. - and I know what I can expect when we next meet this coming Summer in Burgundy!

      L.

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    6. L: Well, Burgundy has some delicious deepred wines, so I expect your bottom will match the wine
      bottoms up
      Red

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    7. B. and I made sure that it did!

      J.

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    8. J: wish we could share some wine one day in the future. We travel constantly, so I am certain we could meet if you ever wanted to. Simply a glass of wine, or a coffee.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  6. My wife spanks and I have learned to improve my attitude and behavior, language.
    She would complain to her mother, my mother-in-law told of the complaints and that her daughter loved me. It was my mother-in-law who showed her wife that spankings do work. I had no sooner stepped out of the shower, we were visiting my mother-in-law, that she walked in, took a grip on my arm and with my wife watching, taken to the front room. This is what you do daughter of mine she said and over the lap I went, I received the worse spanking I have every received, pleading, crying, begging did not stop my bare bottom from feeling the sting of her hand. When she finally stood me up, she told her daughter to take the seat, No more I said, crying, over my lap my wife sternly said and I did so. Her mother said wait, and left the room, only to return with a hairbrush. Well I squirmed, kicked, pleaded, finally it was over. I stood naked, crying, rubbing before these two women and was told to expect more. My wife then took me to the bathroom, I had an erection, quickly relieved me of it, back to the frontroom to stand facing both of them. I did learn, nudity does nothing to a woman who is mad. My mother-in-law on a couple other occasions has taken me to the bedroom, bared my bottom and soundly gave me a spanking. I'm then bare from the waist down marched to the frontroom to face the wall. My wife states she enjoys baring my bottom, she states I look like a naughty little boy, I admit I feel such. She has gotten very good at giving spankings and I dread those spankings.

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    1. I thought it was a really unique experience when my mother in law sparked me. My in laws could all hear and when we returned to the room where they were al sitting they had a pillow on my chair

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    2. Bart: seems to me that some of them may have been spanked by her, and have benefited from the experience. I am certain that you think twice before repeating the behavior that got you spanked.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    3. Red, in several discussions I have heard detail about how all of my wife's siblings were spanked. The girls with a wooden spoon over the knee bare, the boys were sent to cut a switch and were made to wait pants down bent over. I think I am the only one of the children in law to be spanked. Therewas a very clear order of things she had in mind. She scolded me and told me exactly what she intended to do. I was so confused and in some way I think excited that I wasn't really listening I was just feeling ted faced and embarrassed by what she was saying . When she told me to pull my pants down, I just froze. She told me again and when I didn't respond she smacked my face so hard I saw stars. Then I pulled my pants down and she grabbed my left arm and started strapping me.As I tried to block the strap and jumped trying to avoid the next crack we sort of went round and round , My pants were around my ankles and I couldn't get away. She dragged me over to a dresser and bent me over and strapped me into utter submission . It must have sounded pretty bad. No one made eye contact as I gingerly sat down for dinner.

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    4. can't agree with spanking children, but adults.. that is a different story. Are you still spanked by your wife?
      bottoms up
      Red

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    5. have you ever been mouth-soaped for language? It's improved my cursing but only when conscientiously applied

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  7. Wife spanking, last for sometime after, she spanks to remind me she is in charge, also to correct my attitude. I stand facing the wall, once when my mother-in-law dropped in, she knew of the spankings, had me face her and then told her daughter very nice job, my wife asked how does she know, her response his manhood is very little. They both smiled and then I turned to continue facing the wall.

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  8. anon comment 1:Being consensual, you must I am certain do your best to avoid these spankings, and yet, inwardly enjoy your wife taking charge. Thanks for sharing.

    archedone: it is definitely the best way to solve the problem. We used to have spells where we were cold to each other, neither wanting to give in, and we both were miserable. This method, even if the male is right, works perfectly for us.

    anon #3: sounds wonderful to me. thanks for sharing, and it must be fine for your husband, otherwise he would not accept it.

    Baxter: I have never said that to my wife.. wow!!! could you imagine how pissed off she would be, and the spanking that would follow. No thanks..

    J: so many reasons, so little time.. :)
    L: as Matt states, you are a very lucky man.

    anon comment 8: sounds like spankings work for you and your wife, making a more wonderful marriage. Men are slow learners, but we do learn, and that is a good thing. Thanks for sharing.

    anon comment 9: Every spanking that I have rec3eived that was effective, meant the erection had long since disappeared.

    bottoms up
    Red

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  9. Its just along standing rule---out with the boys and too much drinking and I get a bare ass paddling when I get home---I want it right away just to get it over with cause it hurts bad

