14.7.13

F/M spanking fun

Not everything in life goes smoothly, so I recently sent this letter to Cindy
Hi Sweetie:

I think I handled it amazingly well, when you went slightly berserk....

The last time was only on Sunday, when you went over the top about your gym clothes not being washed....
You have the choice: either:

you go over my knee bare bottomed for 20 to 25 proper spanks with the wooden hair brush,  so that maybe next time you are starting to fly off the handle so to speak I can remind you of what happened previously.... and then you will control yourself.... knowing the consequences...
(remember that you once agreed for 20 spanks with the hair brush, just so you could basically ignore me on the cruise ship while reading a book for over two hours in the evening.... so many precedents exist....)
 OR:
you take me over your knee for a longer spanking than you normally give, such that once my feet are doing a good dance for a while, you can pause, look at a watch we will have nearby, and then start spanking again with many spanks of strong intensity for two minutes... or less if I start pleading with you to stop... I would like to experience an intense spanking....

so, whose bottom is it to be

with love making to follow....

ps : just writing this has a very strong sexual reaction on my part... you would say WOW!!!

love always (even when you are flying off the handle...)

Fast forward two days after the letter:

The late afternoon before we were going to have company, Cindy decided it was time for me to be spanked, for fun and sexual foreplay.

As normal, Cindy bathed first, as she always does, to sensually relax in the tub, and think what was to come (on this I am actually guessing).

Cindy had  decided better to spank than be spanked...

The spanking was OTK with Cindy using the wooden hair brush, long and hard, and visiting different parts of my bottom for significant  lengths of time.....  Cindy appreciated my usual reactions of feet dancing and musical yelping.


MY bottom was very red when Cindy finally stopped,
and the ensuing lovemaking was fabulous.

Enjoy life
bottoms up
Red

19 comments:

  1. Good blog Red. My wife has been spanking me now for about five years or so, but always with me bent over the bed, a stool or lying across a pile of pillows. She never wanted to do OTK because she is short with short legs and a belly. But today, she agreed to take me OTK and paddled my bottom very well done. Here it is two hours later and my bottom still stings and it is a great feeling. Looking forward to more OTK from my dear wife.
    Baxter

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    1. Baxter: Glad to know you are trying to find a way for OTK, but the description of your wife should get you one very strong spanking... Time to purchase her a really effective implement..
      bottoms up
      Red

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  2. Sounds like Cindy gave you a good spanking. I'm trying to figure out your thought process. Cindy was wrong and deserved a spanking, but you gave her the choice of accepting one or spanking you. Now she may act up loose control and spank you for it. But in the "end" it's always wonderful to receive a spanking.
    Great photos Red 3 & 4 are very well spanked.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: thinking processes... I do not have any of those... smiling ha ha... Cindy is spanked only when she wants, whereas I always enjoy being spanked..so the thought was she realizes she was wrong, and I get a spanking as a reward... WIN WIN
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. being spanked only when you want is what consensual spanking is about. Also in your case where you always (like me) enjoy being spanked. That is a win win for you.
      There is something about baring your bottom and having her adjusting your position so she has the access she desires.
      archedon

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    3. archedone: I take consensual a little differently... Giving permission in advance that your wife can spank you whenever she feels it is warranted by your behavior, or whenever she is just in the mood to spank you. You do NOT have to say yes, in the middle of a disagreement (argument), you simply have to be prepared to be spanked if she decides to spank you, and you cannot say NO, except for health reasons. There have been a few times when an argument has been solved by my being spanked, and I was not happy about being spanked..., but it solved the problem, no bitterness later, and a day or two later we could not even remember what the argument was about.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  3. My spankings usually occur at the spur of the moment, no matter who is present. A little humiliation can be as good a punishment as the spanking itself.

