12.6.14

husband spanked by wife

Some people seem to enjoy reading about when I am spanked, so I will enlighten you of yesterday's activities.

I have been a tad grumpy lately, a certain sign that spanking has disappeared from our life for too long.

Yesterday, Cindy called me to the bedroom in the middle of the afternoon, wonderfully attired in only skimpy panties. As I romantically approached, she said that first I needed to be spanked.

Thus, with the trusty wooden hairbrush, I found myself bare bottom over her outstretched legs, with her back against the bed frame. This is not our usual OTK position, but it gives Cindy a  much greater  capability of spanking more of my bottom, and the top of my legs, as when she sits on a chair.
The spanking began with solid slow hard spanks, and a slow reminder of how wonderful our life is, and all the blessings we have. Rapid spanks then changed the tempo with many on the same spot until that foot would start dancing, then the same medicine to the other cheek.
By the time Cindy decided the spanking was complete, my bottom and tops of my legs were very sore. I thanked her for the spanking, and we then proceeded to make scrumptious love. Cindy is becoming more dominant in our love making, and I am becoming more submissive. Cindy used nightshades to cover my eyes, and then proceeded to take charge. She loves sucking and licking my nipples, before moving on to doing the same with my erection. At a certain point, I insist on orally pleasing her, and have great enjoyment doing likewise with her, until she has a fabulous orgasm, after which we fuck until I orgasm.
Cindy has promised more this week, as we have friends coming for dinner, that are great friends, but I need to be spanked before they arrive so as to overlook  if they talk forever on something that is so very unimportant.

bottoms up
Red

56 comments:

  1. Don't know about other wives, but sex afterwards, far from it. I'm standing facing the wall, time varies, she is not in the mood. All my spankings are otk, she feels the straight back chair provides what she is looking for, a firm bare bottom across her lap, the hand and the hairbrush are truly felt and I can attest to that. I kick and squirm, beg, then finally crying for her to stop. So anything sexual, she is not interested and told me women who spank their husbands, don't have sex with the naughty little boy afterwards. Jacob

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    1. Yup. Same here. Red is one lucky bot though.

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    2. Jacob and sub hub: yes, i am one lucky and happy guy. Sex does not occur every time, but most, whereas on the spot corrections are brief and to the point and then back on with life with whatever was being done at the moment.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    3. I have to stretch across a table for my spanking. It's always on my bare cheeks with a hairbrush. Then I also have to stand in a corner. Sometimes her friend(s) have come in and seen me in the corner

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    4. Anon: this must be very effective, and embarrassing!
      Red

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  2. Lovely story Red. Like anonymous, sex afterward doesn't happen because my spankings are mostly for punishment that would deter future infractions. I am most commonly spanked in the standing postion with the palms of my hands firmly planted on the wall. Not only that, on the rare occasion that the spanking is foreplay for sex, it is highly unlikely that I would be allowed the pleasure of an orgasm. Highly unlikely!

    All that said, I loved your story.

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    1. sub hub: everyone has their own ideas of spanking. Ours is to solve a problem, but also to enjoy life, as when I was younger my penis would jump back to life immediately after being spanked, whereas now it takes only the slightest of romantic encouragement
      bottoms up
      Red

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  3. Been spanked for 20 years, and from what I read in the post, he was a tad grumpy. Although the spanking hurt and Red was doing the spanking dance, I would put this spanking in the area of "reminder" to change his actions before he earns punishment. When I'm punished oral sex for her is OK but I get no release just display time. "reminder" or "maintenance" is usually followed by wonderful sex. I do have a question does Cindy every give warm up spanking? and how do you feel about it?
    archedone

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    1. archedone: not every spanking ends in making love, but fortunately most do. Warm-up is minimal at best, usually just hard spanks until done.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. This begs the question of how sharp a "warm up" spanking may be! J. (and N. before her) used to start the session with a simple (yet vigorous) hand spanking -and still do, sometimes - but as my derrière got "seasoned", both ended up starting the session with a wooden spoon or a hairbrush... and then to proceed with other "tools" of their choice !

