18.6.14

warning spanking

Some Spankings that are given in our house is a preventative warning, to behave, when we have company. I, sometimes, get uptight, and anxious. This is amplified if the guests sometimes are known for dominating the conversation with the minutest of excessive detail regarding something that is absolutely trivial.
Sitting on a very sore bottom during dinner helps  to alleviate the conversation downturns, knowing that an even far more severe of a spanking would be given immediately when they left, if I misbehaved in Cindy's eyes.

A few days ago, I received one of these initial spankings. The spanking was a no nonsense, bare your bottom, over the knee, but with the large wooden bath brush.
Cindy started lecturing as she slowly spanked, making certain that I heard her words besides feeling the spanks. Quickly, I was agreeing to everything she suggested, as my bottom became hotter and hotter.
I was permitted to suggest  that Cindy also take the leadership in adroitly changing the topic, if she realizes that they have gotten into a funk about something. Also, we agreed that no politics should ever be spoken during the dinner. Whether we agree with their politics or not, why get upset or bothered, when the goal was to have a good time.

Cindy agreed, and then started to spank hard and fast, and soon my feet were dong a dance,while I slightly squirmed on her knees. She then concentrated on one cheek for what seemed forever, before moving to the other cheek.
As quickly as it begun, it was done. I was permitted to rise, and immediately thanked Cindy for the spanking, as she went off for a shower and to get ready for dinner.

When she came out of the shower, and was all dried off, it was determined that ten more solid spanks should be given while I was slightly bending over at the waist. Each spank was significant! WOW!!!
The photo is NOT I, but my bottom was this red
The evening was a success, and once when I felt it was getting tedious with the guests belaboring some point, I thought of my sore bottom, felt it's soreness internally while sitting on the chair, and the moment passed. Cindy also might have noticed my discomfort, and changed the topic adroitly.

No sex occurred that night,a as we were tired, but the spanking was definitely a successful way of making the evening enjoyable.

Preventative spankings are NEEDED!

bottoms up
Red

19 comments:

  1. I can vouch that preventative spanking are very successful.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Ronnie: absolutely effective, and I never afterwards been needed to be spanked for behavior at the event.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. I am not one for preventative or maintenance spankings. I just want the real thing and that is what R provides to me on a frequent basis. The blog theme is great and so are the pictures.
    Baxter

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    1. Baxter: let me assure you that a preventative or maintenance spanking is a REAL spanking. It just assures good behavior, as you would not want an even harder spanking possibly on the same day, with a already red and sore bottom.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  3. I started using preventive spankings with L. about two years ago , following your advice (as posted on 22.4.12), but have done so only a few times, partly because a simple warning is usually sufficient (L. has learned to take such 'warnings' seriously !) , and also because I reserve the right to stripe his derrière later, when we get back home, if he ignores my warning and misbehaves during a social gathering.

    J.

    ps : "Maintenance" spankings (which I apply regularly) are also, in a way, "prevent(at)ive" - with the difference that they are used to secure proper behavior at home, rather than 'outside' ...

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    1. J: maintenance as you say is preventative. We just prefer to spank first, and then I can know to relax during the event, fully aware of a sore bottom, and a potential even harder spanking.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. "Double jeopardy", in other words?

      L.

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  4. We call preventative spanking maintenance to remind me to behave. Like what you got I would also receive punishment later if I acted up during a social event. R has a nice way of telling me I'll be punished later by saying, honey we have to talk later OK? That tells me what I'm doing is not acceptable.
    Good post Red.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: honey, we need to talk later would be EXTREMELY effective.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. Such words are particularly effective when used within earshot of some dame that your husband has been 'hitting upon' a bit too obviously, as a reminder of whose backside is likely to be 'hit upon' later !

      J.

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    3. J: he wouldn't DARE!!!
      bottoms up
      Red

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    4. You're right: he wouldn't ! - but that's because he remembers what happened on the two occasions when he did (some years ago)...

      J.

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    5. I also remember how one of those two women giggled when she heard you speak those words !

      L.

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    6. J & L:
      I would have loved to have been there to hear the conversation
      bottoms up
      Red

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    7. There was not much to hear, other than the implied meaning (which is what caused her to giggle). I didn't know her well (friend of friends...), but when I next met her, weeks later, she asked me with a smile how that "talking to" had ended - and I (also smiling) simply replied : "As well as you can imagine"...

      J.

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    8. J: too bad you were so coy, instead of simply stating that his bottom was well spanked for such rude behavior.
      bottoms up
      RED

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    9. I am sure she already knew, because our common friend is well aware of the way I deal with L. - and almost certainly told her about it (which probably explains why she later tried to get more info...

      J.

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    10. J: always nice to keep them guessing
      bottoms up
      RED

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