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    1. anon: very true... and certainly effective in keeping you aware of consequences when with your partner and friends or family
      bottoms up
      Red

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    2. could you please share a story or two about a spanking you got "no matter who is present"? I love the thought of how that happens.... and love thinking about what your female witness might be thinking and feeling as she starts realizing what is about to occur in front of her shocked, but very pretty, smiling eyes thank you

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    3. anon: no idea who the poster was, and my only occasion was a planned spanking with Cindy watching by our friend Danielle... you can read this if you look at the list Red's spankings on the top right of the blog.
      bottoms up
      Red

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  4. I love it when my wife comes home with a slightly bellicose mood, she always says please take a quick shower, I comply, she enters the bathroom as I'm tolweling off & says come to the study, in the study she is sitting in an old fashioned Captains chair & a snap of her fingers she beckons me to get over her knees, I comply and she states this will be a good one & don't ask why, I'll tell you after your thrashing. She starts of rather heavy handed,I start to breathe hard and squeal a bit & she laughs, this is just a warmup the best has yet to come, she says I love to see your bare bottom dance and quiver, it's getting pink now, I shall test my implements, always different, you never know what's next, she orders me to stand in front of desk and has me put my forearms on the desk, then tells me your going to get a good strapping on your bare bottom, don't yell or cry, if you do I'll give you paddling you'll never forget. Whap, whap whap, that strap is hurting and the sound is loud crack, crack she see me lifting off of my toes and even spank me harder with that wide old strap, now I'm shaking and plead with her to relent, instead she increases the strength of the spanking also the temp jumps up, as I do on every spank, she suddenly stops and says turn around, I do and she is smiling, she then says start playing with your self, it pleases me, don't come, if you do I'll make you very sorry, she is really getting off on me playing with self, finally she says you haven't forgot your paddling have you? I state no Maam, she has me bend over the end of the couch and weilds this thick oak paddle and says you will not like this but when your bad you need it. then she qjuickly starts spanking my already sore & red bottom, hard fast spanks all of a sudden I'm twisiting and pleading with her to stop, she puts the paddle down and says I owe you about 10 more and I will collect next time. Then she slowly rubs some cream into my tender bare bottom and comments about how soon It'll be before she does another hard spanking to my bare ass. She then fondles my penis with her hands still full of lotion I"m wiggling and she says don't come or I'll really hurt you, I run to the bathroom but she follows me and spanks me 10 or 12 times on my quivering bare bottom & states no more sniveling or all purchase a whip and tie you up in your sleep and you won't go to work for a week. She then says let me see you come and don't rush it, sit in the chair, I want to see you erupt and how far your cum travels, don't rush it, I slowly stroke my penis and she is really enjoying it, a sly smile enveloping her face, I take it slow and ask her when can I cum, she says whenever you want, soon I'm ready to erupt and she senses it, comes over and tickles my balls and bang, I cum hard and it flies up into her hair, she laughs and we go to the shower and screw like bunnies.

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    1. anon Fascinating story. Thanks for sharing
      bottoms up
      Red

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  5. This was enjoyable, the writing, the spanking, everything involved, I've a good woman and we take turns, usually twice a week. She seems to be able to take a good hard spanking better than I, but it's just great fun we both look forward to.

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    1. anon: fun to know you take turns...
      bottoms up
      Red

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  6. "spanking fun" Interesting thought--In our marriage a bare ass paddling is not all fun---I got it coming in spadees as my wife puts up with a whole lot---but when I get my naked butt paddled it hurts alot and she is angry and I am guilty---and I know my butt is in for it---Still once over things are real good between us so it works--

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  7. anon: I must admit that Cindy lessens the intensity of the spanks when I am reacting, sometimes, so my spankings are not anywhere as severe as one might see on the internet. However, they are effective, clear the air, press re-set on being in a happier frame of mind,and often lead to intense love-making. In our lifestyle, this is a win win situation
    bottoms up
    Red

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  8. Cindy sounds awesome red your a lucky man

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  9. Joe: I am incredibly lucky, and Cindy is awesome.
    thanks for commenting
    bottoms up
    Red

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  10. Thanks Red. I love being spanked
    Ron

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