19.11.13

grumpy

It happens, sometimes for no reason whatsoever, that one is just worn out, and not seeing the brighter side of life...

It rarely happens for long, and Cindy's remedy does brighten up my bottom, which leads to a better day. Cindy realized the need, and told me to stand in the corner in our bedroom,
and await the spanking she was going to give me. "Think what has caused you to be spanked, how you can avoid it in the future, and the dancing your feet will soon be doing!"

This spanking happened a number of days ago, and was the typical over the knee, bare bottomed, and a wooden bath brush to calm the soul, but brighten the bottom to a rosy deep ruby red.

A little lecture was included, about all the positive things we have in life,
how doing too many things in a day can overwhelm and wear a person down
with the resultant grumpiness
 which is NOT a solution.

The spanking was long, with multiple flurries of spanks, many spanks to the crease between the bottom and the top of the legs, and many many more above that crease, and a few completely below the crease...
By the end of the spanking, with one pause as Cindy rested, before continuing for another significant dose of spanks, my feet had done a merry dance, and my bottom was extremely well spanked.

We did not make love this time after the spanking.

I did feel much better, and the redness lasted for that day and was still a nice shade of red the next day.

Spanking to solve grumpiness works for us.

bottoms up
red

13 comments:

Anastasia Vitsky said...

Ah, a good "stress reliever" can be wonderful, can't it? Enjoy the aftereffects. :)

ronnie said...

Red,

Perfect solution. Works for me as well.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Anonymous said...

The reason for most of my spankings is being grumpy, and mostly that came from stress. Spanking does wonders for stress. Maybe someone should do a study, why is it a dancing red bottom and kicking feet relieve stress? Cindy did you a favor and I hope you thanked her after the spanking. If you didn't you deserve another one.
archedone

Red said...

Anastasia: Extremely therapeutic
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

Ronnie: totally agree, it is a mood changer, and was needed.
bottoms up
Red

Red said...

archedone: I always thank her for my spankings, and they work wonders for a better temperament.
bottoms up
Red

Baxter said...

Spankings are a wonderful aspect of life between R and myself. She is ready at almost anytime to apply one of her paddles to my bare bottom and the mood certainly clears up. The after effect of a spanked bottom are always enjoyable.
Baxter

Anonymous said...

Darn Red I was hoping you didn't thank Cindy so she could spank you again LOL. In truth I always thank R also.
archedone

Red said...

Baxter: What a wonderful relationship you have with your partner
bottoms up
RED

Red said...

archedone: always be polite, you can earn enough spankings even when you are trying to avoid them.
bottoms up
RED

Anonymous said...

L. is seldom "grumpy" (having learned long ago what it might entail!), but tardiness, slovenliness, insubordination - or simply a sassy comment- are the most common reasons why his derrière gets tanned! That's why I like to always have the martinet, the wooden spoons (and, of course, the switches soaking under the counter!) ready for immediate use at the slightest occasion!

J.

Red said...

L: spanking is the solution for being grumpy.
bottoms up
Red

Anonymous said...

It is amazing how my husband’s mood changes following a vigorous application of my Scottish tawse to his bare bottom, followed by a dozen strokes of the cane. We have an agreement that at the first sign of grumpiness a spanking is scheduled and an appointment is set up when he will be required to undress and wait for me in the bedroom when I will have him over my lap for a good handwarming. He then has to go into the living room for the main event as I think the bedroom might convey connotations of sex, and at this point I want to separate any ideas of sex in his mind. He knows he has to be punished for disrespect and grumpiness early in the game before hostility or bad feelings have a chance to get hold. I tell him to go and wait for me and to first lay out the implements on the coffee table and to place himself over the back of the armchair with his bottom bared and ready for the much needed attention it will be receiving. When I come into the room I will lecture him on his behaviour and remind him that I love him enough not to allow negative behaviour to cause me upset or impact our relationship in any way. Because of this a good spanking is needed and necessary. I didn’t always spank hard and he often enjoyed the attention, but those days are long gone as a spanking is meant to hurt and so long as its on the bottom there is no harm done, but hurt feelings do not recover as quickly. We are both in agreement on that. He is required to count each stroke and say thank you, this way I can tell by his voice how effective I am being. He is not allowed to get up unless I tell him and when I do I will always hug him and remind him that I love him. He will tell me he loves me and thank me for the spanking. We both feel calmer and less stressed out and feel a strong bond between us. I do not get any sexual satisfaction from spanking but do enjoy the sense of power and watching his bottom get redder! For us, spanking works. It is a de-stressor for both of us and has probably helped us stay married for forty years. I should add that I am also spanked when I deserve it, but fortunately for me, that is not often, and I believe it is much better to give than to receive! My hubby is a better person because of it and we both have great deal of respect for each other.

Scotslass