      L.

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    3. L: never hurt the hand, when more effective implements suround us within the house.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    4. True enough, but there are still plenty of occasions when I choose to use my hand (for my own satisfaction, as a quick reminder - or "just because"! - ) but, of course, always "on the bare"! Nothing too drastic, but it serves to make a point - or to let him know that more may be in store !...

      J.

      J.

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    5. Your hand, my dear, can be as hard as wood!

      L.

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    6. Cindy hurt her finger once while spanking me, so has always used an implement since. (could i make a joke about BUNS of Steel)
      bottoms up
      Red

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  4. It's fun to read how Cindy is becoming more dominant. Slowly adding elements of dominance in and meshing it well with your spankings. Matt

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    1. matt: spanking is a definite way to solve a problem, and Cindy is a great problem solver
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. Does Cindy play tennis? J. does - and it makes for a powerful wrist (which is what matters most !)

      L.

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    3. Lucky for you, Red!

      J.

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  5. Our marriage is great and so is our sex life--but on the rare occasion I get my bare butt paddled---sex is not in the picture AT ALL Its a punishment paddling I got it coming i admit--it sure hurts my bare butt! Steve

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    1. Steve: everyone has their own methods.. Our is punishment, but also foreplay some of the time
      bottoms up
      red

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  6. It does not happen often--but I get my bare butt paddled once in a while with in a very good marriage----It is not erotic or teasing ----I have pushed her too far and she is angry----so my bare butt gets a damn hard paddling---We agree when its needed and seem to know at the same time when its got to make things right---Since its just between the two of us--there is no shame or embarrassment---MY BUTT HURTS PLENTY

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    1. anon: glad to know you both have a way to solve problems when you are misbehaving.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  7. Today is my husband's 50th birthday. I'll take him for dinner & drinks. When we get home he will get the traditional birthday spanking. We've done it to each other before. Tonight will be different. When he's stretched over a table I'll begin with my hairbrush. However I have arranged for two girlfriends to walk in during the spanking. He will be embarrassed but won't get up since he will be nude from waist down. If they ask (hope they do) I'll. let them spank his cheeks also

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  8. anon:Hopefully you have discussed this possibility with your husband in advance, sometime in the past, and it was agreeable with him. This blog only accepts CONSENSUAL ADULT SPANKING!!!
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. We have discussed it in the past. I don't know if he thought I was serious but he said sure. When I had him across a table the girls came in and he got 50 from the three of us with a hairbrush.

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    2. anon: consensual! Wonderful! I would enjoy the thought, and the experience, but the reality might be very painful.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  9. I am often spanked over the knee of my wife. She is strict with me and every time my behavior is slipping, she takes charge straight away. Sitting on a straight back chair, she bares my bottom and I am told to get over her knees. I am always erect at this point. I am then spanked good and hard with a large wooden bathbrush, that makes my bare bottom bright red and very sore and leaves me crying and sobbing loudly before she stops punishing me. By now my erection is long gone and I only feel how much my bottom stings and burns.
    After my spanking my wife leads me to the corner and has me stand there with my glowing red bottom on display. I am NOT allowed to rub my bottom during my cornertime and if I disobey her, she will take me over her knees again for a repeat doze of the bathbrush. Sex never takes place after a spanking over my wifes knees, but she will take charge later in the bedroom and make my erection reappear to her enjoyment and pleasure

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    1. anon: as it is consensual, this sounds delightful, and an excellent way to maintain good behavior! Personally, I have never cried during a spanking by Cindy, but wold not object if she felt the intensity of the spanking was warranted. Follow-up sex later in the evening is also a wonderful idea.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  10. I was spanked in front of witnesses lots of times but I never got any consultation before hand. My wife just took me by the ear and marched to next convenient place to do the deed at and took my pants panties or ever I was wearing and bared by bottom for a sound old fashioned bare bottom spanking. Using her old hairbrush she will paddle my bottom till I am bawling and kicking but never escaping. She doesn't care who sees me and my very red bottom. Robin

