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F/M : husband requests and receives a spanking

Sometimes I feel like I need to be spanked, when Cindy has not spanked me for a significant time.  Due to family issues, I went about a month without being spanked, and had been spanked only once since everything has calmed down. That was last week, so in my mind one spanking in  about a month and a half.

Thus, I wrote the following email to Cindy yesterday:

"This is easier to write than ask in person...

Please spank me with a significant spanking for the disagreement yesterday.

I can get very dominant when you are perturbed, to avoid being spanked.

Thus, that behavior needs being thoroughly spanked away, although I am afraid it will need a number of repetitions before I learn the lesson.

suggestion: whenever you are even slightly annoyed and briefly think you should be spanking me, take charge and inform me to go get the ... bath brush and a leather strap, or whatever  you want, and bring it to me immediately...  otherwise.. i can out argue  or  become huffy and fluff off your complaint...

i will be happy being more submissive, as my way is not always the right  nor the best way..

As much as we both love sex, you do not have to make love at all after spanking me until the day later or two, whenever you want, with my encouragement always.

You used to spank me harder, where a grey patch appeared on both cheeks, and the redness remained for most of a day, and reappeared the next day after a shower. However, you might after the bath brush use some leather implement, to redden the entire bottom beyond the two circles in the picture. You used to spank a greater area, but please do not use your hand like before, just in case it injures your hand.

So, please, whenever a spanking is needed, do it so that I learn to modify my behavior...

love always"

Well, Cindy followed through on the letter shortly afterwards, in the same day.

Bare bottomed, over her knee, with Cindy wearing leather high heel shoes to elevate her knees, sitting on the spanking chair, and my upper body resting on the bed.... (position used for longer spankings)


First the bath brush.... (why did I ever suggest that) made a reconnection in my spanking life, hard and fast, and many many spanks... leading to a predictable yelping and feet dancing  on my part to show my uninhabited appreciation of Cindy's efforts....  Cindy varied her patterns from many oin one spot to alternating cheeks then back in another spot... and my bottom was on fire...
Cindy then put the bath brush down, and picked up the leather strap, and whaled away at my bottom.
Wow!!!!.. I made no effort to try to count spanks, as my mind was simply a blur of owwing and dancing while being spanked.

Cindy finally stated it was over, and that I could get up. I immediately thanked Cindy for spanking me, and was permitted to look in the mirror. My bottom was on fire, and red in most places

Cindy during the spanking had given me a reason why she was spanking me for misbehavior when we could do nothing about it.

When the spanking was finished, she asked if I felt I needed more spanking, and i suggested that a few more spanks would be useful. I retrieved the dominator, stood upright to give access to top and bottom  of my bottom, and Cindy delivered a hard spank... YOWL!!!! HOWL!!!

Cindy methodically gave I think ten spanks, each of which was received with a howler of pain from me...

When finished, I thanked Cindy, and put the implements away...

I truly felt totally spanked, and LOVED...

My bottom today is still sore, and still shows some red spots...


MORAL of the story: ask and you just might receive....

PS: we made lover later that day, and it was fabulous... but before making love I was again spanked ( a short spanking ) with the implement that Audrey is holding... and it was effective on a already extremely sore bottom

This photo of me:was the one I sent Cindy showing how she sometimes only reddens a portion of my bottom,
whereas this spanking had red everywhere including the top of my legs. And yes, those are the first pair of panties I had ever purchased, a lacy type panties that I find erotic.

PPS: we may still have to deal with two days ago disagreement...


bottoms up
Red

18 comments:

  1. I'm wondering how Cindy felt about this. Did she genuinely enjoy giving a more severe spanking, or was she doing it just to satisfy you?

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    1. anon: probably because i asked... but when she is upset about something, the intensity of the spanking is always much greater.
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      Red

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  2. Anonymous has a good question in most cases. I think I've been following your site long enough to feel if Cindy didn't agree with you and want to spank you, there would not have been a spanking. You wrote her a good letter explaining your feelings and she agreed with you and gave you the spanking you deserved for your actions.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: very true... if Cindy did not gree that a spanking would be worthwhile, no spanking would have occurred.
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      Red

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  3. Baxter wrote: (but somehow it did not appear...
    When I first got my wife spanking me I had to ask for it. But as time has passed, my wife is getting in to ordering me to the spanking room and gets one of her paddles (actually spinning/weaving tools, but effective nonetheless) and tells me to assume the position and says pants up or down and then commences the spanking. The other morning on the way home from the gym, she announced that I was going to get a breakfast spanking and once we got home, still sweaty, into the spanking room we went and she proceeded to give me a real red ass. I still ask for spankings but she has really become proactive in this arena and I am enjoying it.
    Baxter

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    1. Baxter: a proactive wife giving spankings long before you think you need it, keeps you on your toes (so to speak), and is the best manner for a spanking relationship.
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  4. I guess I am "fortunate" to the extent that I never have to ask J. for a spanking - but know that she will 'find quarrel in a straw' and blister my derrière at the slightest occasion (which is the way we both like it...)

    L.

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  5. L: you both are very fortunate to have found each other.
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. Full credit is due to my friend N. who had 'trained' L. - and shown me, on several occasions, how she dealt with his transgressions. I may have added some 'refinements' (and a few extra 'tools'), but he was already used to being sharply disciplined on his bared derrière!

      J.

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    2. J: Training can and must be continually administered for maximum effect.
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      Red

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    3. My feeling, exactly! A woman's work is never done (and my hubby's bottom knows it!)

      J.

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    4. Did I really need to be reminded while I was doing the dishes? And with that kitchen spoon!...

      L.

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    5. Thank heavens for wooden spoons (and spatulas)! They are so convenient and handy when you are doing your chores in the kitchen! And so, of course, is the martinet hanging on the kitchen wall!...

      You should be grateful that I haven't used the riding crop or the rattan cane on your derrière for a while - but I will before we fly to Paris in a few days, so that B. can see the marks on your backside when we get to her place... And you know what the two of us have in store for you!...

      J.

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    6. J: enjoy Paris, and specially the wine... sipping a glass while B attends to your hubby
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  6. Red, I don't know if you will see this post but I had to come back to it and post again. Looking at the picture you sent Cindy, I have to agree she spanked your left cheek much more and maybe harder. Your right cheek is just a little red. When Robin spanks me my entire bottom is red. By the way nice panties. My wife won't let me wear that style, but I'd love to.
    archedone

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    1. archedone: Well, if your wife won't let you wear them, you could always get a pair and put them on whenever you want to be spanked (just kidding) . This is the first type I bought many years ago, and Cindy was quite SHOCKED when first I wore them... she does not mind at all now... Only a portion of my bottom is red, as normally Cindy uses wood, and it could damage bone... so she spanks the meatier parts of my bottom.
      PS: all comments get sent to my yahoo account, and that is how I find comments on older parts of the blog... after a certain date they need my approval, which also alerts me to the comments
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      Red

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  7. Like I assume a lot of men, I wish I were in a relationship where I was spanked.

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    1. anon; best to find a partner you love, and then see if this can be a part of the relationship. Better to love and be loved, than just to be spanked
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