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    1. anon: slowly but surely you will learn to curtail and moderate these activities, for the happiness improvement in your marriage.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  10. Hi Red, I been checking your blog out for some time now but never told my wife. I must admit I get turned on by your blog though and the stories and comments. Anyhow my wife stumbled across your blog sometime ago and also been reading much to my misfortune. Last Friday I was suppose to stop at my ML and fix a leaky faucet but I stopped at the local watering hole instead. When I got home she ask me how it went and told her I didn't have time. Boy did she ever read me the riot act. She left the room and was soon back with a hairbrush in hand, taking be by the ear she lead me over to a chair and sat down and told me to get my pants down I started to argue. The time hollered at me to get them down and this time I listened. Its was then I figured out what was going to happen to me. T started to beg Mary not to do this that I was her husband not a child but she just told me to take my medicine. I actually had tears in my eyes before she even started. Mary then took that paddle and gave me the spanking of my life. Holding my arm behind my back she had complete control of me as I hollered and bawled through the spanking. Finally she was finished as I got up rubbing my inflamed backside still crying. She decided to let me standing the corner while she called her to tell her I would be there tomorrow. On Saturday (sore as could be) I went over to my ML and finished the job. What an experience Robert

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  11. Robert: thanks for sharing. glad my blog has been useful to you and Mary.
    bottoms up
    Red

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  12. I've asked my wife to spank me, but she wont. She tried once, but could not get into it. Id spank her, as she has an awesome little ass and Id love to teach her a lesson about talking back to me in front of the kids, but even though it would be good to hear her cry and say she was sorry, she sees it all as hitting and pain and shes afraid. Afraid even to paddle my manly ass, which could take a great deal morr than her sweet tender bum. Ah well, too bad. However you all do it, if you're willing to explore, your doing the right thing.

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    1. anon: never when the kids are around. Cindy was not into it the first few times, but shower her with kindness,a nd do everything she desires after a spanking, and slowly win her over tot he fact that if she is unhappy with something, a spanking will increase the chances that the behavior wil lchange, because you promise to do the best you can to change it if she spanks you.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  13. Very interesting indeed the photos and stories explaining all the wives spanking their husbands,especially here in France !Like mine we have been married for 10 years now ,and my wife allways likes to spank me with the French Martinet!Wich in fact is a small whip about 40cm long with it's 10 to 12 thick leather tails wich really stings your ass,beleive me! So howcome does my wife still whips me bare ass ?! Well when I won't listen to her or I hav'nt done what she told me to do etc...A matter of fact as in her family she was older than her brothers her mother asked her to discipline and whip her brothers with the house Martinet ,so it's a habit she's kept with me!People might think that it is a bdsm thing ,Not at all!it's just a habit she 's kept.Anyway as soon a we got married she went to the Ironmongers shop and came back with a martinet ,and a good quality one with on the round wooden handle with 10 thick ( 5mm tails!)at first i thought that it was just for fun,but it was'nt because this has been going on since we've been married !!But before she allways explain's me why I'm going to be whipped bare ass,then I have to put myself naked on the bed then she warns me "don't put youyr hand in front to prevent it !then woosch schlack the leather tails whip my ass!and arriving at ten strokes i can't bear it no more!Then she puts on me plastic pants with pression buttons wich she buys at the Pharmacie+a frozen ice bottle from the fridge and she dresses me up again!And lately I've just learned that her freins with who she works applys the same thing on her husband too !.So in reality I was whipped with the martinet by my mother up till 16 years old ands a couple of years after it's strating all over again!

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    1. Obviously, you are accustomed to this, and being married for ten years, you see the wisdom in being spanked and making a happy contented household.
      Red

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  14. pictures and comments do not indicate religious sentiments but my wife's moral and religious faith figure into my getting my bare butt paddled every so often--My conduct can be offensive to her religious character---and it has worked fine for us that in those cases when my conduct has been 'bad' it is settled with a bare spanking/paddling---She is a great wife--so a deserved paddling sometimes settles things between us and my bare butt hurts!

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    1. anon; thanks for sharing. Many men and marriages benefit by the man being spanked when he misbehaves. Our marriage has seen magnificent benefits
      Red

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  15. Hi Red, Well last Sunday was mothers day and my wife made a spectacle of me by putting me otk and giving me a good spanking in front of her mom. I cried like a girl when her mom took her place and paddled again. Robert

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    1. Robert: best behave, specially at your mother-in-law's house, as you now know spankings wil be double
      bottoms up
      Red

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  16. The worse spanking I ever received from my wife was when she found my spanking magazines. She was mad because I purchased them, and when I told her I was not getting enough, made her very mad. That hairbrush got my attention, and to insure I got her point, the weekend I spent in my pajamas, and treated like a naughty little boy. Sunday afternoon she decided to make sure I learned my lesson and another spanking and stood facing the wall with the magazines laid on the floor. One of her best friends dropped in, they talked about it and when she left I asked to leave the wall. Told better not move, it was maybe an hour later I was allowed to put on my pajamas. Jack

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    1. Jack: I imagine you are spanked enough now not to need fantasy.
      bottoms up
      Red

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