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    1. Robin: the spanking is consensual, in that you are still living together. Being spanked in front of witnesses the first time might have been a problem, so I must assume you either discussed it, or at least acquiesced, and thus the practice has continued. I imagine you are much better behaved now, than before the spankings began with your partner. A wonderful situation in my mind
      bottoms up
      Red

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  11. anonymous wrote, but somehow it got deleted:
    I have to stretch across a table for my spanking. It's always on my bare cheeks with a hairbrush. Then I also have to stand in a corner. Sometimes her friend(s) have come in and seen me in the corner
    anon: effective spankings work, and if you know friends are dropping by, it is wise to improve even more your behavior prior to their visits. When standing in the corner,is your bottom bare?
    bottoms up
    Red

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  12. Hi Red, This is Jan, Robin wife. I have been looking through through the comments of the past and noticed my darling husband has been commenting himself. Well in about 5 minutes he is going to be over my knee getting the hairbrushing of his life till he is bawling like true sissy that he is. Then after he spends an hour in the corner I am going to reheat his bottom with my hair brush so he can have a very uncomfortable seat at the computer and send you a message on how he likes it now. Jan

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  13. Jan: Do have fun! Hopefully Robin has a soft cushion to sit on ehn he writes!
    bottoms up
    Red

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  14. Hi Red, This is Jan again and I thought I would let you know that I took Robin by his ear and marched him into the dining room where I had previously placed a straight back chair. Dragging him over my lap I asked him who gave him permission to write you. He told me you did well naughty, naughty, I guess I will have to talk to Cindy about warming your bottom. Well when I finished up with my hairbrush his bottom was crimson red and he was bawling like a baby. He was doing a serious dance rubbing his naughty tushy when I put his nose in the corner. Then he is going to write 500 times while dressed in his maid uniform "I am a naughty little girl who needs another spanking". I hope you get it too. Jan


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    1. Jan: each couple is different, and in a consensual spanking FLR, Robin receives exactly what you decide is appropriate.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  15. N. started spanking me (playfully at first) even before we married, and went on doing it afterwards -gradually adding more "tools" to her repertoire. J. on the other hand, had already watched N. use some of those "tools" and was ready to follow her m.o. - with a few of her own additions!

    L.

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    1. N; many spanking relationships grow from play to very real spankings, and both parties are consensually involved, making the marriage even more loving.
      bottoms up
      red

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  16. With in a very happy marriage---every so often my wife has to vent her frustration by spanking /paddling my naked butt I have it coming in spades---so no argument from me I shower quick and take the bare spanking right out of the shower and it really does hurt Afterward-- things are once again great between us--It would have to be totally private so as to have no humiliation or shaming effect-- I deserve it but it really hurts on my butt! I must have a really tender bare butt!

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    1. anon: glad to know that spankings work well within your marriage.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  17. I am just curious is Red the moderator of this or does red just like to comment? I enjoy red's comments just wondering thanks

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  18. anon: This is Red, a male, who is spanked. I write the blog, so appreciate everyone who comments, and thus I try to reply to every comment.
    are you spanked
    bottoms up
    Red

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  19. I was not a good husband the first year we were married(although never unfaithful) As it happened we had a big quarrel in the car and my wife got out of the car she was so mad--It was areally long walk home and while I waited i was very sorry and realized it was my fault---When my wife got home she was very angry--I was sincere when I apologized and said "whip my butt cause I got it coming" She had no hesitation and so I stripped down completely and bent over and she paddled but naked butt with a spoon and it hurt like hell on my butt----Very good marriage--but a couple times a y When I am handing her the spanking spoon and baring my now--middle aged butt I am thinking "What a damn fool I am" I do have it coming and it sure hurts

