Thus, we had a little discussion of my needing to be spanked more often, just for pleasure, as opposed to because I have done something wrong. Cindy has a little difficulty understanding this, but is agreeable. The question that you have not done anything to merit being spanked, was replied with the idea that I could deliberately do something to annoy her, and would be spanked for it, but I'd rather not upset her just to be spanked.
I must say that being spanked for a specific reason has removed a lot of our everyday annoyances, as little things that annoyed Cindy have been corrected (closing closet doors, kitchen cupboards, leaving clothes lying on chairs, leaving the toilet seat up, etc...)
Thus, the idea would be at least one weekly spanking, simply as a maintenance warning to keep up the good behavior.
I also (topping from the bottom for certain), asked that Cindy start going through our repertoire of spanking implements, thus increasing the variety of feel and her displaying some dominance in choosing the implement to spank me with. We agreed to implement this soon.
The follow-up to the discussion... later that day, Cindy had a refreshing bath, put on sexy lingerie, retrieved two spanking implements( the leather finger strap, and a leather solid strap), then called me to the bedroom.
First, after some cuddling and necking,
When Cindy tired, she stated that the spanking was finished, wherein, we then started to cuddle and caress and kiss, while I thanked her, and then proceeded to glorious love making and orgasms for each of us....
So, a New Year's resolution worth keeping! (and thanks to Ronnie)
Did you make any New Year's Resolution?
Consider doing it now, it is never too late! :)