5.8.13

SPANKED (well and Truly)

Stress has been a major headache for us for a week now, and we did not handle it well. I am not certain if it is age that makes things more stressful, and I will not go into the details.

The situations causing the stress  have been reasonably handled, and yesterday I asked Cindy to give me a significant spanking, and she was only so very happy to oblige. I explained that she should spank hard, use a number of different implements, in different positions,  and probably do 12 spanks or multiples of twelve for each implement.

I needed to get past the stress, as did she...

Cindy went to take a freshen up bath, and I retrieved

The "old reliable" from the DWC,
a lexan paddle with holes in it,
the heart shaped metal studded leather paddle
and the magnastrap from the dwc (please note the disciplinarywivesclub no longer sells implements)
First it was over the knee for a very long dose of  old reliable.... Cindy used it for twelve spanks in the same spot on one cheek, then moved to the other cheek to repeat the same, followed by many more spanks moving all over my bottom, as I was feet dancing and owwing throughout. I have no idea how many multiples of 12 I received, and doubt that Cindy was even counting. this was as strong as she has ever used old reliable.

I was permitted to stand up, as Cindy reached for the lexan paddle. Bending at the waist, with hands on the chair to support my back,Cindy did at least two multiples of twelve with this paddle, and she really found her rhythm and strength, as my bottom swayed in the breeze and my legs had me squirming, in the false attempt to lessen the sting... Stay still, and then another round with the paddle.
I hope you are learning from this, as Cindy stopped, and exchanged the paddle for the leather heart shaped metal studded paddle. It was decided I should be lying on the bed, with a pillow under my hips to raise my bottom even further.
I have no idea how many multiples of twelve occurred, because neither of us were counting, and Cindy proceeded to blister every inch of my bottom, and the top of my legs. This evil  paddle has a tip, and it repeated landed between my cheeks, thus no part of my bottom was spared.

Cindy then permitted me to rise, and suggested I look in the mirror, as she picked up the last implement. My bottom was fire engine red, with some small bruise marks where the tip of the last paddle had landed too often in the same place. The look of my bottom did not deter Cindy from her mission.

Standing mostly upright, Cindy stated that I should count the strokes, and she really applied twelve strong strokes, even harder than the lexan paddle, and with am implement much more intimidating..
When Cindy stated the spanking was over, I thanked her for the spanking, and hoped that everything was now okay for us... We cuddled and kissed...

and then slowly and lovingly made love, which was fabulous.

This happened over a week ago, and my bottom would be red each day after a shower for two days after, and sore for another day...

Spankings help eliminate stress... but we should use them more often when the first hint of stress occurs...

bottoms up
Red

16 comments:

  1. Really good account. You must have been pleased with the stress relief. It all sounds very enjoyable,if sore.

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    1. michael: you are absolutely correct
      bottoms up
      rEd

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  2. There is nothing like a stress relief spanking. R and I believe in the use of many different positions with all implements taking part in relieving the stress. I'm surprised that Cindy didn't tell you that a spanking was called for. R would not have waited, when she sees things building up, her comment is "do you need a spanking?" and lowering my head I always say yes. But in some cases I have gone to her and asked for spanking. Good description of the events Red.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: glad you liked the description, and i find it hard to say yes to the question: "do you need a spanking". but I should reply yes... might be best if Cindy is thinking this for her to simply say: "you need a spanking.. and then proceed with that thought".
      bottoms up
      Red

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  3. Yes, you're right, archedone, I should have initiated the spanking. But I certainly got into it once I did get started!
    Cindy

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    1. I agree Cindy you did indeed get into it, and not only relieved his stress, but also the stress he caused you. Those not into spanking, have no idea how spanking can improve their lives and actually make couples more loving.
      On that I speak from experience.
      archedone

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    2. Cindy: thanks for looking at the blog, and leaving a comment.. and thanks for stating you will initiate spankings more often..
      archedone: guess you are landing me OTK more often.. thanks .. I guess.. but it does make us more loving, if that is possible
      bottoms up
      Red

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  4. Can't beat spanking for stress relief. Very good account.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Ronnie: we definitely think alike
      bottoms up
      red

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  5. Red, that was a terrific account, makes me feel like I was watching it unfold! As many others have indicated already, spankings as stress relief are incredibly effective for both the spanker and the spanked, and I would even say that more of those occur in our house than any other kind at this stage of our lives. Yeah, as you say, maybe it's age, or maybe we just live in really trying times, but the stress levels are way up. I do know the signals, and I initiate those stress relief spankings when I see they are warranted on his part. Also, on mine - when I feel my own internal pressure relief valve is about to burst, I pull his pants down and take it out on him. Ahhh, there goes the pressure and here comes the relief, then the closeness. Hisboss

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    1. hisboss:
      it definitely works for both, whenever either he simply needs to be spanked, or when you simply need the relief of spanking him.. However, the stress in life is self induced, we do not have World war 11, or Vietnam, and we need to strive to be happy
      bottoms up
      red

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  6. It works as it seems to reduce stress for both parties and bring them closer together, but just don't know why.

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    1. anon: seems like I should volunteer to do a research project with newlyweds on the benefits of marital spankings...
      bottoms up
      red

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  7. I think I will initiate more spankings of my bottom. I have a great deal of stress at work and I think a good bare ass spanking by my wife would work wonders. Great idea Red.
    Baxter

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    1. Baxter: ask and you have a very good chance of receiving...
      bottoms up
      red

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  8. My wife and I work together as well, as of course, living together--People are amazed how great we always get along so well---We do --but there is one thing they do not know--Rarely I get my bare butt paddled by my wife---and my butt hurts plenty. She handles stress well and sometimes when i do not handle stress well--and act out we both know at the end of the day when all have gone home---I shower, and go over her lap naked as thev day I was born and she paddles my bare butt and I am the sorriest guy you know--there is never any argument about the fact i earned a paddling--there is reallyt little conversation or discussion--We both know i got it coming and she has to do it----When people comment about how successful our business is I always say "Its more my wife's doing then mine" I should add---but do not---and i have the paddled butt to prove it!

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