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    1. anon: the good thing is it makes you realize when you have be significantly wrong, and afterwards the problem can be forgotten, but hopefully not repeated. Look at my list of Red's spankings, and that is not all of them, and only for the time frame of when I put that feature into the blog
      bottoms up
      Red

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  20. great wife but is more rleigious and moral --when out with the guys if I have gone to certain places or have too much to drink-- I know I got a bare ass paddling/spanking coming--I quick shower and then just bend over and put my hands flat on the bottom of the bath tub and she spanks and pddles my poor naked butt and it hurts---Other have mentioned sex as part or result of spanking--sex is good within our marriage---but sure not when i got a bare ass spanking coming she is angry and I actually am always a bit nervous right when I bend over and wait for the pain on my bare butt We both know itd\s got to happen

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    1. larryk : best learn form over drinking, so that if it is acceptable that you have a short night out with friends, you get greeted by a happy and loving wife, interested in sex, than having your butt paddled.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  21. My beautiful dominant disciplinarian wife has been spanking me for
    the 25 years of our marriage. She uses a wooden paddle and makes
    me bare my rear end and lay on my stomach length wise on exercise bench in our workout room. When in place my wife secures my head
    between her solid thighs in a standing scissor hold. Her shapely
    strong legs easily and quickly renders me helpless. If I struggle
    she increases the thigh pressure to my neck until I lie perfectly
    still with my bare rear perfectly positioned for the paddle. She
    spanks me until I am in tears and begging her to stop. I drive a
    semi and am physically able to take care of myself. No one knows
    how my wife reduces me to a wimpy obedient attentive husband by
    administering painful spankings.

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  22. anon; thanks for sharing your views on spankings by your wife. 25 years means the spankings have solved many a problem, to allow the love to keep shining brightly
    bottoms up
    Red

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  23. Hi Red, my name is Becky. My husband showed me the August 2 post
    of the spankings that husband has experienced for 25 years from
    his dominant disciplinarian wife in being positioned over bench
    with his head locked in standing scissor hold. This has prompted
    me to relate how I spank my husband Ron. I employ a very similar
    method. Ron is addicted to my shapely strong legs so I decided
    shortly after our marriage that when I spank him I am going to
    use my legs just so he experiences momentary pleasure before the
    pain. My husband had athletic scholarship to Division 1 school
    and is currently high school football coach. Because he is macho
    it gives me tremendous physical stimulating sexual satisfaction
    reducing him to a weakling. When I administer a spanking I will
    wearshorts, top and high heels. He is ordered to remove his pants
    and to lay on his stomach across the cedar chest at foot of our bed. I then secure his head and neck between my shapely strong bare legs in a crushing scissor hold. As he gasps for air I ease the tension slightly and tell him to lie perfectly still that he
    cannot get loose. As he remains helpless I berate him verbally then take the wooden paddle to his rear end. As he whimpers like a child and begs me to stop spanking him and to unlock his neck from between my legs I enjoy a satisfying orgasm. I free his neck
    from the scissor hold and have him lie on the bed where I tease himby stroking and sucking his penis until he has an orgasm. It is my way of rewarding Ron for enduring the pain and suffering from the spanking. Ron, will be a very attentive obedient husband
    until he does something stupid that warrants a spanking.


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    1. Becky: Glad that spanking Ron works for both of you. Sounds both frightening and delightful, as are most spankings.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  24. HI Red, My name is Jimmy and I am a spanko who get regular spankings before sex. These spankings are never disciplinary and are exciting for me. Well last Friday that all came to halt. My wife and my MIL were at the mall when I was getting bored. I finally told them in a very loud voice that it was time to go but I emphasized it with a few curse words embarrassing the both in front of the other shoppers. On the drive home my wife told me that we needed to have a talk. As soon as we entered the house she took me by the ear and led me to a arm less chair and pulled me over lap. She called to her mom to drag my pants down as to bare my bottom. My wife held me down and gave me a serious scolding while her mom fetched the hairbrush. She started spanking my bottom not sparing my bottom for a second raining spanks till I was totally red. By now I was bawling like a baby. I then pulled up her mother replaced her with the hairbrush and over her knee I went. She started spanking me and I good tell she had given these before. I was soon begging her to stop calling her mommy and sounding like a little girl. She finally let me up spanking all the way to the corner. I finally stopped bawling as I sucked the tears back standing there all red eyed. The girls were very proud of the there handy work as I promised to never do any thing like this again. My MIL took great delight spanking my bare bottom and told me it would not be the last time.

