9.1.14

spanking and making love once again

In  considering Ronnie's New Year Resolution of hoping to be spanked more often, I am going to try to adopt this also.

Thus, we had a little discussion of my needing to be spanked more often, just for pleasure, as opposed to because I have done something wrong. Cindy has a little difficulty understanding this, but is agreeable. The question that you have not done anything to merit being spanked, was replied with the idea that I could deliberately do something to annoy her, and would be spanked for it, but I'd rather not upset her just to be spanked.

I must say that being spanked for a specific reason has removed a lot of our everyday annoyances, as little things that annoyed Cindy have been corrected (closing closet doors, kitchen cupboards, leaving clothes lying on chairs, leaving the toilet seat up, etc...)

Thus, the idea would be at least one weekly spanking, simply as a maintenance warning to keep up the good behavior.

I also (topping from the bottom for certain), asked that Cindy start going through our repertoire of spanking implements, thus increasing the variety of feel and her displaying some dominance in choosing the implement to spank me with. We agreed to implement this soon.

The follow-up to the discussion... later that day, Cindy had a refreshing bath, put on sexy lingerie, retrieved two spanking implements( the leather finger strap, and a leather solid strap), then called me to the bedroom.

First, after some cuddling and necking,
and then it was panties down, and I was OTK, for a significant session with the finger strap, which had my feet dancing and verbally owwwing.
Cindy then permitted me to get up, and we adjusted position such that I was kneeling on the chair with my bottom sticking out for the strap.
Cindy really enjoyed this, and I could see her, out of the corner of my eye, bringing her arm way way back and then swinging through strongly... which totally took my attention away from her efforts and towards the resulting flame on my bottom....

When Cindy tired, she stated that the spanking was finished, wherein, we then started to cuddle and caress and kiss, while I thanked her, and then proceeded to glorious love making and orgasms for each of us....

So, a New Year's resolution worth keeping! (and thanks to Ronnie)

Did you make any New Year's Resolution?

Consider doing it now, it is never too late! :)
bottoms up
RED

12 comments:

  1. This is a great resolution! I also crave more spanking and have suggested that perhaps a regular weekly spanking could be scheduled since I have also made my best effort to correct behaviors that would warrant spanking. Also, my wife is not really into disciplinary spanking, so if it could be considered "fun" for me she might be more inclined. She, like Cindy, has a little trouble understanding why I could possibly want this done, but she tries to keep me happy.
    I will have to suggest this as a New Years resolution.

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    1. Mr Bill: good luck... a maintenance spanking (also could be called a reward spanking), to ensure that all goes well in the coming week, and no one is unhappy. Cindy sometimes in the past got more upset scolding, than she was when she began the spanking... so we dropped scolding for quite some time.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. Aside from "disciplinary" spankings or whippings (i.e. as punishment for a specific breach), J. firmly believes in the need for "reminder" or "just because..." sessions - which means I never have to "ask for..." and that New Years "resolutions" would be redundant!

    L.

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  3. I hope Cindy finds giving you pleasure spanking, enjoyable for her also. I have been receiving pleasure or as we call it maintenance spanking for years. For us maintenance accomplishes many things. 1 I get spanked for no reason other than she feels like giving me one. 2 maintenance is given with all our implements. 3 maintenance is to give me a little sting, and leave me nice and red. 4 maintenance reminds me how each implement feels when used. 5 maintenance reminds me that she is in charge and can spank when she feels like it. With us also very hot sex follows maintenance where punishment no sex is involved. I'm sure Cindy is like R where she gets wet when spanking, which means she does like spanking you and is turned on by it. So why not more spanking just for the fun of spanking.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: Cindy does enjoy spanking me.... and I like number 5
      bottoms up
      Red

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  4. Weekly maintenance is an excellent way to stay connected. Put it in your daytimer, and Cindy's too!

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. hermione: good idea.. thanks
      bottoms up
      Red

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  5. Hermione is right, a weekly maintenance spanking would be good for both of you.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    Xx

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    1. Ronnie: upon reflection, I think the spontaneity of a spanking is something to be cherished...the routine is something to be avoided in life... so a better idea is sometime in the next 7 days you will be spanked again, but the clock re-starts after each spanking, Thus, if you are spanked on Tuesday, and again on Friday, you are well aware that Friday at the latest is your next spanking, but it could be anytime before then.
      And, just a question, is Hermione slowly getting into punishment spankings, like you did?
      bottoms up
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  6. my wife and I talk about my getting spanked a lot. when we are out grocery shopping onthe weekend, she always drives. When I make a hiss or other noise about her driving, she informs me I will be spanked for it. Sometimes I tell her that because SHE did something, she should spank me and she agrees. She enjoys spanking me and I enjoy being spanked. Last weekend she was using an old leather belt and she got up to around 12 and said she would spank to the next prime number.She would stop and ask if I wanted more and I would wiggle my butt and say yes and up to the next prime number. We stopped around 31 and my butt hurt and was very red. We both enjoyed it and I could feel it for a couple of days. So yes at least once or twice on the weekends will be a spanking for me. Sometimes during the week also, if I am motivated.
    Baxter

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    1. Baxter: a perfect relationship, maybe you should go from perfect number to perfect number...
      bottoms up
      Red

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