7.9.14

your new girlfriend

How to start the relationship
so expect to be spanked often 

yes, it includes you being spanked
and consider if you need to use the "SAFE WORDS"
and if you use the safe word

bottoms up
Red

17 comments:

  1. When I first suggested spanking my wife didn't understand why I wanted to be spanked but did it for me. The second time she spanked me she was a tad interested after the third spanking she said the sex that followed spanking is really super and admitted spanking me made her very wet. After the fourth spanking she said we need to talk about they type of spankings I'll be giving you from now on and how often. She has been spanking me on a regular basis since. Ladies try spanking your man yes it hurts but you will both love it.
    archedone

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    1. Archedone: wonderful how your wife learned quickly how to both increase both of your enjoyment in making love, and maintaining great behavior in the household, consensually
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. When N. (my late wife) was 'only' my girlfriend, I spanked her a number of times - until she decided to 'turn the tables' and (with my implicit consent) took the 'upper hand' for all the years we lived together. J., for her part, only knew me as N's "frequently spanked husband" and (even before we were married) made sure that I should continue to be disciplined 'in the way to which I had been accustomed'

    L.

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    1. Did the whipping (with the martinet) and the strapping you got earlier this evening inspire your comment?

      J.

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    2. L: you are very lucky that N had such a lovely and loving friend, who after N's passing you fell in love with, and who maintains such good practices for your benefit.
      J: it is always good to inspire a man
      bottoms up
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    3. I am indeed thankful (however sore my derrière may be) for having found two such loving - yet stern - wives, and I never forget to say so after being soundly spanked, whipped or caned...

      L.

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    4. L: a very fortunate man, that your wife helped you meet such a wonderful person as J. My wife and |I havbe talked that if one of us dies, the other should not stay alone, but find a new partner to share life with
      bottoms up
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    5. N. died too suddenly to have considered whether I should be the one who would "take care" of disciplining L. in the way she had. She told me she hoped that he would meet who could "take care" of him. As I had watched how she dealt with him, he knew what he could expect when we started dating a few months later - and I am sure N. would have approved of the way I have kept up the discipline to which he had been accustomed (and which he knows he needed)...

      J.

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    6. J: I am certain N would have approved, and he did know you knew when you started dating, and that you knew it was beneficial for the relationship.
      bottoms up
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    7. Even though N. has spanked me under the eyes of two other of her (female) friends, J. was the one who had been the most "appreciative", and this was probably one of the reasons (or, who knows?, the main one) why I was attracted to her - as one who "understood" what I needed...

      L.

      ps: Her looks, and her gorgeous legs, were also a factor :-)

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    8. You certainly have spent enough time across my "gorgeous legs", haven't you?

      J.

      ps: And you will again, soon enough - but not tonight !

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    9. glad it has worked out for both of you... a very lucky couple
      bottoms up
      Red

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    10. Thanks for the compliment ! My bottom is still a bit sore, by I will probaly find myself across her legs before the week is out...

      L.

      That's a safe bet ! :-)

      J.

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    11. I did indeed find myself bottomside up across J.'s lap last night before dinner ! It was a relatively "mild" session (three dozen whacks with the back of the hairbrush) , but enough to remind me to be especially diligent while performing my domestic chores this morning! No "reminders" have been administered so far... but the weekend is just beginning !

      L.

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    12. L: always good to be reminded to be diligent.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    13. L's performance of his chores on Saturday was impeccable - as was his behavior that evening when we met some friends for dinner in the evening. (The fact that we were meeting in a restaurant may account for that... )
      His work this morning, however (cleaning the bathroom) was less than 'satisfactory' , and earned him twelve lashes of the martinet - a relatively mild ' reminder ' - but, as I had planned one of our usual hikes in the woods ( the leaves are beginning to turn ! ) , I saw to it that he should get a good switching to round off the weekend...

      J.

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    14. The switch J. used yesterday (maple?) was particulary "effective" -and I have welts to show for it... In fact, she decided to bring it home, and to add it to those I had been ordered to fetch her last week (but haven't yet been used...)

      L.

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