6.12.13

thoughts about your future

thoughts for today: it is NEVER too late to begin a spanking routine in your life with your partner!!!
and once begun, you will not be able to get away with things like in the past
Oonce your partner has discovered the magic a spanking does in correcting your behavior...., you will not be able to avoid it... and even worse...
 
now, you know this is for your own good
 so both my hand
 and then the paddle
bottoms up
Red

14 comments:

  1. Seeing an older woman as more than just a friend was great, but it was her best friend that I soon learned met what she said. On a few occasions she said what I needed was a trip across her lap, knowing her friend would not do it. A weekend at the beach and I learned quickly she met what she said. I had stepped out of the shower and was greeted by my wonderful lady I was seeing, she smiled and helped me dry off and said to just wrap a towel around myself and follow her, I smiled and said sure, it was not to the bedroom but the kitchen and to my shock her friend who was staying the weekend sat in the middle of the kitchen and I stop in my track, my lady friend soon pulled the towel off and with a grip very strong I soon was standing before her friend, but not for long. I was over her lap, and soon felt the sting of her hand on my bare bottom. I held back as long as I could and soon was squirming, kicking my feet and pleading for her to stop. When she did stop I was told to stand facing the wall and best not move. Naked, crying, sore bottom I did as told. Finally the lady friend took hold of my arm and off to the bedroom we went, she closed the door and before I knew it, back over her lap, and this time the hairbrush was stinging my already sore bottom. Boy did I cry and plead, no use, she really warmed my bottom and when we went back to the kitchen she handed the hairbrush to my lady friend and I look at her. Over my lap she said sternly, but I pleaded, no buts young man and she pulled me over her lap and for the next several minutes she applied that brush firmly. I stood facing the wall, crying and wanting to rub, could not.
    When the weekend was over and we went back home, she informed me this would not be the last spanking she gave and I knew she met it. A month passed and I was good and then I messed up and that spanking was the worse I ever had.
    When her friend visited a couple of weeks later she thank her for showing her the right way and said she felt good doing it,

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    1. anon: glad to know of your interesting introduction into being spanked. Hope the relationship develops into something long-term, with the occasional spanking as needed.
      bottoms up
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  2. In our relationship, it was I that had requested she spank me. It started as stress relief and anger management. At first she was reluctant to spank, but soon found she loved spanking me. Today all of the pictures posted fit our relationship. I don't even have to be stressed or upset her to get spanked, sometimes she just feels like spanking me and I'm sent to fetch the implements she will be using. Then it's time to present my bare bottom and accept the spanking. No not complaining, I'm glad she feels that way.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: sounds like the perfect relationship to me, solving problems, reducing stress, and enjoying life
      bottoms up
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  3. I have a similar experience to archedone. I asked my wife to spank me early on in our marriage and she didn't do it. It was maybe 8-9 years ago she agreed to do it whenever I asked and she actually now looks forward to it. She will bring it up when we are out shopping or anytime that she thinks I need a spanking. Sometimes I take her by the hand to the lower back room and hand her an implement and bare my bottom and she does the rest. a happily married couple should do for the other what they want done, within limits of course, and R says she likes spanking me. This coming Tuesday we will be celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary and I am looking for at least a 30 stroke spanking. :)
    Baxter

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    1. baxter: I totally agree, and congratulation son your anniversary... Should be many more spanks than thirty, because so many years of non-spankings to make up for. now I wonder how many spanks if one for the first year, then 2 for the second year, then 3 for the third year...
      bottoms up
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  4. Baxter if I may comment on your comment, first happy anniversary and for something like anniversary's, birthdays, I also get spanked but we have about 9 different implements and each one gets applied to my presented bottom. I hope she uses a few different ones on your bottom.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: sounds like a plan to me...
      bottoms up
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  5. "Never too late?" OK - but, better yet, "never too early"! Even before we were married, fresh out of college, N. (whom I had spanked a few times - rather playfully) decided to turn the tables, and soon claimed exclusive rights - and made sure to enforce them with increasing frequency (as well as by experimenting with a growing range of "tools")

    L.

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    1. L: You are very fortunate that N changed the game plan,so that you are spanked! :)
      bottoms up
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    2. When I met N., she liked to wear tight-fitting "pencil skirts" hemmed at the knee - which offered a perfect target... Miniskirts came later (and were even more "inciting") but, by that time, the "game plan" had been changed, and she was spanked more and more infrequently... whereas my derrière was on the receiving end two or three times a week.

      This regimen actually suited both of us - and by the time J. and I were married, I had been thoroughly trained...

      L.

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    3. L: it has worked out well for J to have you mostly but never completely trained
      bottoms up
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    4. You are right: men are never "completely trained", and they need to get frequent 'reminders'... with variable frequency, I guess - but, in our case, the pattern that N. had followed (2 - 3 times a week) seems appropriate - with some occasional "high intensity" spells, such as summer vacations - or like, at this time of year, during the "Twelve Days of Christmas"...

      J.

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    5. J: very true, but variety is the spice of life, so I hope you never fall into a predictable pattern!!
      bottoms up
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