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  25. Hi Red, let me share a painful, embarrassing, humiliating spanking I got from my wife and her sister. It happened 20 years ago with
    my wife age 32 and her sister age 28. Both my wife and her sister
    were knock out beautiful with sensuous figures and legs to die for. Her sister was single and visiting for weekend. We had been
    sunbathing on the patio when my wife informed her sister that I
    was to be spanked for what I had done. My wife asked her sister
    if she would like to participate in the spanking to which she
    replied yes. I learned from my many spankings to obey my wife and
    comply with her wishes or be denied exploding satisfying sex. My
    wife led me into rec room off patio and removed felt ping pong
    paddle from table and ordered me to lie lengthwise on piano bench
    telling her sister to stand near my head. As I was in position my
    wife told her sister to render me helpless. She pressed down on
    middle of my back keeping me in place as my wife began spanking
    my lightly clad rear. After a few spanks the pain caused me to
    jerk up breaking clear of her sisters hands on my back. Without
    saying a word her sister forced me back down on bench and shoved
    my head between her thighs locking my neck in a crushing standing
    scissor. Her legs were unbelievably strong and as she increased
    the pressure to my neck I began gagging for air and pleading for
    her to stop squeezing. She told me to lie perfectly still and she
    would not increase the scissor pressure. My wife was giggling in
    seeing what her sister was doing to me. As I lay helpless with my
    neck in her sister's thigh vise my wife straddled my legs that
    extended over her end of the piano bench and clamped them tightly
    between her thighs. It was the most embarrassing and humiliating
    feeling I have ever experience in being rendered helpless by two
    females legs. Needless to say in that position my wife gave me a
    severe spanking so painful my fanny was on fire and tears rolled
    down her sister's defined calf muscles. When my wife stopped the
    spanking her sister asked if she could give me a few whacks. So
    they switched positions and my wife secured my neck between her
    thighs and her sister my legs between her legs and gave me about
    ten stinging spanks on each cheek. When they let me free I told
    my wife how sorry I was for what I had done and how I will never
    forget the spanking she and her sister had given me. From that
    spanking her sister has often winked at me and whispered in my
    ear that if I didn't behave she would secure my neck between her
    legs and give me a spanking in front of family or friends. It has
    never happened and I pray it won't for I know she would do as she
    threatened and there would be nothing I could do to prevent it.

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  26. reading august 17 story of wife and her sister spanking husband I
    am wondering why isn't the copy (story) running across page from
    right margin to left margin like all the other storied experiences
    I have a spanking experience to tell but need to know how to type
    it in the comments so it flows margin to margin.

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  27. Jimmy: guess you have progressed to the wonderful situation, of both fun spankings, but when necessary discipline spankings. Best be careful in front of your MIL

    anon; interesting to read, whether true or imaginary. Best behave a bit better.

    anon2: no idea,. everything I type automatically fills. could be the device they are using.
    bottoms up
    Red

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  28. J. told her sister (B.) about the way she spanked me - and also about how she knew how my late wife spanked me - even before we actually married.
    B. actually attended our wedding - and, before heading back to France, was invited to join my new wife in delivering a (relatively mild) spanking. It wasn't long, however, before - when we first visited her in Burgundy - the two of them decided to share the task of "training" me with the help of the martinet, the strap - and the switches they cut when we were in the nearby woods! This was repeated (and has been for a number of years) when B. comes to visit - whether for Thanksgiving or Christmas...

    L.

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    1. L; I wondered when J told her sister, and it was before you were married. Thanks for sharing.
      Red

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